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question/discussion - girl blog
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Euronymous
Australia9 Posts
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Th1rdEye
United States1074 Posts
You should know from instinct if when you asked for her phone number if she was really interested in you or just giving it out to satisfy you at the moment, for some women have no spines. Hanging out with her, studying, and acting friendly to her are all semi-mistakes imo, once you're friend zoned its hard to get out of that. ^ obviously you want to be friendly, but not to "FRIEND"ly Anyway, if you're writing a blog on TL about it, you're probably pretty obsessed with her. I don't know for sure, but it sounds this way. And girls seem to have a radar for that. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
I allow myself to make excuses to myself, telling myself that i'm too depressed to get into the whole 'game' of love at the moment. Good job, you know that it's an excuse. I decide to cut the crap and ask her to hang out over the holidays and she enteres her phone number. Good job again. So now it's the week of exams: I've sent her a few messages and she hasn't replied to one so i decided to wait untill after we are done with exams. Please explain what "a few messages" are for you. How many, what general content? In what intervals? (Trying to figure out how "pushy" you might seem to her.) ... In general while messages can work in awesome ways (in fact I think most people just are horrible at writing them), I'd usually go for a call instead. Nothing big though. **TL;DR Is it possible to shatter bad first impressions with a girl? If so, how? I have a timid/shy impression with a goth girl (whose number I have) i share a lot in common with and I want to use my new found healthy mental state to break the mold.** You don't have a bad first impression with her. If you did, she wouldn't have given you her number and she wouldn't have hung out with you. Coming across as a bit timid and shy is not the end of the world. From your description you didn't really do much so far so it shouldn't be that much of a deal. Unless you're going to add something important (especially in case you bombed her with like 50 SMS in 3 days =P), here's my suggestion: #1. Worry about your exams. (=P) #2. Once they're over (2-3 days) call her and ask if she wants to go for a drink or something similar. #3. Remember that the difference between a friendship and a relationship is that couples have sex. Friends usually don't. Sexual attraction is, among other things, built by getting to know each other on a physical level. Don't be scared of escalating and/or touching her in general. =P gl hf, keep us updated. ♥ PS: Random comment from my gf after she saw your pics: He still looks like a panda who's gonna eat kids for breakfest. =D Edit: Please ask yourself if "Again i'm not too worried if she declines anymore" is really true. From what we know you barely know that girl and seem pretty into her. Usually that's a bad sign. | ||
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Euronymous
Australia9 Posts
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
A good idea. I'd obviously care, and it'd be a shame, but I already have stuff going on with other girls. Stop worrying. I dare saying this isn't even really blogworthy since you don't really have a problem. =P | ||
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Fishgle
United States2174 Posts
On June 05 2012 21:23 Th1rdEye wrote: Anyway, if you're writing a blog on TL about it, you're probably obsessed with her. And girls seem to have a radar for that. xD the sad truth about girl blogs | ||
FlaShFTW
United States10151 Posts
at least they wont see these blogs right??????? xD | ||
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