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Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 03 2011 23:44 GMT
#1
AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time)
When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me?

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Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
February 03 2011 23:54 GMT
#2
Well, when I was in grade 7, there were a lot of people dating. I was interested in boys, but no dating so much. I guess it's sorta the same, even after 9 years. ^^;

It's not your friends decision when you start dating, but yours. (:

If you find a girl you like, and she likes you, and you feel comfortable and ready to date her, ask her.

I didn't start dating till I was about 15 though, just because I was comfortable or really ready for it, haha. .__.
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yourwhiteshadow
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
United States442 Posts
February 03 2011 23:55 GMT
#3
you need to figure out why you want to start dating...

just want to get laid or take care of BBS (blue balls syndrome)? well, then have fun, take girls out and make sure they're having fun, and then have even more fun. don't try too hard... when the house is empty and parents are gone, do your thing.

looking for a serious relationship? well, you're in 7th grade, don't look for a serious relationship. lol
Technical Director, Si Media Production, simediapro.com
Stenstyren
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Sweden619 Posts
February 03 2011 23:56 GMT
#4
Don't start dating just because you want to start dating. Doesn't work that way until you're 25 and depressed.
If you see a girl you like, talk to her. In 7th grade everything will be very light and you will be "playing" dating more than actually doing so.
When you get a bit older, stop with the dating stuff and try to score chicks at parties etc. A relationship isn't bad per see but make sure it's serious beforehand.

Don't worry about it too much, you don't just begin dating out of nowhere. Just go with the flow, it's not like you can take out an ad in the local newspaper.
Hynda
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Sweden2226 Posts
February 03 2011 23:56 GMT
#5
To be honest it is so diffrent from person to person. Personally I didn't really get anything out of a relationship untill I hit 19, I had girlfriends before that but that was mostly just to have a girlfriend, because that's what the cool kids do.

There is no stress what so ever some people don't start dating untill they are well into their 20's and are fine with that, while some start at 13 and stick with it for the rest of their lives.

Start dating when you find someone you actually want to date, and actually wants to date you, regardless of age.
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 03 2011 23:57 GMT
#6
On February 04 2011 08:55 yourwhiteshadow wrote:
you need to figure out why you want to start dating...

just want to get laid or take care of BBS (blue balls syndrome)? well, then have fun, take girls out and make sure they're having fun, and then have even more fun. don't try too hard... when the house is empty and parents are gone, do your thing.

looking for a serious relationship? well, you're in 7th grade, don't look for a serious relationship. lol

also because I always fail to BBS rush
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
sc4k
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United Kingdom5454 Posts
February 04 2011 00:01 GMT
#7
Get dating ASAP . You get: fun & learning experience...as long as you don't get too neurotic and always take a step back and remember everyone is young and no-one expects to spend the rest of their life with you...

Also, even if you do get a little fucked up, it's all part of the learning experience so it's a good thing to do it when you are young. I just repeat, don't get neurotic
Kyuukyuu
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Canada6263 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 00:02:23
February 04 2011 00:02 GMT
#8
Don't worry about it and enjoy yourself. Relationships/"relationships" don't mean shit at that age anyway. If you're feelin' it then go for it
yourwhiteshadow
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
United States442 Posts
February 04 2011 00:02 GMT
#9
On February 04 2011 08:57 Lightningbullet wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 04 2011 08:55 yourwhiteshadow wrote:
you need to figure out why you want to start dating...

just want to get laid or take care of BBS (blue balls syndrome)? well, then have fun, take girls out and make sure they're having fun, and then have even more fun. don't try too hard... when the house is empty and parents are gone, do your thing.

looking for a serious relationship? well, you're in 7th grade, don't look for a serious relationship. lol

also because I always fail to BBS rush


well, lol you need to learn how to read girls. if you wanna BBS rush, find a party with a bunch of alcohol, the girls there will...well, i dno that's borderline unethical/illegal.

start talking to girls and just have fun. take it slow if you haven't experimented. chances are the girl you're with will want to experiment too since they gossip like crazy and her friends probably talk about what they've done.

also, don't let the search for a perfect BBS rush build order screw over your grades and stuff. try to have a balance. after school activities are a good way to interact with other people, especially girls.
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Karliath
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2214 Posts
February 04 2011 00:06 GMT
#10
I would say, slightly before you feel completely ready.

There's no point doing it before, as you won't be emotionally prepared and it will probably just end up weird and uncomfortable, ruining your perspective on dating (not that drastic).

However, don't wait "until you are ready," because that day may never come, and you don't want to realize that until it's too late.
hacklebeast
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States5090 Posts
February 04 2011 00:07 GMT
#11
I would say start dating when A) you have the opportunity (duh) and B) when you can do it without asking your parents to drive you somewhere.

that's just me though, and I am considered by no one to be an authority on dating.
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Turgid
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States1623 Posts
February 04 2011 00:10 GMT
#12
Just do it when you're ready! Dating is fun, and you should never think too much about what kind of guy girls like. Just play to your strengths and be a cool guy.

I'm one of the nerdiest dudes you'll ever meet and I have a hot girlfriend whom I love very much. How? Patience and being a generally nice guy.
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Backpack
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1776 Posts
February 04 2011 00:14 GMT
#13
On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote:
AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time)
When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me?


All of your concerns about being Asian or semi-nerdy will go away once you get older. In middle-school, girls all have this pre-conceived idea of what the "ideal" man is. The handsome/popular/tall/athletic/rich whatever guy that you always see on TV and in disney movies.

It's still pretty bad in high-school, but there will be a lot more girls who understand what they actually want in a guy. You'd be surprised at how many dorky girls there actually are ^^

Basically, just wait it out. If you start dating in middle-school just because you think you should be dating, you're going to be unhappy a lot because you (most likely) won't be bonding well with girls who don't understand how relationships actually work.
"You people need to just generally care a lot less about everything." -Zatic
Wr3k
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
Canada2533 Posts
February 04 2011 00:18 GMT
#14
Have fun and don't take it too seriously. Also, at your age the best looking girls get the least attention, so go for it.
EmmaStone
Profile Joined December 2010
United States8 Posts
February 04 2011 00:27 GMT
#15
Don't worry about dating, just go out and have fun with the girls if you have got the time. There is no pressure. About what you said about Asians not being as attractive, I myself am Asian and I do not feel that way. I don't know where you are from but where I am there are a lot of Asians and I have seen many white girls have yellow fever and it goes the other way as well. Don't worry about what they think about your race, it's the image you project is what matters.
lastmotion
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
368 Posts
February 04 2011 00:28 GMT
#16
regardless of race or EVEN looks, confidence is key to getting girls
LazyMacro
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
976 Posts
February 04 2011 00:32 GMT
#17
Don't worry about it and go have fun.
Jonoman92
Profile Blog Joined September 2006
United States9103 Posts
February 04 2011 00:33 GMT
#18
On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote:
Do you have any advice/tips for me?


Find a girl you like, pull her hair, run away.
Haemonculus
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
United States6980 Posts
February 04 2011 00:34 GMT
#19
Girls aren't into Asian guys? Sure, some girls aren't. Personally I've never been particularly attracted to Asian men, but I had numerous friends (white) in middle/highschool who were exclusively into Asian, (particularly Japanese for some reason) guys. Everyone's got different preferences.

Don't let fear of some imagined discrimination get you down!

I think I was in.... 7th grade when I went on my first date. Obviously it's all really silly/goofy at your age, as neither of you can drive, and getting dropped off by mom or dad at the movie theater is kinda funny in retrospect at my age now, lolol.
I admire your commitment to being *very* oily
EPO
Profile Joined August 2009
Canada341 Posts
February 04 2011 00:58 GMT
#20
grade 7 honestly it's not gonna matter much, good to give it a go and get some confidence I suppose.

also fyi being into math, chess and gaming makes you more than just a "semi-nerd"... imho.
tonight
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States11130 Posts
February 04 2011 00:59 GMT
#21
Dating isn't really the right word to use for a 7th grader. It's more like... private play time. Well, actually, that doesn't really sound much better either.
if I come without a thing, then I come with all I need @tonightsend
Megaliskuu
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
United States5123 Posts
February 04 2011 00:59 GMT
#22
On February 04 2011 09:59 tonight wrote:
Dating isn't really the right word to use for a 7th grader. It's more like... private play time. Well, actually, that doesn't really sound much better either.


Talking alot and holding hands basically
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Never.Die
Profile Joined March 2010
Japan189 Posts
February 04 2011 01:01 GMT
#23
Need to grow confidence and approach those girls bro. And WORK OUT! It totally helps. For one, it boosts your confidence and it makes you grow a body that women will get turned on by. Good luck and don't ever be shy and never apologize to other people for what you want.
lixlix
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States482 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 01:05:50
February 04 2011 01:04 GMT
#24
Just stop worrying about girls, when to start dating, how girls aren't in to Asian guys, and try to be the most badass Asian alive.

You think Genghis Khan worried about this shit? No he was too busy killing dudes at 10 years old and taking over his tribe as a teenager.

"White girls don't like Asians? I'll take over Europe "

Jlab
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States217 Posts
February 04 2011 01:08 GMT
#25
I dated some girl in 7th grade, that shit was a joke. Honestly most girls r gonna be dating the douche bags until the last year or so of college, so you've got till then to have fun, and get really fucking good at SC2, cause honestly theres no point until then anyway, you're not gonna marry your 7th grade gf. middle/high school relationships are a hobby, like Starcraft, not love. hahaha
Grobyc
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada18410 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 01:29:00
February 04 2011 01:28 GMT
#26
It's a good start to being learning things and picking up confidence, but truthfully, the relationships won't end up lasting or going anywhere special at that age. I hate to break it to you, but that's the truth. It's not completely useless though because of the experience you gain and the things you learn.

I completely disregarded that until gr.12 or so when I began "open" to dating, mostly because I felt I was too busy with other things to find time to do it. I feel I've learned from relationships of my close friends though, so personally I didn't really feel behind in the learning process.

edit: ignore the whole asian thing. that should have no effect on your decisions.
If you watch Godzilla backwards it's about a benevolent lizard who helps rebuild a city and then moonwalks into the ocean.
Chairman Ray
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States11903 Posts
February 04 2011 01:30 GMT
#27
Asian? No dating until you finish University!
The_LiNk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Canada863 Posts
February 04 2011 01:39 GMT
#28
On February 04 2011 10:30 Chairman Ray wrote:
Asian? No dating until you finish University!


For practical reasons too might I add.
SpoR
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United States1542 Posts
February 04 2011 01:42 GMT
#29
Any asians I've known who have dated outside their race have been with semi unattractive short blonde girls. They try with all kinds of girls but usually just end up having a lot of girl friends who friend zoned them for life.
A man is what he thinks about all day long.
iamho
Profile Joined June 2009
United States3347 Posts
February 04 2011 01:44 GMT
#30
Wait till your balls drop bro. Until then its kinda pointless
Roe
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Canada6002 Posts
February 04 2011 01:45 GMT
#31
it won't be "dating" in the adult sense until you're, well, an adult. but Maybe suggest doing homework together after school at her place, grabbing pizza for lunch, play some chess with her etc. At your age it doesn't really have to be something huge, but I'd suggest you get some practice getting used to being in a relationship with a girl. It won't be a huge deal when you look back at it, so just relax and have fun, and don't worry if everyone else is doing it and you aren't. Most of the people that dated in grade 7/8 were very socially pressured and had no idea what they were doing, and also had no idea who they were.
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 01:47 GMT
#32
On February 04 2011 10:42 SpoR wrote:
Any asians I've known who have dated outside their race have been with semi unattractive short blonde girls. They try with all kinds of girls but usually just end up having a lot of girl friends who friend zoned them for life.

DArn...well I guess she is a bit more brunette than blonde...
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 01:50 GMT
#33
On February 04 2011 10:45 Roe wrote:
it won't be "dating" in the adult sense until you're, well, an adult. but Maybe suggest doing homework together after school at her place, grabbing pizza for lunch, play some chess with her etc.

NO good at playing chess with my school
s people. I pwn every single one of 'em who wants to play in about 15/20 moves. Thats the equivalent of making a few banelings and taking down their wall. make more units, and kill their workers. And then just snooze to victory. In fact those kids don't even have a chess rating.
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
blahman3344
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
United States2015 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 01:56:56
February 04 2011 01:55 GMT
#34
I wouldn't worry about dating during middle school, it really isn't worth the trouble that it seems. Those relationships are mostly "trends" that popular kids do to make themselves seem cool and whatnot.
High school is where majority of kids start dating. I would probly suggest waiting until then.

edit: well if you're more worried about academics over dating, wait until college, imo.
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whojohnisgalt
Profile Joined December 2010
93 Posts
February 04 2011 02:03 GMT
#35
in 6th grade i asked some girl out. we lasted for 3 days. i got a kiss though. damn i was such a baller kid
Elegance
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Canada917 Posts
February 04 2011 02:12 GMT
#36
Girls at that age are usually a little unstable and unsure of themselves. Hell even guys are like that. Up until the last year of high school, people have too much juices flowing so it's best to stay put. Hell I'm in a female infested program in university and im still single, and I like it that way
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AyeH
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States534 Posts
February 04 2011 02:40 GMT
#37
On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote:
AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time)
When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me?


WTF? White girls don't care if you are Asian most of the time. I've dated ALL white girls and all of them were attractive/fit individuals. It doesn't matter what your race is, it matters more who you are as a person. Don't blame it on your race. Only stuck up whores and sluts who think Asian men don't have big penises don't like Asian men.
Is it in you?
Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
February 04 2011 03:00 GMT
#38
How do you not have time in the 7th grade?

Just wait until high school, it's not like you are missing out on anything...
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Cambium
Profile Blog Joined June 2004
United States16368 Posts
February 04 2011 03:01 GMT
#39
On February 04 2011 10:01 Never.Die wrote:
Need to grow confidence and approach those girls bro. And WORK OUT! It totally helps. For one, it boosts your confidence and it makes you grow a body that women will get turned on by. Good luck and don't ever be shy and never apologize to other people for what you want.


I agree with this. Check out the TL fitness thread, totally do SS bro. Start early, lift heavy, use those hormones.

Or just play sc...
When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.
Rinrun
Profile Joined April 2010
Canada3509 Posts
February 04 2011 03:09 GMT
#40
7th grade? Asian crew not dating? It's the parents.

I got a confession in the 6th grade and "went out" with her. In other words we said we liked each other and talked on MSN a crap-ton; the regular elementary stuff. It really isn't a relationship.

Don't worry, your time will come, why rush a great thing that you will enjoy (and hate- see: many girl blogs on TL) for the rest of your life. Plus enjoy what you got right now- cause you will never go back to your carefree days. Oh how I miss those... but I digress.
MBC/Liquid/TSM always.
Linx_101
Profile Joined November 2008
Canada166 Posts
February 04 2011 03:20 GMT
#41
Is no one else doubting that this guy's in gr. 7?
An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind - Mahatma Gandhi
nayumi
Profile Blog Joined May 2009
Australia6499 Posts
February 04 2011 03:22 GMT
#42
Here's how you do it

1. Find a girl you like.
2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]"
3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher
4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today.

While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you.


Sugoi monogatari onii-chan!
MapleFractal
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada307 Posts
February 04 2011 03:29 GMT
#43
lol your far to young for it to even matter my young Nerdy friend(yes if you like math chess and SC2 your a nerd, dont be ashamed it's awesome) Had my first "qoute unquote" girlfriend in grade 8, got my first kiss and beyond that nothing really happened. Why you ask? Cause your like 13 years old, there is NO being cool at that point, your being driven and probably chaperoned by one of your parents. SOOOOOO uncool I know, but guess what? YOUR 13!!!! I know it seems like I am harping on you for being a kid still, but that is the reality isn't it? Your all kids still. Hormones kick in at different times for children your age. Nothing wrong with being into girls now but chances are right now your just going to get a series of awkward moments, chaperoned by parents, and say the off chance you two get some time alone you'll both be sufficiently nervous that you'll both make it awkward too.

So whens the time to start dating? Whenever, those awkward moments are going to happen, Its just part of being new to dating and the opposite sex. Just gotta nut up ask a girl you like out and the absolute worst thing she can do is say no. As far as being Asian goes, I have a friend that only dates Asian guys. The fact you seem uncomfortable with it will cause you more problems them the opposite sex. It just stems back to being confident. Be confident, and genuine, acting cooler or differently then you are will never work.

There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, god knows I've crossed that line before, just remember that. Arrogance generally never gets the girl.
its called a Tuque damnit!
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 03:30 GMT
#44
On February 04 2011 12:20 Linx_101 wrote:
Is no one else doubting that this guy's in gr. 7?

How old do you think I am?
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 03:33 GMT
#45
On February 04 2011 12:29 MapleFractal wrote:


There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, god knows I've crossed that line before, just remember that. Arrogance generally never gets the girl.

I've bypassed the line a million times. It seems really thin to me. I somehow do it unconciously and notice to late. I think the main reasons girls don't really like me is because I kind of arrogant, so I might be viewed as a show-off. And because I can be VERY loud. :/
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
lixlix
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States482 Posts
February 04 2011 03:33 GMT
#46
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hacklebeast
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States5090 Posts
February 04 2011 03:49 GMT
#47
On February 04 2011 12:22 nayumi wrote:
Here's how you do it

1. Find a girl you like.
2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]"
3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher
4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today.

While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you.




Hell, if the rest of that works, go for sex AND ice cream.
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Loser777
Profile Blog Joined January 2008
1931 Posts
February 04 2011 04:03 GMT
#48
Trade her some Nintendo 64 games for access to her priv---

Man this thread makes me feel like a loser. Oh, wait
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Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 04:07 GMT
#49
On February 04 2011 12:49 hacklebeast wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 04 2011 12:22 nayumi wrote:
Here's how you do it

1. Find a girl you like.
2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]"
3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher
4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today.

While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you.




Hell, if the rest of that works, go for sex AND ice cream.

I did mention that I was a 7th grader, right....
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
lixlix
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
United States482 Posts
February 04 2011 04:10 GMT
#50
what, 7th graders don't like ice cream?
mizU
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States12125 Posts
February 04 2011 04:15 GMT
#51
When you feel like you're ready.
if happy ever afters did exist <3 @watamizu_
mizU
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States12125 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 04:16:30
February 04 2011 04:16 GMT
#52
On February 04 2011 13:07 Lightningbullet wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 04 2011 12:49 hacklebeast wrote:
On February 04 2011 12:22 nayumi wrote:
Here's how you do it

1. Find a girl you like.
2. Walk up to her and slap the shit out of her consciousness and go "THAT'S FOR RATTING ME OUT U LITTLE BITCH!!!!!111 U JUST DON'T MESS WITH [insert ur name]"
3. Apologize and say you thought she was someone else who ratted you out to the teacher
4. Tell her that you told your other friends about this too and they are waiting for her on her way home so it'd be safer if you walk her home for today.

While walking the lady home you can try to work your magic and talk her into sex, or ice-cream but i guess it's up to you.




Hell, if the rest of that works, go for sex AND ice cream.

I did mention that I was a 7th grader, right....


On February 04 2011 13:10 lixlix wrote:
what, 7th graders don't like ice cream?


LOLS
if happy ever afters did exist <3 @watamizu_
funnybananaman
Profile Joined April 2009
United States830 Posts
February 04 2011 04:40 GMT
#53
Everyone thinks dating is cool in middle school until they're in high school and they realize middle school fucking sucks lol. Do whatever you want but just take it with a grain of salt that no matter what happens you'll look back in 3 years and say wow we were retarded little kids back then. GL dude :D
Servius_Fulvius
Profile Joined August 2009
United States947 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 05:28:53
February 04 2011 05:25 GMT
#54
On February 04 2011 08:44 Lightningbullet wrote:
AS you know, a lot of gaming and Starcraft nerds are Asian. But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive. Just to give some info, I am in 7th grade and I a semi-nerd. I like math , chess, and gaming. And while some of my friends, aren't into girls, I totally am. (but with homework, math and games, I don't have too much time)
When do you think the starting age for dating is? A lot of popular kids at my school started dating in 6th grade. And so far, the people in the Asian group have not started dating yet. Do you have any advice/tips for me?


When I was in 7th grade (age 13) I was 6 months into my first crush. She liked me too, but I didn't really know what to do about it. Thinking I knew things about girls I slow-played myself right into watching her date another classmate the next year. But was it really dating?

In high school I saw people date. They would go out, do something, cuddle, and make out. People who dated had these exclusive privileges. Thinking I knew things about girls I tried to date my best friend for most of high school and it just never happened.

In college I saw people date. There was less going out and more staying in. Not having to worry about parents they didn't have to go very far for privacy. They would also get to know the person on a very deep level, have sex, and maybe get engaged. Thinking I knew things about girls, I dated a few and had some nice relationships. They didn't last, but I learned something about myself and what I really want.

So, when is a good starting age for dating? It's different for everyone, but I wholeheartedly believe that you're ready to date when you're ready to learn and grow from the experience. You're ready to date when you can selflessly give yourself to someone in return for their heart. You're ready to date when you realize that the most important thing isn't finding the girl you want to bone 24/7, but a great partner who you love and who will push you to be your best (perhaps without even trying!). Essentially, you're ready to date when you're grown-up. It's hard to give an exact time. Even my relationships with girls in their early 20's ended because they were too immature to handle them. Still, it's all part of the experience and I have learned a great deal from them.

On the other hand, dating is what you make of it. Your definition will evolve over time as your experiences shape you. In that case, start "dating" when you're ready to find out.

Oh, and drop the whole "girls don't find Asians attractive" crap. Embrace your asian-ness (and semi-nerdiness); confidence is the first step and you won't gain any by immediately writing yourself off. Besides, I doubt any 13 year old girl knows anything about attractive qualities, rather, what they think is hot based on pop culture and hormones.
Lightningbullet
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States507 Posts
February 04 2011 12:44 GMT
#55
thanks for the advice guys
BoxeR is AWESOME!!!!//Proud 2nd Member of the BW>SC2 club.
leejas
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
United States440 Posts
February 04 2011 14:00 GMT
#56
It's a trap.

But in all real honesty wait and don't sell yourself short. Find a girl who sees you for whom you are.
HeadhunteR
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Argentina1258 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 16:31:04
February 04 2011 16:30 GMT
#57
You are 12 years old. Try everything and anything that will make you seem older. Get friends that are older. If you like a girl just straight up go to her and say something talk about anything man then slip in a complement and when she is getting close to you, you back off and wait till she does something.
be calm as fuck that is the key man don't let her know you have any kind of feelings for her.
remember women are bitches you will soon find out that. You aren't the problem the girls you are talking to are. You have to look for girls that are easy and that don't give you so much trouble.
in The Kong line forever
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32045 Posts
February 04 2011 16:55 GMT
#58
get in on it now and start a monopoly on all the girls in your grade while the other morons dont like them homie!!!!
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Earll
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Norway847 Posts
February 04 2011 17:45 GMT
#59
FUCK 3rd time I am writing this after accidently closing it. Jesus christ. Anyway if you have the opportunity to 'date someone' or ask someone out right now then by all means go for it. Even though it is not likely to be 4srs daying 4reals it cant hurt to hang out and have some 1 on 1 time with someone of the opposite sex just so you get more comfortable with yourself and with such a scenario =]

I'll leave you with 1 word of advice though and if you truly take this to heart your life with girls\dating in the future will probably be alotttttt smoother.

But this may be a disadvantage in America. For example, girls really don't find Asians that attractive.

This is not at allllll true under any circumstances whatsoever ever in this dimension or any paralelle dimesions. You as an Asian homeboy have the excact same capabilities and opportunities to get the superfly honies as any whitey(or african\latino\indian or whatever other race\nationality you would like to pull into the mix) .

As people have already said, Confidence = good, (Arrogance = not so good) although I personaly dont think there is that thin of a line between the 2. Confidence is more just about trusting yourself and believeing that you are enough no matter what the scenario is. it is not about comparing yourself to others. Whereas Arrogance is more about believing you are better than others. Dont take yourself (too) seriously and you being confident will rarely come off as arrogant imo n_n Although I guess it is easier said than done to tell a boy just about to enter his teens to be confident but hey, it is what it is.
Wat
palanq
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
United States761 Posts
February 04 2011 20:12 GMT
#60
you don't need permission from the TL forums to start dating, even if you're in 7th grade. go for it if you feel like it.

also please ignore any stereotypes you may feel about unattractive nerdy asian kids. you won't convince any girls that the stereotypes are bad if you believe them yourself.
time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like a banana
palanq
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
United States761 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-02-04 20:15:52
February 04 2011 20:15 GMT
#61
oops wrong thread
time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like a banana
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