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Try
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Draconizard
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alffla
Hong Kong20321 Posts
well what can you do....... | ||
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404.Delirium
United States1190 Posts
Keep trying to think of something to say but get at a loss for words when I try to put myself in your situation. Definitely stirring news. | ||
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StalinRusH
United States734 Posts
really unfortunate and i wish i knew more (didnt watch the video cause im at school) | ||
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QuanticHawk
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GreEny K
Germany7312 Posts
Edit, FUCK those are some nice houses. | ||
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Athos
United States2484 Posts
On January 21 2010 02:35 Hawk wrote: Why the hell would you further publicize what I'm sure is a traumatic time for your friend's family? Are you a friend or do you just wanna be a gossip whore? Excuse me? He's allowed to blog about his feelings. Give him some respect. @OP: Wow, I had an similar experience when I found a 3rd cousin of mine committed a murder and now has to spend 10 years in jail. I only knew him when he was a nice, innocent child, so it was hard to imagine him murdering someone. Who knows what really went down, but cases like these are incredibly sad when they happen, especially when the victim was the boy's own father. | ||
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Lovin
Denmark812 Posts
Seriously though, fuck.. It'd be such a tragedy to see one of the good guys go for an accident... He's gotta be feeling the bottom right now.. You never know how much you love someone till you lose them. I have arguements with my father aswell, but luckily it has never come to blows.. It's been close though On January 21 2010 02:35 Hawk wrote: Why the hell would you further publicize what I'm sure is a traumatic time for your friend's family? Are you a friend or do you just wanna be a gossip whore? And what the hell.. Let the man share his emotions | ||
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Try
United States1293 Posts
On January 21 2010 02:35 Hawk wrote: Why the hell would you further publicize what I'm sure is a traumatic time for your friend's family? Are you a friend or do you just wanna be a gossip whore? This is a blog. This is where you talk about your feelings. I found out several hours ago and was completely shocked and just sat there for a long time, and I don't have anyone else to talk to about it. I hoped to find some comfort here, at teamliquid, which is usually understanding and I feel like is almost a tightknit group of friends. If you can't help me, don't reply. | ||
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andiCR
Costa Rica2273 Posts
 hope it was an accident | ||
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Licmyobelisk
Philippines3682 Posts
On January 21 2010 02:54 Try wrote: This is a blog. This is where you talk about your feelings. I found out several hours ago and was completely shocked and just sat there for a long time, and I don't have anyone else to talk to about it. I hoped to find some comfort here, at teamliquid, which is usually understanding and I feel like is almost a tightknit group of friends. If you can't help me, don't reply. check out hawk's profile you will understand... poor dude, hitting his father and giving him a blunt trauma causing his dad's death .. well, he hit him with a hard object at the head, what did he thought? that his dad can take a hit? I guess when you're in that frenzied mode you wouldn't understand your own actions as well.... | ||
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Cambium
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zergpower123
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Try
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On January 21 2010 04:24 zergpower123 wrote: was he on drugs or anything like that? You mention he was upstanding, what made him so angry at his father he would do this? I have no idea, I have a feeling it had something to do with school. | ||
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nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
I feel sorry for you, RIP. | ||
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Ranix
United States666 Posts
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Dr.Lettuce
United Kingdom663 Posts
Quite surprised no one else said this yet. | ||
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TeH_Mentalist
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UFO
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I'm just hoping that he gets manslaughter or accidental murder or something because he's a really nice guy, he's extremely smart, and he's normally the last person you think would do something like this. It would be a shame for him to spend twenty plus years in jail and have his life thrown away. Imagine one of the nice, softspoken, tolerant goofballs in your school who gets straight A's. He helps you out when you need it, and always jokes around outside of class (aka not a class clown). Alan was that guy . He was absolutely nothing like the antisocial virginia tech guy. : //// I know a similar situation from experience : / A fucked up mother-son relationship, fortunately noone was killed . When an exceptionally smart guy gets to have a parent who is a strict-cotrol freak ( btw especially often case in asian culture ) or has other similarly bad behavior patterns - it might turn into a MAD, DEEP , LIFE-TIME LONG HATRED that might just explode in some cases and cause things like this. From outside - you wouldn`t tell a thing, the guy is a very respected and liked person by nearly everyone - he`s very smart and always willful to help as well as hang around , joke and overally making a very good atmoshpere around him. Also mad good at chess as well as insane grades. He was also around C+ at sc but never was too much into that. Then you get to know how fucked up relationship with his mother he has. Or rather no relationship. He won`t even touch anything she ever touched, won`t ever talk to her , he just inists on no contact at all. He says that she is totally disguisting and he wouldn`t stand anymore having contact with such toxicated, ignorant , apodictic person, even if it is his mother. States that she has totally retarded, simply stupid views about parent-child and life in general ....and to that she`s so apodictic that its not possible to explain her that. He often sleeps on lessons and skips a lot of classes as well as does some weird things like not taking the coat when its freezing cold winter etc . Though I really don`t see a fucking problem there - he has literally the best grades in school and he is ridicilously smart so he wouldn`t do that if it was bad. Problem is that when he doesn`t agree with these retarded views and acts on his own - which he does all the time - she often tries to intervene . Claims that he doesn`t hate her or anything , just that when someone is trapped in a swamp - you don`t jump into swamp as well. You can imagine how fucked up situation it has to be : / Again, noone outside would ever know if he didn`t tell . I guess it is because he is very good at controling his emotions / behaviors . Still I think he might really hate his mother deep inside and just never show it to anyone , her included. There is the threat - if it is stored it might explode . So out of nowhere a calm, nice , benevolent , helpful, intelligent person does some terrible things, shocking everyone like Alan : / From this perspective - I wouldn`t ever blame someone like Alan. Never. It is soooooooooooooooooooooooo fucking sad ..................... : / Really I would like to help someone like Alan in all means possible because it is such an injustice to punish him for what happened and people like him really aren`t at fault. Even if they claim they are - its more out of the shock they get after such tradegy I don`t even know how to express that. Not that the parent is now an object of hate and blame ............. its just a really really sad and unfortunate turn out of events .... S O H O W THE FUCK can you punish them for what happened ? This is fucking justice ? It`s like a good , sober driver who accitentaly happens to bump into someone who runes right under the wheels on the red light. DO YOU FUCKING PUNISH THE DRIVER FOR THAT ? | ||
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Try
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On January 21 2010 05:12 Hawk wrote: What I said wasn't a troll... I simply implied that it's probably not the best idea to link to an article with your buddy's full name. If you feel it's best to vent on the internet, to each his own. I just put my two cents in Yeah its probably a good idea to remove the link. I guess I'll do that. | ||
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7mk
Germany10157 Posts
fuck | ||
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UFO
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So sad when you realize that they could just get a bike or a car and run through the same life with grace and ease . To get a bike is to realize what the reality is because it is so often the case that we mistake our assumptions for reality and when that happens - you aren`t able to navigate the course of your life - the more you mistake reality with assumptions the less ability to see whats what and to help yourself and others. How many times did you hold a belief and at some point came to realize that it was not true ? Lets say you thought that you thought that you have to walk 4 miles to school, then you learn someday that the bus could drive you 300 meters near the school but you didn`t realize that this place is so close to school. You didn`t find the proof that its impossible to get to school reasonably well - in fact you didn`t check well enough and made an assumption instead which failed you badly. It isn`t different with any other assumptions. Other than that the consequences might be much bigger. It is because social order fails - and fails on purpose - to learn you to establish a belief system based on actual facts - and not on assumptions. Nearly everything you believe in can be assumption and most of them aren`t true - by that I mean that they are not complete. They might reflect as true ones in some part of your life but they will fail you in other parts. Its making the logical flaw - and this is what u are sublty teached to do nearly everywhere - it is like assuming that mass hydra does suck against protoss which 99 % of the people did for years - when in reality it can both suck and be awesome . This is a difference between zergs on their kneels , crying about imba Bisu and the zergs who own the scene. Whether you are a sheep who follows or the 1 % who realizes that what is possible is a lot more than 99 % ever imagined - is up to you. Its a choice. | ||
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Tuke
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RIP | ||
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Deleted User 3420
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The lesson here is to not be violent. | ||
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Leg[end]
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Not_Computer
Canada2277 Posts
though i'm curious to know what extent he 'hit'... did his father have pre-existing conditions? | ||
flamewheel
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
On January 21 2010 04:25 Try wrote: I have no idea, I have a feeling it had something to do with school. thats obvious. Asian parents being wayyy to strict and punishing ridiculously for school. Kid finally got fed up. Condolences | ||
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SleepSheep
Canada344 Posts
On January 21 2010 07:14 CharlieMurphy wrote: thats obvious. Asian parents being wayyy to strict and punishing ridiculously for school. Kid finally got fed up. Condolences don't promote stereotypes, no matter how evident they may seem to you. | ||
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jtype
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evanthebouncy!
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it's the least u can do | ||
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
Travis is right. The only lesson to be learned is to never use violence. The consequences always have a chance of someone dying. | ||
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YPang
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Funny part is, when i was in the car with him and he got a speeding ticket, when the officer came around and told him "you know you're driving 40 on a 20mph road?"... he was like "Oh sorry officer, uh.. studders.. I'm just really nervous/scared please here's my liscence its just that i was too busy reading the map and stuff.." said in the voice of a beat-up puppy. So fucken cowardly, i was disgusted. | ||
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BanZu
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On January 21 2010 14:29 YPang wrote: totally understand this, i'm asian i can relate to this boy 100%. My dad and I don't have the best relationship either, mainly because he was arrogant as fuck, and abusive. I"ve had times where i wanted to sock him in the mouth for beating my mom/sister/myself. Funny part is, when i was in the car with him and he got a speeding ticket, when the officer came around and told him "you know you're driving 40 on a 20mph road?"... he was like "Oh sorry officer, uh.. studders.. I'm just really nervous/scared please here's my liscence its just that i was too busy reading the map and stuff.." said in the voice of a beat-up puppy. So fucken cowardly, i was disgusted. Maybe the reason why your dad asserts such reckless dominance over your family is because in the inside he's a coward. He wants the power that he can't find anywhere else. | ||
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eNoq
Netherlands502 Posts
Kid needs to learn some manners. | ||
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sassy
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On January 21 2010 17:49 eNoq wrote: Why would you hit your father in the first place? Kid needs to learn some manners. without knowing the circumstances even suggesting this is absurd. You have no idea what happened, could be anything from self-defense to an accident a friend of mine had a fight with own father who got really drunk once( which literally never happened before) and started some crazy argument with his mom upon arriving home then proceeded to beat her up. Friend tossed a chair at his knees because his father wasnt capable of comprehending shit while breaking stuff around then punched him in the face. Imagine if he fell the wrong way or knocked own brains out while falling, heres your homicide. For all we know even silly shit like pushing someone back could cause some serious injury. | ||
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Snet
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Loanshark
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Cloud
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And link removed due to respect to his family? Try asking for the blog to be deleted. Edit: I'm an idiot, I thought ypang was the OP. Sorry. | ||
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meeple
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leMaj24
United States262 Posts
. R.I.P and I hope everything works out for the best :o | ||
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Kingfisher
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Wotans_Fire
United Kingdom294 Posts
I feel sorry for your friend he must be going through hell right now. | ||
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Try
United States1293 Posts
On January 22 2010 06:30 Wotans_Fire wrote: I don't understand how people die from a punch. Maybe it is an uppercut with the nasal bone going into the brain or how someone falls and hits their head? I feel lucky though after being beaten pretty badly with concussion once and knocked cold both times (weak chin) I don't understand how it doesn't happen more in MMA maybe it used to before gloves. I feel sorry for your friend he must be going through hell right now. According to the report, the hit was probably from an object. They took a brick and several frying pans as evidence. Nothing really concrete has been revealed yet, just that the father died from blunt force trauma to the head and my friend was responsible for it (and turned himself in). | ||
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DeathSpank
United States1029 Posts
On January 22 2010 06:30 Wotans_Fire wrote: I don't understand how people die from a punch. Maybe it is an uppercut with the nasal bone going into the brain or how someone falls and hits their head? I feel lucky though after being beaten pretty badly with concussion once and knocked cold both times (weak chin) I don't understand how it doesn't happen more in MMA maybe it used to before gloves. I feel sorry for your friend he must be going through hell right now. mma fighters also know whats a lethal punch and whats not | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10341 Posts
On January 21 2010 07:14 CharlieMurphy wrote: thats obvious. Asian parents being wayyy to strict and punishing ridiculously for school. Kid finally got fed up. I'm glad you clearly understand all the circumstances of the situation to reach this conclusion dispite not knowing any details at all. Excellent work. | ||
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