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The woman and starcraft

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laLAlA[uC]
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Canada963 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-20 01:39:40
February 19 2012 04:52 GMT
#1
Lately I've been having this issue with my girlfriend and Starcraft. She loves playing games, and one of her favourites is Starcraft. We always used to play a lot of 2v2 together but lately she seems to get frustrated a lot. Whenever she loses she acts like its the end of the world. I try to console her and tell her I don't care if we lose but she has some notion that I'll like her less if she doesn't play as well or something. And whenever she asks me to play, it's not like I can say no. She'd be even more insulted. She'll reply with something like 'Fine. Go play League with your other friends ./rage" etc. :/

I'm just at a loss at to what to do. She's party leader usually, and likes to queue for 2v2s. And when she asks for a 1v1, well the results are kind of one sided which makes it even more frustrating for her. I just don't know why she puts this upon herself. :/

Edit: A lot of people suggest that I teach her the game. And I would, except she lacks an abundance of free time. She`s involved in like, 9001 extra curriculars so she doesn`t have much time to dedicate to the game @__@; Ah well..

Edit 2:
1 day later...

Tried just making it fun by doing stupid things. We were winning but she quickly caught on and got upset.

"idk, it's like, you're forcing me to have fun by doing stupid shit and you've given up on my ability to win a game straight up"

@___@ WHAT DOOOO. ; w;

**
I'm an old man now
keiraknightlee
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
United States301 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-19 04:57:39
February 19 2012 04:57 GMT
#2
I think she just wants you to give her a hug, because she is biting off more than she can chew, so she is like the damsel in distress and needs her knight in shining armor to rescue her.
~~~Happiness. Dreams. Love~~~Good Luck
HackBenjamin
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Canada1094 Posts
February 19 2012 04:58 GMT
#3
Tell her what do to, chicks love that
0123456789
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States3216 Posts
February 19 2012 04:59 GMT
#4
Less starcraft, more sex.
Demonhunter04
Profile Joined July 2011
1530 Posts
February 19 2012 05:03 GMT
#5
Wow, she really takes her sc seriously. What league are you guys in for 1v1? Are you guys close in skill?
"If you don't drop sweat today, you will drop tears tomorrow" - SlayerSMMA
n.DieJokes
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States3443 Posts
February 19 2012 05:06 GMT
#6
You deserve better, diamond league or bust
MyLove + Your Love= Supa Love
laLAlA[uC]
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Canada963 Posts
February 19 2012 05:10 GMT
#7
On February 19 2012 13:57 keiraknightlee wrote:
I think she just wants you to give her a hug, because she is biting off more than she can chew, so she is like the damsel in distress and needs her knight in shining armor to rescue her.


I wish. :/
I live at school most of the time which is an hours drive from her place.


On February 19 2012 14:03 Demonhunter04 wrote:
Wow, she really takes her sc seriously. What league are you guys in for 1v1? Are you guys close in skill?


I'm master, she's plat. She was almost diamond over the summer @__@;
I'm an old man now
Loanshark
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
China3094 Posts
February 19 2012 05:19 GMT
#8
She's only in plat?

Dump her.
No dough, no go. And no mercy.
Sc2Requiem
Profile Joined June 2011
United States121 Posts
February 19 2012 05:21 GMT
#9
Logging off Starcraft to play LoL is enough to make anyone rage at you imo.

Just humor her and help her get better. She wouldn't keep asking to play with you if she didn't get some kind of enjoyment out of it.
"What is defeat? Nothing but education; nothing but the first step towards something better."
Smapz
Profile Joined January 2011
Norway405 Posts
February 19 2012 05:23 GMT
#10
Let some bronzie play on your account, so she can win! : DD
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Demonhunter04
Profile Joined July 2011
1530 Posts
February 19 2012 05:24 GMT
#11
On February 19 2012 14:10 laLAlA[uC] wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 19 2012 13:57 keiraknightlee wrote:
I think she just wants you to give her a hug, because she is biting off more than she can chew, so she is like the damsel in distress and needs her knight in shining armor to rescue her.


I wish. :/
I live at school most of the time which is an hours drive from her place.


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On February 19 2012 14:03 Demonhunter04 wrote:
Wow, she really takes her sc seriously. What league are you guys in for 1v1? Are you guys close in skill?


I'm master, she's plat. She was almost diamond over the summer @__@;


Is she aware that masters are the top 2% of players in the world? O_o
"If you don't drop sweat today, you will drop tears tomorrow" - SlayerSMMA
Lightswarm
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Canada967 Posts
February 19 2012 05:39 GMT
#12
why not go through the games together and work on improving like pros?
Team[AoV]
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
February 19 2012 06:09 GMT
#13
hellion/ling. you won't lose, and she'll be happy.
TheKwas
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Iceland372 Posts
February 19 2012 06:09 GMT
#14
It sucks to feel like your the weak link in a chain. Try off-racing so your both at a closer skill level?
cmen15
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States1519 Posts
February 19 2012 06:35 GMT
#15
just 1v1 and LET HER WIN!!!!
Greed leads to just about all losses.
Pokebunny
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States10654 Posts
February 19 2012 06:47 GMT
#16
On February 19 2012 15:35 cmen15 wrote:
just 1v1 and LET HER WIN!!!!

Don't do this.

I recommend telling her to give you control, and you control both of your units + macro yourself while she just macro's her own stuff. Works fairly well for me + goldie gf and we have a lot of fun, and she doesn't get too stressed out. Plus it's fun and challenging for me heh.
Semipro Terran player | Pokebunny#1710 | twitter.com/Pokebunny | twitch.tv/Pokebunny | facebook.com/PokebunnySC
aeoliant
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada361 Posts
February 19 2012 06:48 GMT
#17
On February 19 2012 15:35 cmen15 wrote:
just 1v1 and LET HER WIN!!!!



if she's in plat she'll know if he lets her win
Pangpootata
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
1838 Posts
February 19 2012 06:59 GMT
#18
Play 1v1 and handicap yourself 80% so the games will be pretty even.
Worldoflies
Profile Joined June 2011
United States3 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-19 07:26:04
February 19 2012 07:24 GMT
#19
choose something lacking in her game and focus on it till she gets better at it. if she is platnum and your masters of course you're going to win. she need to work on the mechanics.
sluggaslamoo
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
Australia4494 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-19 07:43:51
February 19 2012 07:42 GMT
#20
On February 19 2012 15:59 Pangpootata wrote:
Play 1v1 and handicap yourself 80% so the games will be pretty even.


Imagine how she'd feel if she lost.

Pretty cool that you have a really competitive sc girlfriend though. Why not coach her with ladder and help her get better? Just like sit next to her and help her out, make her feel better when she loses, congratulate her on her wins.
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