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..my life that is.
When I finished my job training, I had a job offer from T-Mobile in Los Angeles which I didn't take because I was in love with a girl and I didn't want to give up all my friendships.
By now I can tell it was wrong since right now I encouter - for the first time in my life - the feeling that home doesn't feel like home anymore.
The relationship to that girl crumbled, the friends that were once close are not so close anymore.. and everything I was - I'm not anymore.
I completely changed - I didn't change my personalty.. I don't know what exactly happened, but right now my life feels like a bunch of shards with the same sequence every day..
I need to change something, or those shards will shred me and my life to pieces.
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thought about switching race?
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Live with the shards, don't think about it too much. You'll eventually put everything back together again (more or less) or sweep it up and leave it behind and start again.
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On July 17 2010 09:27 G.s)NarutO wrote:
..my life that is.
When I finished my job training, I had a job offer from T-Mobile in Los Angeles which I didn't take because I was in love with a girl and I didn't want to give up all my friendships.
By now I can tell it was wrong since right now I encouter - for the first time in my life - the feeling that home doesn't feel like home anymore.
The relationship to that girl crumbled, the friends that were once close are not so close anymore.. and everything I was - I'm not anymore.
I completely changed - I didn't change my personalty.. I don't know what exactly happened, but right now my life feels like a bunch of shards with the same sequence every day..
I need to change something, or those shards will shred me and my life to pieces.
Meh, it was probably a mistake to not take that job, but so what? You can't wallow in your mistakes otherwise you will never move past it. Just forge new friendships, new relationships, take each moment as it comes and run with it.
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A woman who you don't have a concrete relationship with is not worth a job.. I guess its one of the parts in life where you regret and have to move on. Does T-Mobile still recognize you with their job offer? Try to get their attention that you want to work for them now.
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You are an idiot. You throw away a job that was offered to you on a silver plate because of such vapid things like "friendship" and "love"? Wow. You deserve the state you are in.
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A friend of mine talked to me, she will sleep in the room next to me. I will try to sleep, its 3am! Will reply tomorrow..
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put it another way
if you got offered that job, then you have skills that should see you get another offer of a similar job as long as you dont give up on it
pretty much that hope that kept me going, and after a while i was right.
lol @ the dickhead calling love and friendship vapid, clearly a tool who has never enjoyed the full benefit of either
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In this economy, throwing away a job offer for personal preferences is idiotic.
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On July 17 2010 10:02 orgolove wrote:
In this economy, throwing away a job offer for personal preferences is idiotic.
As absolutely tactless as this post was it does have a shred of truth to it :/
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I thought this was gonna be about meth. Same kinda shit has happened to me before. Just keep on keepin on.
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Sometimes you have to pick yourself and keep walking, even if you don't have a direction in life.
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Naruto come to the states! Msg me on aim if you want to talk broski.
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On July 17 2010 09:33 xMiragex wrote:
Live with the shards, don't think about it too much. You'll eventually put everything back together again (more or less) or sweep it up and leave it behind and start again.
I'm fixing it step by step.
On July 17 2010 09:33 Xeris wrote:
Meh, it was probably a mistake to not take that job, but so what? You can't wallow in your mistakes otherwise you will never move past it. Just forge new friendships, new relationships, take each moment as it comes and run with it.
Probably the truth, I'm 22 - thats the beginning of my life.On July 17 2010 09:34 Folca wrote:
A woman who you don't have a concrete relationship with is not worth a job.. I guess its one of the parts in life where you regret and have to move on. Does T-Mobile still recognize you with their job offer? Try to get their attention that you want to work for them now.
Love and friends are always worth more than a job. Its not like I don't have a job - it would be a great adventure to work in Los Angeles, but I have an equal good job here. Maybe paid a bit less. The job is taken now, so no chance to get it.
On July 17 2010 09:50 orgolove wrote:
You are an idiot. You throw away a job that was offered to you on a silver plate because of such vapid things like "friendship" and "love"? Wow. You deserve the state you are in.
Wow. I'm speechless. You have not yet experienced love and real friendship. You call those things vapid, I call them the basement of life. Friends and being loved / love gives you a more fullfilling feeling than any job in the world.
I'm sad that you don't seem to know those feelings.
On July 17 2010 10:01 k!llua wrote:
put it another way
if you got offered that job, then you have skills that should see you get another offer of a similar job as long as you dont give up on it
pretty much that hope that kept me going, and after a while i was right.
lol @ the dickhead calling love and friendship vapid, clearly a tool who has never enjoyed the full benefit of either
I agree - I got a equal good job in Germany, just a bit less paid!
On July 17 2010 10:02 orgolove wrote:
In this economy, throwing away a job offer for personal preferences is idiotic.
You miss the point - I'm throwing away a job offer in a different country. I got a job here. So all your argument about economy and personal preferences is way over the top.
On July 17 2010 10:21 Jayme wrote:Show nested quote +On July 17 2010 10:02 orgolove wrote:
In this economy, throwing away a job offer for personal preferences is idiotic. As absolutely tactless as this post was it does have a shred of truth to it :/
It would have been true if I didn't have a job.
On July 17 2010 10:22 CharlieMurphy wrote:
I thought this was gonna be about meth. Same kinda shit has happened to me before. Just keep on keepin on.
Thanks :-) I will. You know I'm NarutO.
On July 17 2010 10:29 Mickey wrote:
Sometimes you have to pick yourself and keep walking, even if you don't have a direction in life.
Yes, thank you.
On July 17 2010 11:10 Whiplash wrote:
Naruto come to the states! Msg me on aim if you want to talk broski.
:-) You are a friend in the US and I appriciate that. But I will stay in Germany for now.
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Dude! You're NARUTO! Its all gonna be alright! You're gonna be Imba soon. ^^
But seriously hope everything works out and you find new fulfilling friends 
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Good luck mate. You can find something to do, definitely. Jobwise, I mean.
If things don't work out in the meantime channel your anger into StarCraft? :/
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