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Ok I usually would never post a question about relationships so do not consider this one. I just want you guys to share your experiences with the matter.
My girlfriend, I have known for about three years but we just recently got together because she broke up with her dumbass boyfriend who wanted to marry her or some shit. She is really cute and smart (is going for a PHD) and i find her pretty sexy too. The problem is that she lives the most sheltered life ever. Her parents are fucking nazis when it comes to letting her go places. I can only see her every so often which is complete bullshit.
Ok here is the part I want you guys to respond to...
She always wants to talk on the phone and I can literally say NOTHING except a few yeas and uh huhs every few minutes and she just keeps talking and talking about the lamest shit you can think of.. Because she doesn't do fucking anything!
The problem is she has a great personality and if she got the chance would be AWESOME. I really like her deep down but its getting on my nerves pretty badly.
She would have no idea if i looked for someone else but it would crush her.
update
Ok I know you guys love blogs with pictures so here is another one of my GF I shot when she came over yesterday.
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So far things have been looking up! She doesn't call me for hours anymore but just asks me to call her sometimes so I think she gets the picture that phone calls are lame as fuck. Her friends are back in town where she lives and I love seeing her have fun finally (most of her close friends were gone for a while so she didn't have shit to do which is why I found out she was being so clingy).
We spent alot of time together this weekend and her awesome side came out for a bit :DD
So to all of you who said "keep waiting" you were right and I wanna say that it was good advice.
Peace
 
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Sit down with her parents and seriously talk to them about this. I don't think it's been attempted before 
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konadora
Singapore66364 Posts
if you get together with her, it sounds like you're gonna have a rough time
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Tell her exactly this. If you plan on doing something big together, you want a relationship that's all open and truth.
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On December 31 2009 14:11 Hypnosis wrote:(is going for a PHD)
Her parents are fucking nazis when it comes to letting her go places.
How old is she? How do her parents control her if she's smart and older than 18?
On December 31 2009 14:11 Hypnosis wrote:
Ok here is the part I want you guys to respond to...
Oops. Oh well.
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If shes older than 18 years old tell her to tell her parents they can't control her anymore o.o
Wtf, if I was 18 and my parents were still telling me what to do I would leave, just leave.
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Yea the other problem is that she lives 2 fuckin hours away so I cant really do this easily. Although I have no problem confronting her haha I just never see her and doing it over the phone is pussy shit.. She is 19... I just know she's awesome and when she can do what she wants it will be worth the wait. If i break it off now she will still like me but I don;t want to hurt her..
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If you can't stand to talk about useless shit and she's going for a PhD so she doesn't have much time as it is... i'd say leave it be for now
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2 hours away?
Try finding someone more convenient.
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If she's 19 shouldn't she be off to college (read: away from parents) then? Or is she commuting from home to college?
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On December 31 2009 14:39 Whiplash wrote:
2 hours away?
Try finding someone more convenient.
She is the person i like right now..
She will be moving soon to fort collins which is alot closer as well.
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On December 31 2009 14:35 Aurious wrote:
If you can't stand to talk about useless shit and she's going for a PhD so she doesn't have much time as it is... i'd say leave it be for now
Its mostly shit like "six months ago when i went camping with nick we made smores over the fire and they were really good! And then nick told a story to try and scare us but it didn't work so we laughed hahahahah". Thats so fucking lame.
This isn't ALL the time so it is not too bad but damn sometimes,..
It's not like she wont listen to me talk but im not the type to just talk all day and complain about having migraines every day. Drink some water. Rest a but. There is nothing you can do about it but those two things..
Her: Hey Baby. My headache came back.
Me: Aww sorry  Feel better for me!
Her: Ok, so whacha doin?
Me: Uhh chillin with "insert name" smokin Lol
Her: Fun Fun. I wish you were here so we could smoke together
Me: I know babe. You have to figure out a way to come down here!
Her: I know..
COME ON its only 2 hours and i drive up there every so often you can come here too. Plus there it's so boring hahaha fuck. But she's cuteieee Ill post a good picture of her if i can find one
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...If she's old enough to be going for a phd, she should ph.d., then should she be old enough to do stuff without supervision by her parents.
Don't go for anyone else. Talking about stupid bullshit is what girls do. Just go along with it, don't squander your opportunity.
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On December 31 2009 14:49 ghostWriter wrote:
...If she's old enough to be going for a phd, she should ph.d., then should she be old enough to do stuff without supervision by her parents.
Don't go for anyone else. Talking about stupid bullshit is what girls do. Just go along with it, don't squander your opportunity.
I know I am leaning towards this naturally but just seeing if anyone else has any similar experiences :D
It's more of a rant.
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Personally when i like someone it doesn't matter if what she is talking about is stupid shit or not, it doesn't annoy me because it's coming from her voice thats just me
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look around and dont tell her. She is a great woman, dont hurt her.
I love my girl, I havent seen her in 9 months... and we will meet in 2 months from now. She is a pain in the ass when we speak by phone.
I love her.
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On December 31 2009 14:57 coltrane wrote:
look around and dont tell her. She is a great woman, dont hurt her.
I love my girl, I havent seen her in 9 months... and we will meet in 2 months from now. She is a pain in the ass when we speak by phone.
I love her.
hahaha Yea, its not something you break up over though.. And i do like her voice!
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Roffles
Pitcairn19291 Posts
Huh? 19 years old and going for PhD?
I must be either high or just fucking retarded. Why am I not going for my PhD?
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Probably going for her Ph.D like a middle school kid going for his degree at Harvard..
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I'd say it's more than annoying. I wouldn't put up w/ it and would snap fold after a few attempts at proper communication.
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