EPTfuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu OMFG RAGE - Page 3
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Jibba
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On December 28 2009 10:55 WheelOfTime wrote: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=108504 20. Ugh. Tell your girlfriend that 20 year olds have nothing to offer a child, because you haven't lived yet yourselves. On December 28 2009 11:24 MiniRoman wrote: For real though, a lot of people I know your age with kids are happy about it and say its the best thing that's ever happened to them. Willfully ignorant. I love kids, but the 20s should offer more opportunity than any other time in your life, and you're both going to resent missing that. You establish complete independence, you're given access to all liberties, you're at your peak of attractiveness, and you're less tied to things like jobs/families which allows you to travel and experience the world. After you do all that, then you have kids. 1-18 are meaningless years. | ||
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plated.rawr
Norway1676 Posts
- About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid. If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything. If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line. | ||
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StalkerSC
Canada378 Posts
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid. If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything. If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line. 100% agreed. Edit: Especially about the "- Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job" My cousin was 18 when she got prego and they are 37ish now living in a small one. one works at a restaurent as the waitress the other just lost his job working at a radio station..At least they're happy? think again. | ||
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HeavOnEarth
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eh i found it funny | ||
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deth
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Jayme
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On December 28 2009 11:27 Magic84 wrote: A child is the greatest thing ever, especially if the woman is desirable, hot/smart, so i don't see the problem here. AT 20? You're out of your mind. I'd never ever want a kid in my 20's. I still have things to do. Maybe when im 28-30..MAYBE. Also yay pro-lifers -.- Not your damn decision. | ||
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ZeroCartin
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BanZu
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On December 28 2009 12:15 Jayme wrote: AT 20? You're out of your mind. I'd never ever want a kid in my 20's. I still have things to do. Maybe when im 28-30..MAYBE. Also yay pro-lifers -.- Not your damn decision. Oh no... we're not allowed to post our opinion on the internetz... | ||
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tomatriedes
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UFO
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ShaperofDreams
Canada2492 Posts
Also perhaps your girlfriend is conniving and evil and purposely got pregnant. I mean cmon how do you forget to take THAT pill. | ||
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Warrior Madness
Canada3791 Posts
lmfao. But seriously, this SUCKS for OP. This is life changing, and not necessarily in a good way when you're not ready for it. That was a bit of a bitch move to "surprise" you during Christmas as well. | ||
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Elroi
Sweden5617 Posts
On December 28 2009 11:32 Mastermind wrote: Your gf is a bitch for springing that on you at Christmas when she knew before. That must have ruined your entire fixed Please leave her, she is obviously crazy. | ||
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sYz-Adrenaline
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400th post~ | ||
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