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TechniQ.UK
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United Kingdom391 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-28 01:26:41
December 28 2010 01:26 GMT
#1
Yup another one. Sorry but as a famous new testament scholar once said when all else fails read teamliquid.net.

In summary
Told girl I liked her...got a sort of strange no response 4 months ago since shes leaving for a foreign trip.
See her on regular basis, started to get better responses from her recently.
Got a while before she leaves. I want to use this time to do something but not sure what...don't wanna be too pushy since she said no but at the same time don't want to do nothing.

Any advice? Be specific and elaborate please.

Thanks





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news
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
892 Posts
December 28 2010 01:30 GMT
#2
I'm not sure how 'Gospel of Jesus Christ:
becomes a part of your plan.
"Althought it sounds sexism, and probably is, given the right context, we cannot classify the statement itself as a sexist statement by itself," - evanthebouncy!
TechniQ.UK
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United Kingdom391 Posts
December 28 2010 01:33 GMT
#3
uh...its my forum signature...nothing to do with the blog post.
Fan of: Acer.Scarlett and Liquid'NonY //
paper
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
13197 Posts
December 28 2010 01:34 GMT
#4
DELETE HER FROM LIFE IMMEDIATELY, HIT THE GYM, TRY AGAIN IN A YEAR
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Chimpalimp
Profile Joined May 2010
United States1135 Posts
December 28 2010 01:37 GMT
#5
Go for it if you feel that its the right thing to do. Only you can decide whether or not to act or not to. All I can say is don't let a good thing go by, and don't be too pushy.
I like money. You like money too? We should hang out.
hazelynut
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2197 Posts
December 28 2010 01:39 GMT
#6
On December 28 2010 10:34 paper wrote:
DELETE HER FROM LIFE IMMEDIATELY, HIT THE GYM, TRY AGAIN IN A YEAR


agree. focus on self, girls come later.
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Grobyc
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada18410 Posts
December 28 2010 01:39 GMT
#7
On December 28 2010 10:34 paper wrote:
DELETE HER FROM LIFE IMMEDIATELY, HIT THE GYM, TRY AGAIN IN A YEAR

inanimate objects have never given such solid advice.
If you watch Godzilla backwards it's about a benevolent lizard who helps rebuild a city and then moonwalks into the ocean.
SpiritoftheTunA
Profile Blog Joined August 2006
United States20903 Posts
December 28 2010 01:41 GMT
#8
On December 28 2010 10:34 paper wrote:
DELETE HER FROM LIFE IMMEDIATELY, HIT THE GYM, TRY AGAIN IN A YEAR

+ question your religion in your darkest moments
posting on liquid sites in current year
OutlaW-
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Czech Republic5053 Posts
December 28 2010 01:42 GMT
#9
i agree
if you are on a level where girls dont want you, trying for them will make everything even worse
you first need to be confident and look decent, actually looking good only helps, but if girls dont like you atm and nothing changes with your personality then theres no point in actually trying for a girl
but if shes sending u signals just go for it like a man and learn from it, such experience is exactly what you need to become more manly - what girls want
a confident, cocky man who knows how tot ake care of himself
yo dawg
Delete your post underage b&. You're incestuous for you're onee-chan so you're clearly not a bad guy, but others might not agree
Br3ezy
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States720 Posts
December 28 2010 01:49 GMT
#10
this will solve all your problems
http://www.girlsaskguys.com/
Check out my guide to mechanics http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=319876
fabulously
Profile Joined November 2010
Norway724 Posts
December 28 2010 01:55 GMT
#11
If you really can't let go of the thought of her, you should just ask her out directly, it is way better to get a plain no than to go around dealing with a maybe. If you get a no you can at least move on. Long time maybes are such waste of time. Good luck either way, though, hope she gives you a yes this time.
Welcome back ROOT-gaming - you were never forgotten <3
kerpal
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United Kingdom2695 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-28 02:00:14
December 28 2010 01:58 GMT
#12
Do you find your sig makes it difficult for you to get responses to your posts?

if she said no she probably assumes you've taken that and you're now friends, don't misconstrue friendship as her changing her mind. she rememebers and if she changes her mind she'll let you know also do you really want to start something with her going away? put it out of your mind, maybe things will change when she comes back, maybe not.

EDIT: re-read.. you say that you got 'better responses' i've assumed that just means you've been friends. is that right?
TechniQ.UK
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United Kingdom391 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-12-28 02:06:37
December 28 2010 02:02 GMT
#13
lol regarding hitting the gym and such...im not a fat nerd. I'm totally thin, dress well, confident, relatively popular, everything. I could date other girls at university and such but I don't. It's this girl I want to be with.

Yeah but again how do I do this without being pushy? How should I go about this?

I have asked her out directly as possible and received a not now sort of thing... we agreed to meet and we spent the day together and i said to her.

I'm not really in favour of doing the same thing again. Perhaps something more subtle, less aggressive.

Yes we've been friends and continue to be. Not super close but yeah friends.


Fan of: Acer.Scarlett and Liquid'NonY //
a176
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Canada6688 Posts
December 28 2010 02:06 GMT
#14
On December 28 2010 10:49 T.I.P. wrote:
this will solve all your problems
http://www.girlsaskguys.com/


holy shit that site loooool

[image loading]
starleague forever
kerpal
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United Kingdom2695 Posts
December 28 2010 02:10 GMT
#15
not super close is good, don't want to be a friend, you want more...

give her time... when i asked my girlfriend out i spent the first 3 days of our relationship thinking she had said maybe when she'd actually said yes (communication has never been our strong point!)

BUT its worth pushing for an answer, limbo sucks for you both. gl!
celious
Profile Joined September 2009
United States195 Posts
December 28 2010 02:12 GMT
#16
being thin != looking good, get muscular THATS WHAT THE WOMENS WANT.
palanq
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
United States761 Posts
December 28 2010 02:22 GMT
#17
options:
date until she leaves (that means you don't see her again if she says no again)
remain friends until she leaves
don't see her until she gets back

pick your poison
time flies like an arrow; fruit flies like a banana
TechniQ.UK
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United Kingdom391 Posts
December 28 2010 02:22 GMT
#18
Yeah i dont mean super thin... i look normal/some muscular content.
Man you people....back on topic!

lol at the "brick wall" post.

hmm yeah limbo sucks but kicking down the front door metaphorically speaking may not necessarily produce the desired result....thats in summary the whole issue here.

Its not a matter of what should I do its a matter of how.



Fan of: Acer.Scarlett and Liquid'NonY //
krndandaman
Profile Joined August 2009
Mozambique16569 Posts
December 28 2010 02:27 GMT
#19
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Z3kk
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
4099 Posts
December 28 2010 02:28 GMT
#20
On December 28 2010 11:06 a176 wrote:
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On December 28 2010 10:49 T.I.P. wrote:
this will solve all your problems
http://www.girlsaskguys.com/


holy shit that site loooool

[image loading]


LOL is this site even close to legit? (you can just lie about your gender and put some terrible advice for the opposite gender right? O____O).

At OP, not enough information, I guess? Girl blogs usually don't work very well, because we as guys cannot understand how in the world they think...right?
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