[Girl Blog] Well, shiiiiiit :(, but then again, :) - Page 2

On July 06 2012 08:26 UmbraaeternuS wrote:


Dude, I went full retard and lost the game.
NEVER go full retard.

Stay away from booze. That would be my best advice.
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On July 15 2012 00:50 REDBLUEGREEN wrote:
I am wondering where does this friend zone concept come from?
How do you even fall in love without being friends first?
I might think oh she is cute, I wanna kiss her.
I might think oh she is hot, I wanna fuck her.
But love her, make her my girlfriend? That shit cost time and money, better be sure first it's worth it :D
Personally I never had a problem going from friends to lovers and it seems all this friendzone bullshit does is creating a self-fulfilling prophecy for you guys. You expect to fail and so you do.

It seems one problem a lot of people have is that they confess their love too early.

On July 14 2012 19:36 EngrishTeacher wrote:
She pretty much rejected every single one, because she firmly knows what she wants in her image of the perfect guy.

On July 15 2012 05:03 Carapas wrote:

Fuck Disney, they spoiled every single girl on this planet with their charming princes. Am I rite guys?

On July 23 2012 18:19 dellesh1ruH wrote:
When you are in the friendzone you can never come out!

On July 23 2012 18:20 Arcanefrost wrote:
Sorry to hear that, really sucks




You are in the frienzone because you were treating her like a friend, to get out you simply have to stop doing that. Just gradually touch/flirt/tease/... more, it's not rocket science.

let's call her Linda, a fantastic girl who captured my heart, also my dear friend and co-worker

On July 23 2012 19:18 Gman1216 wrote:
The worst is when she actually shows interest and then all of a sudden she shuts you out and tells you she needs time for herself and is not ready for a relationship. Happened to me last week. FML! Forever Alone!

On July 14 2012 23:41 sc4k wrote:


Ah, that old chestnut. I think every teen has to say this about one girl (of course it's not true).



I'd bet all the money in China that this is not true.

By the way, in terms of this OP, it has to be one of the most amazing and outstanding examples of crazy ass hope to get out of the friendzone I have ever seen!!! So thanks for sharing it because I'm sure all of us on TL have embarrassing 'romance' stories to tell. Gave me a good chuckle, and yes you are definitely better off having got it out of the way.

As much as men get angry that there are girls who keep men in the friendzone when they so obviously want to be out of it, I think it is equally pathetic when men fall over themselves to behave perfectly to girls they are attracted to and then behave stone cold to ugly girls AND have the nerve to accuse the fairer sex of being shallow etc! So much bullshit in society comes from men thinking they have a chance with girls who would reject them any day of the week if they just came out and said they wanted to go out.

It's also funny when guys become friends with hot girls because inside they believe they won't be able to get them by asking them out, but perhaps if they can hang around and become friends they can slowly convince them of their goodness as boyfriend material and their goodness as a person (it's of course partly true but also an act).

The one common thread between all these problems is guys who have standards too high. Unable to accept the girl who has a few imperfections, they get annoyed when they aren't able to get a girl who is better than them and clearly has the choice to be with patently better and more attractive men than them. Probably they have been spoiled by seeing ugly celebrities etc getting with hot girls and therefore they tell themselves that if they hold out they can get a girl just like that.