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echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
December 06 2009 03:21 GMT
#1
So basically it was our first time trying weed. We are all AP students and stuff and thought it would be a fun experience. Basically we were all over at my friend andrew's house cause his parents left. We were smoking outside and when a couple of us went inside to make some food, his parents came home to get a phone. They realized that it smelled smokey but no smell of weed. They checked around and started asking questions. We were also going to smoke sheesha that night too. Basically what they found was a bag with a hookah inside, maybe the pipe but not sure, and a jar where i put the weed inside. we left and i was so scared and wanted to get the hell out of there that i left my jacket and shoes there. We had a total of 6 people there. 3 of them jumped the wall cause they were the ones outside while 3 of us were inside making food.


should we come clean? ASIAN PARENTS but not too intense

*
hmmm
writer22816
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States5775 Posts
December 06 2009 03:25 GMT
#2
Don't do drugs
8/4/12 never forget, never forgive.
FXOTheoRy
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States519 Posts
December 06 2009 03:27 GMT
#3
bad kevin!
oyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoy
StRyKeR
Profile Blog Joined January 2006
United States1739 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-06 03:31:12
December 06 2009 03:29 GMT
#4
You sound like an otherwise good kid. There's no way you're gonna be able to lie to your parents face to face. Just come clean. Imagine talking to them and you KNOW that they know you're lying, and you just keep covering up. That'd be pretty awkward. Also, what if one of your friends tells but you deny? Super awkward.
Ars longa, vita brevis, principia aeturna.
DoctorHelvetica
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States15034 Posts
December 06 2009 03:31 GMT
#5
Yes, just explain it to your parents as calmly and rationally as possible. They're going to find out anyway so there is no point in lying. Telling the truth is usually the best course of action unless you're 100% sure you can get away with lying.

RIP Aaliyah
echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
December 06 2009 03:31 GMT
#6
hmm but the thing is that andrew's parents dont know my parents. Its like my second time going to his house because we never hung out at his place
hmmm
Foreplay
Profile Joined May 2008
United States1154 Posts
December 06 2009 03:32 GMT
#7
ahhh the wonders of having white parents
Better than Pokebunny
echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
December 06 2009 03:38 GMT
#8
haha i hate you Foreplay!!
hmmm
Etherone
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States1898 Posts
December 06 2009 03:39 GMT
#9
hahaha you guys suck, DENY EVERYTHING best way imo
Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-06 03:47:53
December 06 2009 03:46 GMT
#10
One day you're gonna be that guy at some party who tells a story and someone will say "Well at least you got a story out of it!" and everyone will laugh and lose a little bit of that precious thing we call individuality.

The worst that could happen is you'll get a stern talking to (and some trivial 'no something for a month).' Maybe you'll even listen. Either way it's no big deal.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
LuMiX
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
China5757 Posts
December 06 2009 03:55 GMT
#11
etherone is right, you're even more crazy if you want to tell the parents especially since you're asian! haha
echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
December 06 2009 03:57 GMT
#12
my parents i dont think would get really mad, but that trust will be gone and im pretty sure ill break their hearts which i really dont want to do =(
hmmm
echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
December 06 2009 03:59 GMT
#13
but the thing is, im hoping they thought we were going to smoke the hookah which wouldnt be as bad thats for sure
hmmm
asl-ninja
Profile Blog Joined September 2009
78 Posts
December 06 2009 04:04 GMT
#14
dont do weed then :d
Entusman #41 asl-ninja!
alffla
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Hong Kong20321 Posts
December 06 2009 04:10 GMT
#15
just tell them ur doing some nice fruity flavoured hookah filtered through water, oh so pure you all are!
Graphicssavior[gm] : What is a “yawn” rape ;; Masumune - It was the year of the pig for those fucking defilers. Chill - A clinic you say? okum: SC without Korean yelling is like porn without sex. konamix: HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMY!
semantics
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
10040 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-06 04:24:44
December 06 2009 04:22 GMT
#16
On December 06 2009 12:32 Foreplay wrote:
ahhh the wonders of having white parents

Are we going with white parents just want their kids not to end up dead or in jail and other then all it's all about their child's happiness while Asian parents just want their kids to be successful so in by association to their kids they are better parents because their kids make money.

Haha Anyways if you're terrified of getting caught you do have to re-evaluate why you are doing it then anyways what kind of ap students take smoking weed over playing video games zeesh every time my friends came over fuck work we just gonna play melee all day.
BuGzlToOnl
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
United States5918 Posts
December 06 2009 04:28 GMT
#17
DENY EVERYTHING!
If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans.
Kwidowmaker
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
Canada978 Posts
December 06 2009 04:54 GMT
#18
I wouldn't tell them.

If they bring it up, remember, you've done nothing wrong! Marijuana is about as benign as recreational drugs can go. Furthermore, as you've only tried it this one time, none of the arguments against chronic marijuana use apply to you (and all the real arguments are against chronic use). Stigma against marijuana isn't readily changed from a single, from stating these facts though, so your best bet is to hit them where it hurts. Two of the most respected scientists of the twentieth century smoked pot, and they were the readily identifiable Carl Sagan and the badass of QED, Richard Feynman.

If that doesn't work tell them to chill the fuck out and smoke a blunt with 'em
Kk.
ShroomyD
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
Australia245 Posts
December 06 2009 05:12 GMT
#19
DON'T DENY
DON'T ADMIT
LET IT COME IF IT DOES
Be chill like Moltke
아나코자본주의
ShaperofDreams
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2492 Posts
December 06 2009 05:14 GMT
#20
Just say your friends did it, tried to convince you, but you didn't.

Easy,
Bitches don't know about my overlord. FUCK OFF ALDARIS I HAVE ENOUGH PYLONS. My Balls are as smooth as Eggs.
Caller
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
Poland8075 Posts
December 06 2009 05:20 GMT
#21
come clean

as it is my parents accuse me of things that i dont do
Watch me fail at Paradox: http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=397564
Xxio
Profile Blog Joined July 2009
Canada5565 Posts
December 06 2009 05:28 GMT
#22
I don't know what your parents are like so I don't know...
I used to be really worried about that stuff too then I found out that weed isn't actually a big deal lol
KTY
mastuh
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States64 Posts
December 06 2009 05:29 GMT
#23
On December 06 2009 13:54 Kwidowmaker wrote:
I wouldn't tell them.

If they bring it up, remember, you've done nothing wrong! Marijuana is about as benign as recreational drugs can go. Furthermore, as you've only tried it this one time, none of the arguments against chronic marijuana use apply to you (and all the real arguments are against chronic use). Stigma against marijuana isn't readily changed from a single, from stating these facts though, so your best bet is to hit them where it hurts. Two of the most respected scientists of the twentieth century smoked pot, and they were the readily identifiable Carl Sagan and the badass of QED, Richard Feynman.

If that doesn't work tell them to chill the fuck out and smoke a blunt with 'em


This. Being the smart AP kid you are, I'm sure you THOROUGHLY research any drug before you put it in your body.
iheartgna
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States184 Posts
December 06 2009 05:32 GMT
#24
This is the smallest "Big" problem I've ever seen. After I read "first time trying weed..." I expected something involving the police. AP Students or not, if you couldn't talk to the parents you probably aren't mature enough to be making big decisions like experimenting with drugs. Don't do anything your ashamed of doing- that is, you should be able to explain your actions to anyone.
Hell is other people.
Sadistx
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
Zimbabwe5568 Posts
December 06 2009 05:33 GMT
#25
What's an AP student anyway?
Kwidowmaker
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
Canada978 Posts
December 06 2009 05:47 GMT
#26
On December 06 2009 14:33 Sadistx wrote:
What's an AP student anyway?


Without the esteem of a International Baccalaureate alumni and the street cred of a straight up public schooler.
Kk.
echo_O
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
United States115 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-12-06 06:20:10
December 06 2009 06:18 GMT
#27
This. Being the smart AP kid you are, I'm sure you THOROUGHLY research any drug before you put it in your body.


definitely man, im always researching this kind of stuff when im bored. Thanks for all the comments guys, hopefully everything works out
hmmm
Arrian
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States889 Posts
December 06 2009 06:35 GMT
#28
Clearly, the answer was to bring your problem to TL. Unfortunately, all you'll get are very different ideas from people who have incomplete contextual information and biases of their own. Basically none of us are qualified to give you advice on any subject whatsoever. It's your life. These are your decisions.

Just do what you think is right. Not what's expedient. Make whatever decision you'll be able to live with the next day. That's the only thing that matters.
Writersator arepo tenet opera rotas
Kingsp4de20
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States716 Posts
December 06 2009 06:41 GMT
#29
Deny everything untill the end, innocent untill proven otherwise. Not to mention it wasnt just like 2 people there was a groupe so it could be anyones weed.
Kwidowmaker
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
Canada978 Posts
December 06 2009 06:42 GMT
#30
He'll be able to live with whatever decision doesn't kill him. This is really an unimportant problem.



Later on in life, perhaps when you've moved out, perhaps next week, you should smoke weed again. When I am high I think much more laterally than when I am sober. It may not necessarily be productive, but it certainly is a interesting experience.

In fact, I'm going to get high right now
Kk.
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