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canucks12
Canada812 Posts
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deathgod6
United States5064 Posts
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Empyrean
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So yeah, give it a shot. Fortune favors the bold. | ||
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
if you don't want to give up on it then the choice is clear, no? | ||
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overpool
United States191 Posts
Hi! I'm overpool's friend -- and I'm a girl so I can help you out! So it really depends on what kind of a girl she is. I wouldn't declare outright that you like her, but try to make it seem obvious by doing things like trying to hold hands or taking her to dinner! That way she'll get a hint but you won't risk ruining your friendship. </advice> | ||
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meeple
Canada10211 Posts
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=105334 I agree with Empyrean. Just go for it, you won't ruin the friendship unless you make things awkward. Just be natural. | ||
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lone_hydra
Canada1460 Posts
On November 16 2009 11:26 Kyuukyuu wrote: you can tell her, or you can give up on her entirely if you don't want to give up on it then the choice is clear, no? Or maybe you still want to talk to her as a friend, or find out what she likes in a guy and work towards that, so many options and factors.... I wish these types of decisions were that easy, but its not black or white. | ||
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wok
United States504 Posts
Sing her a cheesy song about your undying love with a rose in your mouth and a longing look in your eyes. A song like "I will follow you into the dark" or slightly more classic "When I fall in love" or even more classic "unchained melody" would work great for this. Even better, write your own. Just make sure it would sound obsessive enough to warrant a restraining order were it not sung to wonderful wonderful background music provided ideally by an acoustic guitar, beaten up a little to show how sensitive you are. (If you'd like more specific instructions on how to make a guitar look old, pm me and i'll direct you to some websites that sell very high quality sand paper.) Now this is a pretty all-in approach, I must admit, so the adaptability you're looking for in the more standard approaches above, is out of the question. But this is only the first encounter in the huge BoX that is your whole life. Learn a lesson from July v. Best and start off strong  GL HF. | ||
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Binky1842
United States2599 Posts
this happened to me this summer with a very good friend. i eventually told her, she didn't feel the same way. we laugh about it now. don't pass up the opportunity if this is truly the first girl you've ever liked. it's an important time in your life and if you don't tell her, you'll regret it later. be fair to her and to yourself, tell her. | ||
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Zortch
Canada635 Posts
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
On November 16 2009 11:30 lone_hydra wrote: Or maybe you still want to talk to her as a friend, or find out what she likes in a guy and work towards that, so many options and factors.... I wish these types of decisions were that easy, but its not black or white. I meant giving up on her romantically, obviously | ||
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grobo
Japan6199 Posts
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ArcticxWolf
Canada45 Posts
On November 16 2009 11:34 Zortch wrote: Just ask her out man! :D Yap | ||
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anderoo
Canada1876 Posts
do it do it | ||
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hcliff454
Canada127 Posts
On November 16 2009 11:49 anderoo wrote: one time me and this girl i was really good friends with liked each other for like a year and both of us were too scared to say anything, now we're dating, lawl do it do it tru dat honey <3 | ||
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
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JohannesH
Finland1364 Posts
If you wanna spend more time with her you dont have to make it 100% clear right off the bat that you want her. But ofc you can make it clear if you like. | ||
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decafchicken
United States20169 Posts
On November 16 2009 11:19 canucks12 wrote: Hello everybody. I am a first year university student and for the first time in my life I have met a girl that I really like. I have known her since late September/ early October, and we see each other about 2-3 times a week for a couple of hours to play sports or eat lunch and such. The problem for me is that she seems to only want to be friends (this is just the vibe that I get, but I don't know for sure) and I have never really opened up to her that I really like her. I don't really know much about girls (if at all) and I don't know what would happen if I opened up to her. I really want to preserve our friendship if it turns out that she doesn't like me in that sense. I have never had a girlfriend before and as far as I know, she has never had a boyfriend. I am asking a very generic question here, I am sure that many of you have seen this before with other people, but I really don't know what to do. If she wouldn't like me as more than a friend, would it make things awkward if I tell her that I do? Should I tell her anyways? I have a feeling that keeping it to myself would be bad, but like I said, I don't have experience with this... Can anybody, who is more experienced, give me some advice, and please only reply with serious help. I am contemplating both options, and I really can't say what would happen if i did either :/ Thanks in advance. Ask her if she wants to go to a party with you. have dinner + pregame and such before hand and you should have a pretty honest idea of where the relationship is going about 4-5 drinks in. That being said as soon as you said you think she wants to be friends, you were fucked. friend zone = gg | ||
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wok
United States504 Posts
On November 16 2009 12:00 YPang wrote: Tell her you want to have a relationship with her, if she doesn't get the hint and continues to go "Oh lets just be friends" then your final last option is to wipe it out, and cock your guy. Wut? | ||
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KissBlade
United States5718 Posts
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