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Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 01:42 GMT
#101
On January 16 2011 10:31 Rekrul wrote:
You're taking this the wrong way. I'm all for your effort and trying to help motivate guys who have 0 experience with girls into doing so.

But when I read stuff like:

...I just can't help but laugh. This is horrible advice even to a guy who has never talked to a female other than his mom in his life.

This is why I usually don't try to explain semi-complicated concepts to girls. I just let them be and change the subject.

Can you please explain to me how this isn't offensive? Because I've shown a few of my friends at work and they agree it's offensive.

I think it's wonderful that you think it's horrible advice, but I've said the same thing to other people, and I've gotten different responses. That's why I posted it.
you are perfect porcelain.
LuckyFool
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States9015 Posts
January 16 2011 01:42 GMT
#102
Love the pics in the original post, so adorable.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
January 16 2011 01:54 GMT
#103
On January 16 2011 10:42 Raeleigh wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 16 2011 10:31 Rekrul wrote:
You're taking this the wrong way. I'm all for your effort and trying to help motivate guys who have 0 experience with girls into doing so.

But when I read stuff like:

...I just can't help but laugh. This is horrible advice even to a guy who has never talked to a female other than his mom in his life.

Show nested quote +
This is why I usually don't try to explain semi-complicated concepts to girls. I just let them be and change the subject.

Can you please explain to me how this isn't offensive? Because I've shown a few of my friends at work and they agree it's offensive.

I think it's wonderful that you think it's horrible advice, but I've said the same thing to other people, and I've gotten different responses. That's why I posted it.


I don't get how it's offensive at all? In general girls are too preoccupied with meaningless things and their emotional attachment to such things to truly grasp 'semi-complicated concepts.'

Though I suppose a 20 year old girl who has only had 2 relationships posting on the internet trying to get replies like 'Wow great blog, inspirational advice!' from guys who've had 0 relationships (besides with their hand and perhaps a world of warcraft 'girl') isn't really a complicated concept. So I take that back. Despite your replies to me I know you deep down you understand the fact that your whole blog was really just a guide for a guy on how to pick up a girl like you.

It's okay to make blog posts merely to get attention. I do it all the time!

And don't get me wrong...the smart girls with the wits to understand complicated things are the ones that tickle my fancy.

why so 진지해?
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 01:55 GMT
#104
On January 16 2011 10:41 Severedevil wrote:
There's been mention of 'Friend Zone' and such.

I'm pretty sure the 'Friend Zone' is what happens if a male acts like a completely asexual being in the company of a female acquaintance.

I would think so. o_O

On January 16 2011 10:42 LuckyFool wrote:
Love the pics in the original post, so adorable.

Thank youuuu.
you are perfect porcelain.
eLiE
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Canada1039 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-16 02:14:29
January 16 2011 01:55 GMT
#105
On January 16 2011 09:19 Rekrul wrote:
And:
Show nested quote +
If you can't be 100% confident, don't fake it. I remember reading a thread that said, "Not confident yet? Fake it until it is." That's the worst way to do it. If you're not 100% confident yet, and you're getting there, you do the best with what you have. Being honest and being who you are is what a girl will want. I don't want someone to pretend they're confident, and pretend they're awesome. I want someone to know they're pretty confident, and know they're pretty awesome. So will other girls.


IMO this is the only part of your thread of real value. Girls want real-ness no matter what level it comes on.


It was probably me that said fake your confidence, and I 100% stand by it. However, I worded it to go with what the OP of the other thread was saying. Basically, the world tends to pass by the people who have no confidence. And how are you supposed to improve confidence? Be more confident, but it isn't that easy. Doing confident things is going to be completely out of your comfort zone, totally unnatural, but you are gonna need to fake it (looking calm, cool, composed, as confidence goes) until your confidence becomes natural. I'd think of it more like making an active effort to make your confidence a part of you. Very important adaptation in my opinion. I think you were mistaking confidence with being conceited (unattractive trait). Anyways, confidence is difficult, but sometimes you just gotta grow some balls and go do what you gotta do.

EDIT: Confidence should emphasize/complement your base personality rather than change it.
How's the weather down there?
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-16 02:01:23
January 16 2011 01:59 GMT
#106
On January 16 2011 10:54 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 16 2011 10:42 Raeleigh wrote:
On January 16 2011 10:31 Rekrul wrote:
You're taking this the wrong way. I'm all for your effort and trying to help motivate guys who have 0 experience with girls into doing so.

But when I read stuff like:

...I just can't help but laugh. This is horrible advice even to a guy who has never talked to a female other than his mom in his life.

This is why I usually don't try to explain semi-complicated concepts to girls. I just let them be and change the subject.

Can you please explain to me how this isn't offensive? Because I've shown a few of my friends at work and they agree it's offensive.

I think it's wonderful that you think it's horrible advice, but I've said the same thing to other people, and I've gotten different responses. That's why I posted it.


I don't get how it's offensive at all? In general girls are too preoccupied with meaningless things and their emotional attachment to such things to truly grasp 'semi-complicated concepts.'

Though I suppose a 20 year old girl who has only had 2 relationships posting on the internet trying to get replies like 'Wow great blog, inspirational advice!' from guys who've had 0 relationships (besides with their hand and perhaps a world of warcraft 'girl') isn't really a complicated concept. So I take that back. Despite your replies to me I know you deep down you understand the fact that your whole blog was really just a guide for a guy on how to pick up a girl like you.

It's okay to make blog posts merely to get attention. I do it all the time!

And don't get me wrong...the smart girls with the wits to understand complicated things are the ones that tickle my fancy.


I'm sorry, when did I say I only had 2 serious relationships? I've had more than 2 relationships, but only 2 of them were serious.
No, this is not a guide on how to pick up a girl like me. But, I used my experiences as an example. If I wanted to post a blog on how to pick up a girl like me..
How to pick up a girl like me;
-Spend money on me
-Tell me i'm cute
-Make a move or GTFO

Not exactly the same in any way, is it? Durrr.
I don't make blog posts to get attention. If I wanted to do that, I wouldn't be posting here.

Just a heads up: The smart girls who tickle your fancy won't want you either. Just sayin'.
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you are perfect porcelain.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-01-16 02:04:02
January 16 2011 02:03 GMT
#107
How to pick up a girl like me;
-Spend money on me
-Tell me i'm cute
-Make a move or GTFO


-Spend money on me


How much do u go for?
why so 진지해?
tonight
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States11130 Posts
January 16 2011 02:04 GMT
#108
I just wanted to know because I find it makes all the difference in terms of talking about "serious" relationships. How long were each of your serious relationships? Your definition as "serious" is probably much different from mine at the age of 26. I guess, however, that if you are directing your advice to teenage boys looking to talk to young girls then I think your advice is very misleading. You depict the girls as being mature and understanding, but in general 17-20 year olds are girls, not women.
if I come without a thing, then I come with all I need @tonightsend
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 02:04 GMT
#109
On January 16 2011 11:03 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
How to pick up a girl like me;
-Spend money on me
-Tell me i'm cute
-Make a move or GTFO


Show nested quote +
-Spend money on me


How much?

Wouldn't you like to know~~~~
you are perfect porcelain.
Rekrul
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
Korea (South)17174 Posts
January 16 2011 02:05 GMT
#110
And that ladies and gentlemen, is how you pick up a girl.
why so 진지해?
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 02:05 GMT
#111
On January 16 2011 11:04 tonight wrote:
I just wanted to know because I find it makes all the difference in terms of talking about "serious" relationships. How long were each of your serious relationships? Your definition as "serious" is probably much different from mine at the age of 26. I guess, however, that if you are directing your advice to teenage boys looking to talk to young girls then I think your advice is very misleading. You depict the girls as being mature and understanding, but in general 17-20 year olds are girls, not women.

It wasn't just pointed at teenage boys. It was pointed at anyone who might have trouble speaking with girls.
Like I've said, they can try it, and if it doesn't work, that's fine. They'll know not to listen to me ever again and I'm alright with that. :U
you are perfect porcelain.
tonight
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States11130 Posts
January 16 2011 02:05 GMT
#112
On January 16 2011 11:05 Rekrul wrote:
And that ladies and gentlemen, is how you pick up a girl.

rofl
if I come without a thing, then I come with all I need @tonightsend
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
January 16 2011 02:06 GMT
#113
Your pithy comebacks don't really work well when you're talking to a person of Rekrul's notoriety. You may be thinking "Well I don't care who he is, I'm just speaking the truth!" but the fact is that you're just completely wrong. Rekrul have lived more in the last 10 years than most people will in their lifetimes. And he could buy your mother.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
Railxp
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Hong Kong1313 Posts
January 16 2011 02:07 GMT
#114
loved the pictures! and they blend with TL colors!! ^_^ very cute
~\(。◕‿‿◕。)/~,,,,,,,,>
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 02:07 GMT
#115
On January 16 2011 11:03 Rekrul wrote:
Show nested quote +
How to pick up a girl like me;
-Spend money on me
-Tell me i'm cute
-Make a move or GTFO


Show nested quote +
-Spend money on me


How much do u go for?

Now you're being offensive. ^_~ Gotcha.

On January 16 2011 11:05 Rekrul wrote:
And that ladies and gentlemen, is how you pick up a girl.

I don't think you'd know how to pick up a girl even if she was laying naked in front of you telling you to touch her. Honestly.
you are perfect porcelain.
Raeleigh
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
Canada902 Posts
January 16 2011 02:07 GMT
#116
On January 16 2011 11:07 Railxp wrote:
loved the pictures! and they blend with TL colors!! ^_^ very cute

Yeah, I got the same color of the background and just drew them on there. xD Thought it'd look better instead of just white squares on the blue.
you are perfect porcelain.
tonight
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States11130 Posts
January 16 2011 02:08 GMT
#117
On January 16 2011 11:05 Raeleigh wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 16 2011 11:04 tonight wrote:
I just wanted to know because I find it makes all the difference in terms of talking about "serious" relationships. How long were each of your serious relationships? Your definition as "serious" is probably much different from mine at the age of 26. I guess, however, that if you are directing your advice to teenage boys looking to talk to young girls then I think your advice is very misleading. You depict the girls as being mature and understanding, but in general 17-20 year olds are girls, not women.

It wasn't just pointed at teenage boys. It was pointed at anyone who might have trouble speaking with girls.
Like I've said, they can try it, and if it doesn't work, that's fine. They'll know not to listen to me ever again and I'm alright with that. :U

Well, girls your age and younger are immature, indecisive, and petty. So, saying things like, "She'll understand" seems pretty bogus to me, but, you know it's fine and I'm sure some kids out there will take this to heart, but never manage to do anything with it.
if I come without a thing, then I come with all I need @tonightsend
eLiE
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Canada1039 Posts
January 16 2011 02:08 GMT
#118
On January 16 2011 11:07 Raeleigh wrote:
Show nested quote +
On January 16 2011 11:03 Rekrul wrote:
How to pick up a girl like me;
-Spend money on me
-Tell me i'm cute
-Make a move or GTFO


-Spend money on me


How much do u go for?

Now you're being offensive. ^_~ Gotcha.

Show nested quote +
On January 16 2011 11:05 Rekrul wrote:
And that ladies and gentlemen, is how you pick up a girl.

I don't think you'd know how to pick up a girl even if she was laying naked in front of you telling you to touch her. Honestly.


ROFL, stop feeding the Rekrul, he can do this all day. Actually keep going, this is entertaining.
How's the weather down there?
Najda
Profile Joined June 2010
United States3765 Posts
January 16 2011 02:09 GMT
#119
This needs to be stickied or be an auto-first-reply to any girl blog on TL.
SlyinZ
Profile Joined August 2010
France199 Posts
January 16 2011 02:11 GMT
#120
TL;DR : Grow balls ( and you bank account too , maybe even more than your balls).
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