EPT[Boys Blog] Friendzoning - Page 2
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POiNTx
Belgium309 Posts
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EtherealDeath
United States8366 Posts
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Release
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babylon
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
 , in the right places. This is chauvenistic, yeah its shallow, but girls do it too. I doubt you have ever heard girls not talk about how they want a dude with a large penis, or even more popular, height and fitness, its pretty similar, its not like that will make or break a relationship, but its something some girls look for also. IF you look at it from that superficial way, you will pretty much get as many hook ups as you want, and you will pretty much understand how most relationships work. Now if you want a "mature" relationship, that requires personality as well, and that is kind a more difficult thing to pin point, opposites attract for flings but birds of a feather fly together for long term things. IF you like this guy, just go and kiss him and tell him you do, don't make your life and his life hard, by telling him on fb and not talking to him unless he says yes. In my post I'm assuming you are about 13 since you said young, if you are about 17-20 I'm sure you get my post a bit more since most of it comes with time. | ||
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Sinensis
United States2513 Posts
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Cowpieguy
United States97 Posts
Thanks for writing this blog! It's always nice to hear from the female population here on tl. | ||
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AnachronisticAnarchy
United States2957 Posts
Disregard the surprise sex people. Unless you're butt ugly, you should basically just tell him that you like him. Of course, you would need to do this after he gets over Chloe, as he will be too distracted by his attraction towards her to care about other options that much. You could also play the waiting game, and wait for him to ask you out. Your choice. Also, your english is pretty good for a non-native speaker. | ||
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Chriscras
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FFGenerations
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hkf
Australia354 Posts
On August 06 2012 11:25 Sinensis wrote: I've never read a boy blog I don't even know how to respond. Most girl blogs can be resolved simply by "manning up." Do I tell you to man up? Does "manning up" even apply here? womaning up grow some ovaries etc | ||
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Scarecrow
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Turbovolver
Australia2396 Posts
On August 06 2012 13:12 Scarecrow wrote: Guys heavily value looks over compatibility/personality/intelligence, especially early when they're single, horny and looking. Later in relationships it becomes a lot more balanced. If you can somehow get him to see you in a sexual way then the rest should be cake cause he already likes you for everything else. Yeah, which is why people were suggesting the surprise sex. Shame all the weird white knights had to come and try to show how understanding of women they are and ruined it. Guys are generally way less picky than girls, as evolution dictates they should be. They respond very highly to demonstrations of interest from girls, especially nerdier, shyer guys. | ||
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ampson
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Shock710
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FFGenerations
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Intr3pid
Switzerland336 Posts
- Describing the girl of his dreams that is like you means he really likes you. He doesn't have the balls to tell it straight out so he is trying to get some positive reaction when he says that. Something that might give him a hint that he is the boy of your dreams too. He is desperately trying to get information that you like him too, so that he can eventually muster up the courage to tell you how he feels. The best thing to go about such remarks in my experience is humour. 'So the girl of your dreams is me with big breasts'. That might kick the conversation in the right direction. - Now the second sign he is sending is the fact he is telling you that he is in love with another girl. He is very likely not, he is just trying to make you jealous (well succeeded). So my advice is this: Just try to tilt the conversation to this subject when you are together by asking questions: - Do you think I should dress/behave differently to be more attractive to guys? - Would you like a girl to ask you out on a date? - Do you think good friends can make a good couple? - If you have the balls, you can just tell him that you like him, and that you were wondering what it would be like to be more than friends. Good luck girl! | ||
zatic
Zurich15361 Posts
Your turn. | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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slam
United States923 Posts
Are you afraid if it doesn't work out then being friends will be awkward afterwards and the friendship will no longer be the same? Maybe he feels the same? That is the friend zone. :\ It's not a bad thing, just treasure your friendship and be happy with that relationship. | ||
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