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When I was dating a girl at 20 we had sex all the damn time and went out to the clubs and bars and house parties where we'd get drunk, sneak away, and have absolutely awesome sex with half a care if anyone else knew what we were doing.
At 19/20, that is all you should be doing.
When it comes to dating someone more seriously (even though the aforementioned relationship lasted nearly 4 years), being picky is good. You can nonchalantly date people who don't quite meet your standards, but if you want a real relationship you shouldn't compromise. If you're a good-looking kid with good prospects and you feel you're dropping a level when thinking about dating someone - don't date her! There is plenty of time in life to find a good match; don't invest in a girl who will ruin you or make you unhappy.
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Here's the things you should look for in no particular order for a good wife:
Cooking ability
Cleaning ability
Laundry ability
Patience
Sex ability
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Don't force yourself down to making a long-term commitment unless you really really feel the need for it. Usually that feeling comes late-20's or early-30's for males. I don't see anything wrong with what you're doing (but stay within legal boundaries if possible!) and as long as you don't get beaten to a pulp, you might as well continue what you're doing.
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making it work is your responsibility
you're bored? take responsibility to get both of you in an interesting situation
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Don't hook up with alcohol and hope for perfect results girl wise. They're boring and shy after alcoho, oh no!
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EPT
