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StalinRusH
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States734 Posts
November 08 2009 05:59 GMT
#1
ok...well for Halloween i went to a girls play for a party (like barely anyone showed up) well she had a friend of hers show up and hangout and i thought she was really cute.

We started talking a little (im incredibly awkward) and it was obvious i was creepy, and she didn't talk to me much after that (sadness)

well a few more people showed up and we were all kind of bored. we decided to play some drinking card games. (FUN) well...i lost BIG TIME multiple times in a row (shit) i ended up seriously smashed and basically had no idea what the fuck was going on.

Well today she contacted me and told me she thought i was funny and we should do something sometime cause we had a lot in common. (AWESOME)

well here comes the problem...i have NO/ZERO/ZILCH of a clue wtf had went on while i was..."under the influence"..so as awkward as i am already i am in no way confident enough to be...whatever it was i was..this has bad news written all over it for me.

i vaguely remember taking creepy pictures of her all night long (stalker much) and the only thing i remember really that we both liked were...jello shots (rofl)

i foresee a restraining order in my future

A Combination Of Tuberculosis And A Tomahawk To The Head:: Nothing Bonds Drunken Idiots Like Sexual Innuendos ::
meeple
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada10211 Posts
November 08 2009 06:02 GMT
#2
Hahaha rofl... well in the end... it only matters that you got the girl. That pretty much rocks. Try not to creep her out when you meet up, or just drink plenty beforehand and maybe you'll relax. I don't foresee a restraining order, more like a diseased kidney as you try to be perpetually drunk around her. lol gl
KurtistheTurtle
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States1966 Posts
November 08 2009 06:19 GMT
#3
you lived in the moment and entertained yourself

dont think about what you should do. dont think. when you get there, just do something
it will start a chain reaction
“Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears."
StalinRusH
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States734 Posts
November 08 2009 06:20 GMT
#4
On November 08 2009 15:19 KurtistheTurtle wrote:
you lived in the moment and entertained yourself

dont think about what you should do. dont think. when you get there, just do something
it will start a chain reaction


i think not thinking is my problem most of the time i say things no person should say in the presents of another person
A Combination Of Tuberculosis And A Tomahawk To The Head:: Nothing Bonds Drunken Idiots Like Sexual Innuendos ::
quirinus
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Croatia2489 Posts
November 08 2009 06:21 GMT
#5
Hah, if it was so obvious that you were stalker much, then she likes it/you. So... "just be yourself".
All candles lit within him, and there was purity. | First auto-promoted BW LP editor.
inReacH
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Sweden1612 Posts
November 08 2009 06:22 GMT
#6
get drunk again obv
ThunderGod
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
New Zealand897 Posts
November 08 2009 06:24 GMT
#7
obviously have a few before you meet up, will help you relax (and the beer goggles will stay on :p)
"Certain forms of popular music nowadays, namely rap and hip hop styles, are just irritating gangsters bragging about their illegal exploits and short-sighted lifestyles." - Shiverfish ~2009
Deleted User 37864
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
780 Posts
November 08 2009 06:31 GMT
#8
On November 08 2009 15:22 inReacH wrote:
get drunk again obv


yeah what he said!
EsX_Raptor
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States2801 Posts
November 08 2009 06:34 GMT
#9
On November 08 2009 15:22 inReacH wrote:
get drunk again obv

This reminds me of that movie about the fat guy who converted to buddy love (eddie murphy) or something like that everytime he went out with that chick.
StalinRusH
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States734 Posts
November 08 2009 06:40 GMT
#10
On November 08 2009 15:34 EsX_Raptor wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 08 2009 15:22 inReacH wrote:
get drunk again obv

This reminds me of that movie about the fat guy who converted to buddy love (eddie murphy) or something like that everytime he went out with that chick.


nutty professor and yes...thats a good way of looking at it
A Combination Of Tuberculosis And A Tomahawk To The Head:: Nothing Bonds Drunken Idiots Like Sexual Innuendos ::
Jayme
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States5866 Posts
November 08 2009 06:52 GMT
#11
On November 08 2009 14:59 StalinRusH wrote:
ok...well for Halloween i went to a girls play for a party (like barely anyone showed up) well she had a friend of hers show up and hangout and i thought she was really cute.

We started talking a little (im incredibly awkward) and it was obvious i was creepy, and she didn't talk to me much after that (sadness)



I don't understand this awkward thing.

Just treat a girl like you know... a normal human being. You will go far.
Python is garbage, number 1 advocate of getting rid of it.
StalinRusH
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States734 Posts
November 08 2009 07:27 GMT
#12
On November 08 2009 15:52 Jayme wrote:
Show nested quote +
On November 08 2009 14:59 StalinRusH wrote:
ok...well for Halloween i went to a girls play for a party (like barely anyone showed up) well she had a friend of hers show up and hangout and i thought she was really cute.

We started talking a little (im incredibly awkward) and it was obvious i was creepy, and she didn't talk to me much after that (sadness)



I don't understand this awkward thing.

Just treat a girl like you know... a normal human being. You will go far.


im not sure i can do that...im..not what you would call "normal"
A Combination Of Tuberculosis And A Tomahawk To The Head:: Nothing Bonds Drunken Idiots Like Sexual Innuendos ::
Always
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
United States376 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-11-08 23:47:57
November 08 2009 07:34 GMT
#13
sounds awkward, especially if you can't pinpoint why she decided to contact you.

I'd definitely suggest meeting up with her, and that you not maintain the mindset that you're creepy. that's just sounds like a bad idea. play it cool, dude. after all, you have an account on tl.net-- that must account for something... right?
"Do unto others 20% better than you would expect them to do unto you, to correct for subjective error." - Linus Pauling
Chrispy
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
Canada5878 Posts
November 08 2009 07:37 GMT
#14
By "vaguely remember taking creepy pictures" you mean you've got those photos printed out, laminated and pasted all over your wall, right?
Retvrn to Forvms
StalinRusH
Profile Blog Joined April 2007
United States734 Posts
November 08 2009 07:38 GMT
#15
On November 08 2009 16:34 Always wrote:
sounds awkward, especially if you can't pinpoint why you decided to contact you.

I'd definitely suggest meeting up with her, and that you not maintain the mindset that you're creepy. that's just sounds like a bad idea. play it cool, dude. after all, you have an account on tl.net-- that must account for something... right?


of course, thats how i introduce myself to girls. But seriously, there is no way ill pass this up, but the creepy mindset isnt mine...everyone actually tells me..."hey, your creepy" so after a while i figured hey it must be true.
A Combination Of Tuberculosis And A Tomahawk To The Head:: Nothing Bonds Drunken Idiots Like Sexual Innuendos ::
DoctorHelvetica
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States15034 Posts
November 08 2009 07:46 GMT
#16
I am extremely creepy irl and a recluse with no friends, so you should probably listen to my advice:

treat her like you would anyone else and don't analyze anything you do/she does. be yourself and remove and eliminate all conceivable pressure.
RIP Aaliyah
ketomai
Profile Joined June 2007
United States2789 Posts
November 08 2009 07:53 GMT
#17
You were probably just more confident when you were drunk...so if you had stuff in common before, you still have stuff in common now. All you have to do, like every other girl thread tells you to, is be more confident and you'll be fine.
pubbanana
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
United States3063 Posts
November 08 2009 07:57 GMT
#18
That stupid confidence bullshit actually works. I didn't believe it until a few days ago. But I was borderline suicidal when I tried it, so maybe when you get to that level of desperation, you'll let go and give the confidence a try.
Wachet, stehet im Glauben, seid männlich und seid stark.
AtlaS
Profile Blog Joined February 2009
United States1001 Posts
Last Edited: 2009-11-08 08:16:29
November 08 2009 08:12 GMT
#19
The way you wrote that post shows that you have little to no self-confidence, which is pretty much the most important thing a girl looks for in a guy. She called you and said she liked spending time with you and wants to see you again but still you label yourself as a creepy stalker bound to get a restraining order.

If you don't like something about yourself, make a conscious effort to change it. I used to be incredibly shy where I would never engage in conversation with anyone when I'm at a party or something. I had a lot of friends who like me for who I am, but I still had a problem with talking to random people I just met at a party. It sucked to see so many potential acquaintances, friends, and girlfriends walk out the door but then I finally realized that it was my fault. I was burning bridges before they were even built. But I made it a point to step out of my comfort zone and talk to people I do not know. After that, I finally realized that these people that I was talking to were just like me. They are just people interested in getting to know another person.

Be calm, be relaxed, and be confident.

This is an underlying issue that isn't going to get solved by 1 stranger posting something on a forum about starcraft, but I can offer you advice what you should do with the girl. Invite to another party and just get drunk like last time except subtract like 3-4 drinks so you don't blackout again. Remember, it's not like you're a completely different person when you're drunk. You are just a more relaxed and confident version of yourself.

Edit: And with that post, I am now a hydra.
I don't have mono anymore. Woooo!
Athos
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States2484 Posts
November 08 2009 08:17 GMT
#20
Get drunk again, then you can probably remember what the hell went on. They say memory is state dependent so give it a go.
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