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Alright, I'm writing this blog at 6:30 in the morning, I've been up all night because I had some friends over and I have to keep up my reputation as the guy who always goes to sleep last.
Now I showed my friend an anime called Kiss x Sis, basically the entire premise is that this boy's stepsisters, stepsisters mind you, they are not related by blood in any sort of way, are in love with him. Now for whatever reason, his parents are completely find with his two twin older stepsisters, who, as expected in any anime drama, are completely hot, wanting to marry their stepbrother, obviously not both of them can marry him, but this blog is not about the anime so I shall stop talking about it now.
What I am curious to know is, how would you react to this situation? Now perhaps I should elaborate a bit more. How would you react if your two....or you know what, if one or two of your hot, older...or younger I guess I'm not the one fantasizing here, stepsister(s) confessed their love for you. Would you accept their love with open arms...or would you gently convey to them that you don't think that it's right, that you only love them as a sister and not as a lover. Of course you could always request more time from them but eventually you will have to ask the question....Do I want to enter a relationship with my stepsister(s) or should I just tell them I'm just not really into incest enough to advance your relationship past brother/sister.
And to kind of wrap things up I'll just have the main questions I have below:
Do you enter a lover's relationship* with your stepsister(s) or do you explain that you're just not into incest.
What type of weird or unusually sexual preferences do you have?
Please go into detail with your answers here, whether they admit it or not everyone's a pervert at heart, and well, the only people who are going to see this are Starcraft nerds so.....not like we can really judge you.
*Lover's relationship being dating and things of that nature, does not necessarily mean sex.
 
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Not really sure why you think it's perverted to be lovers with someone, even if it's a stepsister. Is it really incest for two people who aren't related by blood to be together romantically? And further if it is, what wrong does it inherit from being incest?
As for a direct answer, I guess I'd say yes to the first question. But then again it is 7am and I pulled an all nighter, so I might only consider fooling around for a while as part of a mutual exploration into sexuality but afterward we'd move our separate ways with trust and confidence. Weird sexual preferences? I like the exact moment they take their clothes off. Sometimes I find them more attractive with their clothes on, say if they're wearing tight jeans or something, and then they take them off.
But yeah I have no idea what I'm typing I'm 90% asleep right now.
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You are right that it's not perverted, the incest part, I wasn't really referring to that part, so much as the part where I ask about strange sexual prefrences. I do believe by law if your related in any sort of way it's incest...though I don't believe that if the relation is by law it is illegal, then again I don't know. And any type of wrong that could be taken from that is if the two people are related by blood, then the wrong would be inbreeding, though one could argue that an inbreeding defect is not garunteed and it is the couple's choice wether or not to risk it.
So do not take away from this that I think incest in any form is perverted, to be honest I'm a Siscon, which as I can guess some of you have no idea what that means, it means I'm really into hentai that has incest in it...well at least that basiclly what it means. As for real life incest...I don't really know, I've never had a good relationship with my older sister, so that form of incest is kinda...unappealing to me because of that. Though with someone else who, like I said confessed their love to me, I definitly could see myself advancing my relationship with said person.
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Say right now (I'm 25 this year) one of my parents remarried and brought a hot stepsis into the family who is completely not blood related. OH WHY NOT?
But if say the stepsis came in when I was five years old and we grew up together and all, that would be kinda gross.
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I think growing up together just makes it weird inside your head, more than anything else.
If you didnt grow up together you might even think your unknown blood relation is fair game. Remember reading a thread on tl some time ago where a russian couple found out that they were actual siblings(not even step!)..and then divorced when they found out lol.
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The growing up making it weird thing is what I was expecting to hear a lot of...I agree that growing up would make it weird but only because there is like a trust barrier thing...like she trusts you not to do anything....let's say immoral for lack of a better term to her...and you trust her to do the same. However I do think if the children are raised in a certain situation where lets say they spend A lot of time alone together, almost to the point where lets say the brother knows more about the sister than both the parents combined, I think an incestuous....now again I don't know if step sibling love qualifies as incestuous or not but lets just call it that, I honestly think an incestuous relationship could come from that, only if though the siblings are on....good terms with each other...meaning that they're really more like friends.
Now though, I am no expert on this subject, I could be the complete opposite, but that's what I believe would happen in that scenario.
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They're not genetically related, right? It's not incest, so it's not "perverted" or even biologically inferior to produce children in any way.
Imagine this:
You're with your girlfriend of many years, and you two are madly in love. Your single mother has finally decided to start dating again, as has your girlfriend's single father. They start dating each other, because they find they have a lot in common. They get married, making you and your girlfriend step-siblings.
Do you stop your relationship just because of some random outside marriage? I wouldn't; you're still in love with someone unrelated to you (by blood).
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True, you make an excelent point, the thought though is that you've lived together for sometime as step siblings.
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On July 14 2012 21:13 Joraiem wrote:
True, you make an excelent point, the thought though is that you've lived together for sometime as step siblings.
Hm... how does that change things, exactly?
I mean, I understand that in your anime case, you go from step-siblings to lovers, rather than lovers to step-siblings (which was my analogy), but I'm curious as to whether that (living together) makes a difference, as "living together" would be the ultimate destination if lovers get married anyway, right?
I think my main line of thought is: non-incestual (by blood) love is perfectly fine in all aspects (emphasis on "you may want to have kids someday"), so I think that's where I'm going with this  I don't find that to be perverted ^^
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Well it's not just so much that you're living together, it's that you're living together as siblings. There's a trust barrier that is in some cases would be very hard to overcome. I do see your point, I guess I should be like exactly clear what I mean, what I meant was that you never really looke at your stepsister in a romantic light, you've just noticed that she's pretty attractive, and by pretty attractive I mean really fucking attractive. All of a sudden she confeses a love for you. So I guess what I'm really asking is if people can get past the fact that you're siblings, even if it's not by blood.
Also when I say you've lived together for awhile, I mean....probably around 5 years, starting at.....oh I guess 13 that way when she confesses her love for you you'd be 18. I'm just kinda curious to see if people can look past that little thing.
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technically it's not wrong if it's not incest, though if i were in such position, i would not go forward because we would be family in a way ... ya know ... unless i were in love with the girl in the first place, then our parents got married then it'd be a different story ... but says my dad brought home a new wife and a new step sister ... no matter how hot she would be, i highly doubt i'd develop any sort of sexual feeling for her ... so ya ...
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Marrying your step-sister is 100% legal in any country
It's unusual but not wrong since the parties are not blood related
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Yeah i don't get how perverted this is when you're not even related by blood. I remember a story where two long lost brother/sister actually had a child together but they never knew about the existence of each other until their parents met up. Was in the news. If i had a stepsister who i genuinely liked i wouldn't hesitate to have a romantic relationship.
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I started to laugh when I read "Kiss x Sis" ahahah.
This is a neat question! It's not perverted and it's not incest to have a relationship with your step-sister. This outside marriage relationship is just caca and marriage nowadays is a joke too lol  . It all depends on how you see things~ if you want to decide that this person will now become your sibling or not and even shit can change.
If I were in the situation of the character in the anime then ok cool let's go that's pretty great with your mom/dad and their spouse cheering you guys on lolol.
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On July 14 2012 21:06 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:
They're not genetically related, right? It's not incest, so it's not "perverted" or even biologically inferior to produce children in any way.
Imagine this:
You're with your girlfriend of many years, and you two are madly in love. Your single mother has finally decided to start dating again, as has your girlfriend's single father. They start dating each other, because they find they have a lot in common. They get married, making you and your girlfriend step-siblings.
Do you stop your relationship just because of some random outside marriage? I wouldn't; you're still in love with someone unrelated to you (by blood).
This situation would be really weird if it happened. I wanna say that I would tell my mom straight up that the girl who is about to be your step daughter is the girl I love with all my heart. And if that didn't stop the marriage, I would be down to still be with her. "Step sister" really just a title and its not by blood so its ok I suppose if I was in love with her before the marriage.
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As a man who'd screw anything that moves, hell yes.
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Family dinner sure would be fun ;p
People are pretty short sighted if they think they only reason incest is a problem is because of genetic abnormalities. Sometimes there are social consequences to what you do. Same reason it can be bad to have a relationship with someone who works in the same office as you. If you break up one of you almost has to get a new job. If you have a relationship with your stepsister, you wanna deal with your parents and bullshit? Are you not just taking a shortcut which falsifies your 'love?'
Again, it would be different if you found out someone were your stepsister after the fact or something weird like that. Social rammifications would be completely different in that case. Not entirely pleasent, but probably more reconcilable and not plagued with questions of whether your love is one of mere convenience or it is one of intense passion.
I have not seen the anime in the OPs post, but that is basically a situation of convenience meant to appeal to young men who don't talk to girls and want something to happen to them. A kind of 'I want everything to fall into my lap because I am too scared to do anything.' People unexplainably attracted to such a character, the ultimate fantasy of the basement nerd.
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Recently seen that anime too, was great fun, though I'd like to point out that it wasn't the brother-sister thing that kept mr main character from "doing it" with either of the sisters, but the fact that he couldn't marry both and choosing was too painful and therefore chose to go with neither.
As for a relationship with my step-sister, I suppose. Given that you'd either have grown up together for quite some time or at least are spending a lot of time together will make you know each other very well, so that any lovers relationship will be all the better for it.
And negative sides? After a breakup it could get very messy and uncomfortable plus social situations outside of the family could get awkward, though as a person that only has a small but close group of friends that wouldn't really bother me since they'd know we are not blood related.
PS, I can definitely re-comment the anime in question (Kiss X Sis), but beware that it's pretty loaded with sexual themes
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Thanks for the comments, a lot of you had some interesting things to say, but I don't think you saw my earlier comment when I said I wasn't reffering to step sibling relationship as beng perverted. The title is directly related to the question when I asked: What weird sexual prefrences you have. I'd like to re-iterate that I do not think incest, even if it's not legaly qualified as such, is perverted at all.
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