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Update:
Previously I said I would go for this drinking chillout session with a girl which seem to be disinterested.. and guess what?
Wait, first, does making out count as scoring? i guess it does, so go me!
To tell the story, firstly we went to the bar, and well got ourselves some drinks. Beer - shot - whiskey - beer. So at first we were just making small talk, then we moved on to talking about our firsts. (well i asked her to ask me but w/e). So apparently, she had her first kiss when she was fourteen and mine was eighteen. She started laughing at me =( but so i upped the ante. I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). And somehow.. we were both slightly drunk, she more so than me, and she just leaned in anddd... magic occurred. I guess. We were making out.. at the bar. We finished our beers and i sent her home. She tried to push me away saying that she could go back but i had none of that. So at her doorstep, she said "I was terrible.." and another passionate round of making out occurred.
However i guessed i sorta spoilt the mood by saying, "lets take this inside" and she immediately sorta froze. =/ We made out a bit more, and she ended by "I was strangely attracted to you all summer.. I think we just made it awkward at work." I just said "No, it wouldnt be awkward"...
I mean, what next?
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Sounds like things went well. She probably refused to take it any further on your first date so you don't think she's a slut (or she wants to prove it to herself that she's not a slut). Anyway, no prob, be sure to follow up with her for another "hang out" request in a few days if you want to continue things.
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On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things
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tl blogs devolving into girl threads. woohoo just when i thought i'd found a community with people who generally WEREN'T angsty...
still props.
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Vatican City State2594 Posts
Don't push it too hard n_n;
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thanks guys I will take your advice:
And, just a shoutout to all Asian guys there - it IS possible to get a legit, cute, sporty white girl =DD You just have to be 6 foot 1 ^^ Do it for the Asian pride! keke.
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On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things
I guess the correct word for a guy is cunninglingus.. but sure, yea. Always fun ;p
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On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things ROFL. I was thinking there was something wrong there.
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Hong Kong20321 Posts
On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things
LOL! hahah i didnt catch that haha. baller too good O_O
lol seems like success anyway ^_^ 2nd date GO
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On July 21 2010 22:30 bloopie wrote: And, just a shoutout to all Asian guys there - it IS possible to get a legit, cute, sporty white girl =DD You just have to be 6 foot 1 ^^ Do it for the Asian pride! keke.
Damn you asian guys, taking all of our women... how am I supposed to compete with those sexy accents and superhuman dexterity resulting from chopstick mastery?!?
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On July 21 2010 22:34 AcrossFiveJulys wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:30 bloopie wrote: And, just a shoutout to all Asian guys there - it IS possible to get a legit, cute, sporty white girl =DD You just have to be 6 foot 1 ^^ Do it for the Asian pride! keke. Damn you asian guys, taking all of our women... how am I supposed to compete with those sexy accents and superhuman dexterity resulting from chopstick mastery?!?
A Chinese accent is sexy? Think William Hung..
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FREEAGLELAND26780 Posts
On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things You ball so hard.
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3
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On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 too fast? they r just making out they havent even started doing anything serious lol
u should definitely go make the blog, i'm sure TL could help u w/ guy advice since theres so many guys on this site. there r plenty of fish in the sea and some of them like cats and old bitter people.
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On July 21 2010 22:34 AcrossFiveJulys wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:30 bloopie wrote: And, just a shoutout to all Asian guys there - it IS possible to get a legit, cute, sporty white girl =DD You just have to be 6 foot 1 ^^ Do it for the Asian pride! keke. Damn you asian guys, taking all of our women... how am I supposed to compete with those sexy accents and superhuman dexterity resulting from chopstick mastery?!?
you forgot our kungfu that every asian knows regardless of whether we are martial arts exponents or not =D
And while we are on that topic, when I lapse back into asian pronunciation, she will give me that "wtf are u saying" look T_T
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On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3
Yea you should.. I know I will/can help =)
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On July 21 2010 22:46 flamewheel wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things You ball so hard. You are so cute.
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On July 21 2010 22:26 nath wrote: tl blogs devolving into girl threads. woohoo just when i thought i'd found a community with people who generally WEREN'T angsty...
still props.
You must be new. TL has legendary girl blogs. Most are friend zone fails, however. Congrats to OP
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TL.net is not the place for Relation advices.
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On July 21 2010 23:32 Dakk wrote: TL.net is not the place for Relation advices.
Oh but it is.. with Rek and Kennigit providing some real manly advice.
Dang, who keeps rating the blogs so low.
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On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: Wait, first, does making out count as scoring? i guess it does, so go me!
Way to spoil the entry!
Glad to here that things worked out. So she's "strangely attracted" to you, went out for drinks, and then made out with you, huh? Maybe you were a bit premature with 'taking things inside', but it doesn't sound like you ruined anything. Take it easy killer, most women, especially women of quality, don't do that on a first date.
I know that alcohol is the social lubricant and everything, but maybe try a date that doesn't involve drinking and see where it goes?
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On July 21 2010 22:26 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:20 bloopie wrote: I asked, when was her first fellation that she gave? (Ans: Sixteen. Mine: Eighteen). glad to know ur open minded enough to try new things
damnit.
Well, I'm going to start using the word fellation now.
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i googled the word and apparently, it stands for the same thing but in a different language o_o My spelling is fail.
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5/5 for a girl blog that contains success
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Vatican City State1650 Posts
Dude, I don't see what's the attraction people feel towards the act of "making out."
a. it's usually immediately after either drinking or eating something - breath smells like hell b. sweat and dirt - making out is usually spontaneous, so you don't have the option of starting "clean." Eww disgusting b. 20-30 min doing nothing but rubbing your bodies? wtf rather just masturbate and be done with it c. after all that, still no sex most of the time. How the hell do you relieve all the tension? again, you jack off
When I see kids say they made out for X minutes, I just don't understand why they'd be proud of it. Either do it or don't -_-
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On July 22 2010 02:32 bloopie wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 23:32 Dakk wrote: TL.net is not the place for Relation advices. Oh but it is.. with Rek and Kennigit providing some real manly advice. Dang, who keeps rating the blogs so low. Just some random dude that seems to give them to everyone (just like AIDS; I don't care if it makes sense I just wanted to say it).
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Calgary25940 Posts
On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason...
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason...
I thought we agreed not to communicate again. Stop picking out my comments to make your own judgements on. I was just giving a woman's perspective on this which is something not many girls can do here on TL.
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On July 22 2010 09:24 NeverGG wrote:Show nested quote +On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason... I thought we agreed not to communicate again. Stop picking out my comments to make your own judgements on. I was just giving a woman's perspective on this which is something not many girls can do here on TL. please make ur guy advice blog, lots of TLers would love to read it. in fact, u could probably make a blog where u give guys girl advice, that'd help a lot
chill can't u just leave the nice girl alone she's just trying to help
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On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:Show nested quote +On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason... I think emphasis was on the boy problems SLASH advice blog. I think it'd be interesting to hear her problems with dudes haha.
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Calgary25940 Posts
On July 22 2010 10:02 Bereft wrote:Show nested quote +On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason... I think it'd be interesting to hear her problems with dudes haha. I wholeheartedly agree.
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Making out on a first date is definitely a success, the only thing that bothered me was the Q about fellatio but I'm sure you knew better, probably not the first time you played around with this girl.
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NeverGG
United Kingdom5399 Posts
On July 22 2010 10:02 Bereft wrote:Show nested quote +On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason... I think emphasis was on the boy problems SLASH advice blog. I think it'd be interesting to hear her problems with dudes haha.
I was actually joking. Hell will freeze over before I talk about that element of my life with certain people on TL.
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I think a blog airing grievances and/or reservations regarding relationships and the lack of them from a social-sexual abject from the other gender would be really refreshing and interesting if just as fruitless and depressing.
But you know Teamliquid probably isn't the place for that.
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Um.. whatever. Girls R Gh3y.
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On July 22 2010 12:42 SuperJongMan wrote: Um.. whatever. Girls R Gh3y.
lol i guess you speak from experience?
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On July 22 2010 12:42 SuperJongMan wrote: Um.. whatever. Girls R Gh3y. Hahaha I don't know why but this coming from SJM made me laugh.
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On July 22 2010 11:50 NeverGG wrote:Show nested quote +On July 22 2010 10:02 Bereft wrote:On July 22 2010 08:49 Chill wrote:On July 21 2010 22:49 NeverGG wrote: Yeah, if you didn't know her so well then that seems like going slightly too fast. It does depend upon the individual girl though. I want to make a boy problems/advice blog now, but I've already worked out that I'm just a bitter, cat-loving old man-hater <3 Why would you think you should give relationship advice? I don't give photography advice for a reason... I think emphasis was on the boy problems SLASH advice blog. I think it'd be interesting to hear her problems with dudes haha. I was actually joking. Hell will freeze over before I talk about that element of my life with certain people on TL. Hell has just frozen over
gogogogogogo
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I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D
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On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D
More like NeverGG and anyone who has possibly maybe hinted at any form of criticism constructive or not ever while quoting one of her posts.
Guess someone put 5 on the defensive question as well kekekekeke...
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On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D she has not ruled out the possibility, she said "no comment" when asked about it
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On July 23 2010 05:53 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D she has not ruled out the possibility, she said "no comment" when asked about it
But that's also a no comment on the possibility of killing chill D:
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On July 23 2010 05:58 Megalisk wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2010 05:53 baller wrote:On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D she has not ruled out the possibility, she said "no comment" when asked about it But that's also a no comment on the possibility of killing chill D: only 33% chance of kill, 66% chance of something good
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On July 23 2010 05:59 baller wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2010 05:58 Megalisk wrote:On July 23 2010 05:53 baller wrote:On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D she has not ruled out the possibility, she said "no comment" when asked about it But that's also a no comment on the possibility of killing chill D: only 33% chance of kill, 66% chance of something good
Sorry, baller, but you're wrong.
Just because there are only three options does not mean each is equally likely, friend.
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For instance, if it were issorlol, issorlol, and issorlol, any normal person would choose
K: issorlol, issorlol, issorlol Friend: N/A F: N/A
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On July 23 2010 06:02 Issorlol wrote:Show nested quote +On July 23 2010 05:59 baller wrote:On July 23 2010 05:58 Megalisk wrote:On July 23 2010 05:53 baller wrote:On July 23 2010 04:32 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: I think chill and NeverGG would make a great couple :D she has not ruled out the possibility, she said "no comment" when asked about it But that's also a no comment on the possibility of killing chill D: only 33% chance of kill, 66% chance of something good Sorry, baller, but you're wrong. Just because there are only three options does not mean each is equally likely, friend.
Hey you're finally a zergling!
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doh - okay at the risk of sounding like a total lamer:
its day 2 post date, and so we are just as per normal in the office, she talks to me slightly more now but its not awkward, so its all good.
So she's not coming to work tmr since shes going somewhere far out with her friends to celebrate her birthday, and as a goodbye, she said "Don't miss me so much" (OK) and I was like "Yea.." and held her and tried to plant a quick light one on her lips. However she sorta angled her head for quite a while and i was forced to kiss her on the cheek.
A) Is she just being shy B) Having some regrets?
She didnt try to push me away though.
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On July 23 2010 08:13 bloopie wrote: However she sorta angled her head for quite a while and i was forced to kiss her on the cheek.
oooooo OUUUUUCHHHHHHH That hurts man. Snap.
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On July 23 2010 08:13 bloopie wrote: doh - okay at the risk of sounding like a total lamer:
its day 2 post date, and so we are just as per normal in the office, she talks to me slightly more now but its not awkward, so its all good.
So she's not coming to work tmr since shes going somewhere far out with her friends to celebrate her birthday, and as a goodbye, she said "Don't miss me so much" (OK) and I was like "Yea.." and held her and tried to plant a quick light one on her lips. However she sorta angled her head for quite a while and i was forced to kiss her on the cheek.
A) Is she just being shy B) Having some regrets?
She didnt try to push me away though.
Its ok, you'll get next time tiger!
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i dunno i rate it as a pretty hard shutdown myself T_T
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