EPTSorry for the confusion people of the present, I removed the blog cause I don't wanna think about this silly drama.
I'm still on good terms with everyone involved in the story don't worry
Girl Blog Maximum! My Tale of 2011 Pt. 2
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
Sorry for the confusion people of the present, I removed the blog cause I don't wanna think about this silly drama. I'm still on good terms with everyone involved in the story don't worry | ||
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LuckstYle
Germany181 Posts
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Mavkar
Germany592 Posts
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nufcrulz
Singapore934 Posts
, i for one am all for girl blogs if they're narrated like this. i'll be looking forward to part 3 | ||
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ziggurat
Canada847 Posts
On January 02 2012 03:43 bjornkavist wrote: Do I still want to pursue C? Is A only back because she's jealous? The answers are yes and yes. glhf. | ||
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unichan
United States4223 Posts
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Dakk
Sweden572 Posts
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
On January 02 2012 04:45 Dakk wrote: Is it based on a true event or is it fictional? Sorry if it's in the post and i didn't read it good enough this entire story is 100% true | ||
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Hassybaby
United Kingdom10823 Posts
Good luck choosing dude | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
Wrong. It's "Your fucking call" and "yes" =D Also: On January 02 2012 04:36 unichan wrote: dat girl A wants what she can't have Yesx2. ...what happened: Guy likes girl, girl likes guy. Guy doesn't make a move even though it's obvious, girl gets pissed and moves on. (The whole "The worst came, She said I was too slow, I waited too long, I was too shy." - makes her a great girl btw. imo. Those kind of big balls are very rare, twice so at that age.) This part was, probably without you realizing it, what spiked attraction again in A: The break began, I spent Christmas with my family and A had texted me to hang out a few times between the 23rd and 29th. Each time I said I was busy, which was partially true, I was working. However I was, in a sense, avoiding her. Bam. The dude who I just ditched is suddenly dating a pretty damn attractive girl and has no more fucking time for me? Fuck, did I make a mistake in the first place? Why didn't he get it rolling with me like that? More and more props to you for this part: She was having fun too, and all of a sudden a light switch went on in my brain. I realized that I was spending my new years of my final year in high school with my best friend and closest female friend in a basement playing Blazblue, Tf2, Starcraft 2 and watching shitty movies, and she didn't complain in the slightest. Based on your story, A and C both sound like cool girls. (Though nerdiness gives a definite + to A =D) ... Yes, she just got attracted to you (again), because she realized she's about to lose you to a different girl. However, for some reason (hint: you) she was at that place before without another girl involved. Also, I really have to emphasize that the amount of balls and honesty this girl showed to you in the past is amazing. There's like a 1/50 chance to find one of those in girls at 20+. You could learn a lot from that girl if your story is accurate. However, you're young. If you're not sure whether you don't want a relationship, don't be afraid to say so. It's okay to have something casual with A and/or C as long as they are aware that it's going to be this way. - You basicly have to weigh you being scared about not finding a girl like this again in your life (yes, you will) against never having another chance of "testing some other food" (yes, you will get those, too). If you stick to A, just roll with it. Don't be scared about finding her sexy, don't be scared about "what if she doesn't like what I'm gonna do next?". From the sounds of it she's more experienced than you (which is fucking boss at that age. Huehue. <3), let her lead a little without becoming her puppy dog. Get what I'm trying to say here? =) PS: Considering that I enjoy taking my dump in random girlfriend blogs quite a lot lately you sir, are the first dude in the last like 6 months who managed to overcome his fears and step up to being someone who takes responsibility for what happens in his life. Cheers, huge props & a happy new year. Keep it up, reading about that progress during such a rather short time was awesome. <3 | ||
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Pretty Aluminum
United States95 Posts
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Cyber_Cheese
Australia3615 Posts
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Shotcoder
United States2316 Posts
also r.Evo I agree with your whole post. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14080 Posts
On January 02 2012 05:23 Cyber_Cheese wrote: Tell A she should have waited for you (The breakup in part 1), and move on. Congratulations, you're hereby suggesting him being butthurt over something that was mostly due to his incompetence about half a year ago. Projecting onto the OP that you would always "hurt someone back" after being "hurt" just for the hell of it is both pretty damn immature and should also not be considered a standard pattern in anyones life. You should probably think about why you would be SO HURT by a girl that dropped you (while TELLING you that you were too shy to move on) that you would have to drop her half a year down the road when you get a chance for it. Learn to learn from your mistakes instead of telling other people to make the same ones, please. | ||
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let_FLY
80 Posts
After all... + Show Spoiler + bitches be crazy. | ||
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Ryuu314
United States12679 Posts
in all seriousness A is back because she's jealous, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. take some time to figure it out and make a decision that hopefully you won't regret. sounds like your new year is off to a good start. grats x] | ||
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
On January 02 2012 05:17 r.Evo wrote: Guy likes girl, girl likes guy. Guy doesn't make a move even though it's obvious, girl gets pissed and moves on. (The whole "The worst came, She said I was too slow, I waited too long, I was too shy." - makes her a great girl btw. imo. Those kind of big balls are very rare, twice so at that age.) This part was, probably without you realizing it, what spiked attraction again in A: The break began, I spent Christmas with my family and A had texted me to hang out a few times between the 23rd and 29th. Each time I said I was busy, which was partially true, I was working. However I was, in a sense, avoiding her. Bam. The dude who I just ditched is suddenly dating a pretty damn attractive girl and has no more fucking time for me? Fuck, did I make a mistake in the first place? Why didn't he get it rolling with me like that? More and more props to you for this part: She was having fun too, and all of a sudden a light switch went on in my brain. I realized that I was spending my new years of my final year in high school with my best friend and closest female friend in a basement playing Blazblue, Tf2, Starcraft 2 and watching shitty movies, and she didn't complain in the slightest. Based on your story, A and C both sound like cool girls. (Though nerdiness gives a definite + to A =D) ... Yes, she just got attracted to you (again), because she realized she's about to lose you to a different girl. However, for some reason (hint: you) she was at that place before without another girl involved. Also, I really have to emphasize that the amount of balls and honesty this girl showed to you in the past is amazing. There's like a 1/50 chance to find one of those in girls at 20+. You could learn a lot from that girl if your story is accurate. However, you're young. If you're not sure whether you don't want a relationship, don't be afraid to say so. It's okay to have something casual with A and/or C as long as they are aware that it's going to be this way. - You basicly have to weigh you being scared about not finding a girl like this again in your life (yes, you will) against never having another chance of "testing some other food" (yes, you will get those, too). If you stick to A, just roll with it. Don't be scared about finding her sexy, don't be scared about "what if she doesn't like what I'm gonna do next?". From the sounds of it she's more experienced than you (which is fucking boss at that age. Huehue. <3), let her lead a little without becoming her puppy dog. Get what I'm trying to say here? =) PS: Considering that I enjoy taking my dump in random girlfriend blogs quite a lot lately you sir, are the first dude in the last like 6 months who managed to overcome his fears and step up to being someone who takes responsibility for what happens in his life. Cheers, huge props & a happy new year. Keep it up, reading about that progress during such a rather short time was awesome. <3 Holy shit dude, this is one of the best comments I've ever read. You should spread your wisdom everywhere! :D Your comments are actually incredibly helpful and you have amazing insight with the limited information I provided, and yes A is a wonderful girl. P.S. That last part made me feel all fuzzy inside. Thanks man! | ||
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Lightwip
United States5497 Posts
That's how things end up though, I suppose. | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
However, right now I'm at a bit of a situation. My best friend now is this wonderful, beautiful, amazing woman, with whom I've had a nice, cool. trusting friendship over the past 6 years. She's pretty much been the only person who's been there always, always has my back and seems to understand me better than my male dudes. She's attractive, definitely, and lately I've started feeling more attracted to her than usual (I'm currently single). I wouldn't have a problem with this except she's now single too, recently broke up with her million year boyfriend in a rather bad way. I've been chatting and talking with this girl a lot more than usual, and she's said things like she's confused and whatever, out of the blue without me saying anything about it. We've also set up a "date?", if you can call it that, a party night for the two of us, including drinks and dancing, a couple weeks from now, and actually she invited me to this, not the other way around, which is extremely weird. Question is, how should I face this situation? I'm definitely NOT in love with her. However, I wouldn't AT ALL mind something casual, but going for it might break the friendship, which is actually a lot more important to me than anything else. Any advice?. For the record, I don't think she's falling for me either, no way it's way too soon, I'm just at a loss as to how much fun she wants to have, she's giving some strange signs. On topic: Have fun dude! But don't put too much confidence on girl A. She's probably just very jealous, and you don't want to be dissapointed. On January 02 2012 05:23 Cyber_Cheese wrote: Tell A she should have waited for you (The breakup in part 1), and move on. Definitely DON'T do this. You'll just have a lousy time and then regret it. I'd say just have fun, but be careful not to actually hurt any of them. Also know that if you go for both of them for casual stuff, that's eventually going to end, and it might not be pretty. | ||
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MtlGuitarist97
United States1539 Posts
If you want sex or to have fun and have a good time, you might want to go with C. She might not stay witn you as long as A, but she is prettier and what not. If you're looking for more of a long term relationship, you might want to stay with A. You've also got to remember that you've got college coming up relatively shortly. If you guys go to colleges that are far away...well long distance relationships can work but it most likely won't. Still, I'm happy that you had a good experience and that neither of your decisions are that awful | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
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Infernux
Norway84 Posts
I've got one advice good sir, C. A is just out to get you because she sees that you can get someone else. | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
On January 02 2012 07:44 bjornkavist wrote: No man, I'm not going out with C, I've only known her for 3 weeks... oh sorry man, I take it back. My bad | ||
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cmen15
United States1519 Posts
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mifan
Canada12 Posts
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Infernux
Norway84 Posts
On January 02 2012 08:50 mifan wrote: Where are the pics? Seriously, every time I clicked on show spoiler I was hoping to see some pics, but to no avail.... You can't have a girl blog on TL without pics that's just a bummer. This. I agree so much! | ||
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Cyber_Cheese
Australia3615 Posts
On January 02 2012 05:29 r.Evo wrote: Congratulations, you're hereby suggesting him being butthurt over something that was mostly due to his incompetence about half a year ago. Projecting onto the OP that you would always "hurt someone back" after being "hurt" just for the hell of it is both pretty damn immature and should also not be considered a standard pattern in anyones life. You should probably think about why you would be SO HURT by a girl that dropped you (while TELLING you that you were too shy to move on) that you would have to drop her half a year down the road when you get a chance for it. Learn to learn from your mistakes instead of telling other people to make the same ones, please. It wasn't his incompetence. He wasn't ready to move it along for whatever reason. She should have been able to accept that. If she was willing to move on and come back later just because he found someone else, she's a bad choice, and he'd be a fool to want her back. Think about the situation in reverse. If she wasn't ready, any decent guy would wait. | ||
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GigaFlop
United States1146 Posts
On January 02 2012 05:57 bjornkavist wrote: Holy shit dude, this is one of the best comments I've ever read. You should spread your wisdom everywhere! :D Your comments are actually incredibly helpful and you have amazing insight with the limited information I provided, and yes A is a wonderful girl. P.S. That last part made me feel all fuzzy inside. Thanks man! if ILOVEKITTENS wasn't banned, he would probably doing the same for you. ILK was awesome. Also, just make your own decision on A or C. I would go with A, she seems to have more depth than C. | ||
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Inzek
Chile802 Posts
"The worst came, She said I was too slow, I waited too long, I was too shy." im pretty sure that line was her last "hint" to you, hint that you actually didnt catched too... whatever i like that girl A, but you sound like a nice guy taking good decisions imo, so do what you feel better, best wishes | ||
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ziggurat
Canada847 Posts
On January 02 2012 09:51 Cyber_Cheese wrote: It wasn't his incompetence. He wasn't ready to move it along for whatever reason. She should have been able to accept that. If she was willing to move on and come back later just because he found someone else, she's a bad choice, and he'd be a fool to want her back. Think about the situation in reverse. If she wasn't ready, any decent guy would wait. You're cute. But incompetence is a nice word for what it was. In part 1 OP says "I was a wuss who didn't try to talk to her much outside of class" and "I was too nervous to try anything we mostly just talked". This was over a period of months. Unfortunately the OP was being a "wuss" (which is still nicer than the word I'd use) and that's very unattractive. Women like men who are confident, not men who are scared of their own shadow. | ||
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NMC
Canada28 Posts
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DarthThienAn
United States2734 Posts
Cute story though. Sounds like you like A more =P. | ||
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imweakless
757 Posts
but 2 is better than 1.. so go for C | ||
Seeker
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + Makes me feel elitist that I know what it means. Jelly that you have two girls that like you OP. | ||
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xavra41
United States220 Posts
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
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Liquid`TLO
Germany767 Posts
now I am disappointed it just got deleted. Guess I will just pretend. | ||
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jacen
Austria3644 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Looks like I was late to this party... | ||
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RAGEMOAR The Pope
United States216 Posts
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I MISSED A GIRL BLOG!!! EDIT: Oh no wait r.Evo's post brings back the memory of the content. If i remember correctly he got friendzoned or something with Girl A, started messing around with Girls B and C, he liked C and she liked him back but then A became jealous or something and then started giving him hints, flirty and starting to reciprocate etc etc. I think... Can't exactly remember. | ||
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
On February 07 2012 22:57 Liquid`TLO wrote: I thought this was just a hilarious way of saying "forever alone" now I am disappointed it just got deleted. Guess I will just pretend. Haha! I'm sorry I dissapointed you TLO! | ||
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