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Should ex's remain ex's?

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Havefa1th
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States245 Posts
June 15 2011 17:49 GMT
#1
I had a great night the other night with friends and my ex-girlfriend turned good friend... but of course, with alcohol involved, things happened between us.

She gave me this huge ass hickey on my neck which is kinda upsetting because I work in 2 hours, but whatever.

So I ask you, the casual reader, should ex's remain ex's? Nights like the other night once in a while are ok in my opinion, but I have no intention to date her again (she's kinda nuts). What's your opinion on the matter?

*
"Apparently I just needed to play the way I did... and realize he killed his own command center." - Idra
Kennigit *
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
Canada19447 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 17:52:54
June 15 2011 17:52 GMT
#2
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...
CrownRoyal
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Vatican City State1872 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 17:54:05
June 15 2011 17:53 GMT
#3
It goes kinda like this...

I'm gonna find my baby gonna hold'er tight

ps - skyrockets in flight.
You're pretty when I'm drunk.
LonelyIslands
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
Canada590 Posts
June 15 2011 17:59 GMT
#4
It depends on whatever you want to do. No body is forcing you to get back together with her nor is anyone saying dont. Its all about what you think and want, thats what should be the deciding factor on whether or not you do anything about this.
My heart and my mind will carry my body when my limbs are too weak
Havefa1th
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States245 Posts
June 15 2011 18:00 GMT
#5
On June 16 2011 02:52 Kennigit wrote:
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...

My anecdote was merely related to the question, it just brought up the thought.

And how is it vague? "Do you think that people should date their ex girlfriends/boyfriends?" Just wanted to get some opinions good man.
"Apparently I just needed to play the way I did... and realize he killed his own command center." - Idra
Ganjamaster
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Argentina475 Posts
June 15 2011 18:01 GMT
#6
Whatever floats your boat dude
My hoes be the thickest, my dro.. the stickiest
Seide
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States831 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 18:07:51
June 15 2011 18:01 GMT
#7
Shrug, I'm good friends with many of my exes as my relationships usually end on good terms. It's good for casual sex when I'm single, as long as you both know what's up.

As far as for dating exes, it really depends, some people I broke up with because of them or me, others because of life factors. Whether I would date any of them again, would really be a case case basis, but in most cases the answer would be no. Even so, it's hard to give an answer because people change.
One fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish.
flowSthead
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
1065 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 19:34:03
June 15 2011 18:02 GMT
#8
No. Exes should always date again. Always. Clearly they are only exes because they were younger and stupider. All you need is some ridiculous circumstance, like a high school or college reunion, to remind you what you were missing. You should also consider dancing for no reason while a current pop song plays in the background. Perhaps a cute talking animal will bring you together.

All of those are viable strategies to getting back together, but I think it will work best if you are an assassin that has a newfound appreciation for life and/or are in love.

Good luck.

Edit:
"You can be creative but I will crush it under the iron fist of my conservative play." - Liquid`Tyler █ MVP ■ MC ■ Boxer ■ Grubby █
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
June 15 2011 18:06 GMT
#9
Should indecisive people try to solve all their problems via the internet?
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
Servius_Fulvius
Profile Joined August 2009
United States947 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 18:08:23
June 15 2011 18:06 GMT
#10
What's with all the girl blogs recently? Seems like there's been a lot recently...

In general, it is all dependent on the person. Let's use you for example:

On June 16 2011 02:49 Havefa1th wrote:
Nights like the other night once in a while are ok in my opinion, but I have no intention to date her again (she's kinda nuts).


Sounds like you know the answer, so I'm kind of confused why you're even asking (perhaps to brag about a hickey?).

Anyway, since alcohol was involved I'm really not surprised. Just don't do anything stupid...
Jinsho
Profile Joined March 2011
United Kingdom3101 Posts
June 15 2011 18:07 GMT
#11
No, ex-partners should remain ex-partners unless a whole lot of water has passed under the bridge. And I mean a WHOLE lot.
Torte de Lini
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Germany38463 Posts
June 15 2011 18:07 GMT
#12
On June 16 2011 03:00 Havefa1th wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 16 2011 02:52 Kennigit wrote:
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...

My anecdote was merely related to the question, it just brought up the thought.

And how is it vague? "Do you think that people should date their ex girlfriends/boyfriends?" Just wanted to get some opinions good man.


Because no one knows why you broke up with her and if the reasons were trivial, related to her personally about you and what state in your life you were in, etc.

https://twitter.com/#!/TorteDeLini (@TorteDeLini)
Skull-Crack
Profile Joined June 2011
United States5 Posts
June 15 2011 18:08 GMT
#13
Okay, disclaimer: I am not bragging.

I've only had around 5 relationships, 4 with girls and one with a guy, and honestly all relationships sucked.

Point? Stay friends. Friends help each other out. When you're in a relationship, unless you're settled down and not poppin pills and fucking sluts left and right under the carpet, then don't get into one.

I'd rather have 17 girl friends than just one girlfriend and like 3-4 girls who see guys with a girlfriend as 'high priority' either because they want you for the moment or they just don't like your girl.

Take it from a guy who has every ex as a friend. It's just a mutual understanding that there was no hate between us, just that we like to fuck around with a lot of people. It happens. You need to establish that though, if not problems arise.

My girl Friend helped me when I was stranded with no gas in another town. When I had a relationship, my actual girlfriend wasn't even in town to help me, she was out buying shit in Wal-Mart with the money I gave her.
Nothing positive about me, only my piss tests..
Seide
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States831 Posts
June 15 2011 18:09 GMT
#14
On June 16 2011 03:07 Torte de Lini wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 16 2011 03:00 Havefa1th wrote:
On June 16 2011 02:52 Kennigit wrote:
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...

My anecdote was merely related to the question, it just brought up the thought.

And how is it vague? "Do you think that people should date their ex girlfriends/boyfriends?" Just wanted to get some opinions good man.


Because no one knows why you broke up with her and if the reasons were trivial, related to her personally about you and what state in your life you were in, etc.


How does that matter considering he was asking peoples thoughts on dating exes in general?
One fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish.
koreasilver
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
9109 Posts
June 15 2011 18:09 GMT
#15
thx for the context
Torte de Lini
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Germany38463 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 18:11:02
June 15 2011 18:10 GMT
#16
On June 16 2011 03:09 Seide wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 16 2011 03:07 Torte de Lini wrote:
On June 16 2011 03:00 Havefa1th wrote:
On June 16 2011 02:52 Kennigit wrote:
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...

My anecdote was merely related to the question, it just brought up the thought.

And how is it vague? "Do you think that people should date their ex girlfriends/boyfriends?" Just wanted to get some opinions good man.


Because no one knows why you broke up with her and if the reasons were trivial, related to her personally about you and what state in your life you were in, etc.


How does that matter considering he was asking peoples thoughts on dating exes in general?


Because it is yes and no. People's answers are either going to be based on personal experience (which makes their answer bias towards their own feelings or emotions) or based on what they've heard, seen or think.

There is no definite answer, which is acceptable by all means, but the actual answer will probably always end up: It depends.
https://twitter.com/#!/TorteDeLini (@TorteDeLini)
JingleHell
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
United States11308 Posts
June 15 2011 18:10 GMT
#17
Crazy exes should remain exes, but crazy exes tend to be awesome for random hookups. Just remember that if she's crazy, your random hookup may be her engagement.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32083 Posts
June 15 2011 18:11 GMT
#18
On June 16 2011 03:06 Chef wrote:
Should indecisive people try to solve all their problems via the internet?


Go figure out on your own.

Also, clever brag blog!
PROFESSIONAL GAMER - SEND ME OFFERS TO JOIN YOUR TEAM - USA USA USA
Seide
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States831 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 18:19:04
June 15 2011 18:13 GMT
#19
On June 16 2011 03:10 Torte de Lini wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 16 2011 03:09 Seide wrote:
On June 16 2011 03:07 Torte de Lini wrote:
On June 16 2011 03:00 Havefa1th wrote:
On June 16 2011 02:52 Kennigit wrote:
Have you considered what a ridiculously vague question this is to ask the internet who has absolutely no background on your relationship to base an opinion around? Its so circumstantial...

My anecdote was merely related to the question, it just brought up the thought.

And how is it vague? "Do you think that people should date their ex girlfriends/boyfriends?" Just wanted to get some opinions good man.


Because no one knows why you broke up with her and if the reasons were trivial, related to her personally about you and what state in your life you were in, etc.


How does that matter considering he was asking peoples thoughts on dating exes in general?


Because it is yes and no. People's answers are either going to be based on personal experience (which makes their answer bias towards their own feelings or emotions) or based on what they've heard, seen or think.

There is no definite answer, which is acceptable by all means, but the actual answer will probably always end up: It depends.

Then your answer is "it depends", no need to be like mean about it, but thats more speaking to Kennigit although despire the meanness, Kennigit is completely on point.
One fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish.
Binky1842
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
United States2599 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-15 18:14:07
June 15 2011 18:13 GMT
#20
you gotta have faith that your choice is the right one

"The zoo could not confirm that Binky was the attacker, but only Binky had blood on his face following the incident"
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