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I quickly browsed through the thread, but didn't see anyone asking the following, which is surprising seeing that the TL population is compromised almost entirely of adolescent males, but...
What's it like to sleep with Inc? Please describe everything immense detail.
Does he hog the sheets, does he snore, does he prefer a certain side of the bed, is there enough room for both of you on the same bed or are you forced off to the edge of the bed, does he have cold feet, does he talk in his sleep, has he ever said something in his sleep regarding SC, whats it feel like when when (or if) he puts his ginormous arm around you at night, what kind of jammies does inc where, does he have any pre-bedtime rituals, does he use any night facial creams?
I think all these questions are what most of us are dying to know, but are too afraid to ask.
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You knew you would do page 15 didn't you? The way you wrote that out was perfect, lol.
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Wtf BuGzlToOnl read a dictionary and has now has added 300 words to his vocab of smiley faces. Btw interesting thread unc, like your well thought out answers.
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On November 11 2009 10:45 mania wrote:
do most girls watch porn?
What a great first post lol
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Edit: Already asked, I did search but whatever.
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On November 11 2009 10:10 lilsusie wrote:
I'm tempted to make my own "Ask lilsusie" thread.. but scared of what will be asked. I'll just lurk yours.
DO YOU HAVE SMELLY ARMPITS??!?!!
seriously go make :3
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On November 11 2009 18:23 meeple wrote:
How did you meet iNc?
she answered that on page 13 fyi
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On November 11 2009 18:17 mrgerry wrote:What a great first post lol
I am sure that it wasn't a first post, but a 10 minute account just to ask an awkward question.
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Where is the pictures? :D
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On November 10 2009 18:47 DarkYoDA wrote:
Hi uncontrollable, I figured there's really one thing I want to know but I don't know you can represent the entire female race but let's give it a try...There are 2 questions
- Which of these do you think is the most important to a girl in the order of importance?
- If you're in a setting where everyone is new and you get to know some new dudes, does it mean those having attributes ranked no. 1 will get all the chicks? How does this work in your opinion? heheh
1) Rich
2) Good looking (Face)
3) Hot bods
4) Highly educated (Masters or PHD least to say)
5) Social Status (eg. someone famous or important like a CFO of an MNC or so)
6) Comedian, the kind that can crack you up even when you first meet
7) Others (pls elaborate)
Cheers! While I have half a mind on what's important, I love to hear it from a lady I don't know.. ;p
Ok, without even looking at your list first, I'm gonna make my top 7 most important things in a guy, and then we'll see how they compare:
1) Sense of higher purpose, some degree of spirituality
2) Compassion/ Love for others
3) Honesty/Trustworthiness/Follows through
4) Communicates well
5) Enjoys new experiences and has interests, DOES things
6) Sense of humor
7) Intelligence (not necessarily academic)
Lol, so, we only had like...one in common. the way I would order yours would be:
1) Comedian
2) Highly educated
3) Good Looking Face
4) Social Status
5) Hot Bod
6) Rich
That said, I once went out a couple times who was a millionaire, hot body and face, funny, high social status, etc... but within the first couple times I saw him I knew there was nothing to it, because he didn't fit my list above...or, more accurately... he just wasn't right for me.
I don't think that any list of attributes, when achieved, will get you all the chicks. Human nature is such that some people get along and are attracted to each other, and some don't! If there were one thing to work toward, though, I think it would be "easy to talk to." That will get you farthest when you are trying to meet and ahem "get" (???) chicks. Be relaxed, be yourself, show interest in HER... and it will go a long way.
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On November 11 2009 04:38 StorrZerg wrote:
so did you know about incontrol's life for starcraft before the napkin incident or after?
would knowing before hand about it change how you might of reacted around him?
I didn't know about the love affair between Geoff and SC till...well I think until we were already dating maybe? Geoff, do you remember? Now that I think about it... he may have kept it pretty cleverly hidden for a long while there haha.
As far as my reaction to him...well this is kinda an unfair question, because, at that point, even though he was already well respected as a player, Geoff had nowhere near the notoriety in e-sports that he does now. We met even before he was WCG USA champ...sometime in 2004 or 5 i think. (Side note: It really sucked, in fact, because I helped him train to qualify in 2007, and then we broke up for a while, right as he became champ. People kept calling me and telling me they saw him on TV and on the VGA's... and I would get all depressed because it was one of my dearest wishes to have gone to grand finals with him.) Am I understanding correctly that you're kinda asking if I would have acted differently around him if I had known he was such a big deal? I have to admit, I do have a tendency to get kind of starry-eyed when it comes to celebrities, but I don't really let it show... so even if I had met Geoff after Ultimate Gamer and thought he was big news, I don't know that I would have acted much different. I'd still be just as coy and flirty lol.
Either that or you are asking, if I had known how much a part of his life Starcraft was, would I have been so keen to get involved? In terms of knowing SCBW was such a large part of his life... well, I learned that pretty early on, and honestly I just thought it was really cool that he was so freakin good at something. It's really fun bragging rights to say your boyfriend is one of the best in the US at, well, anything. And now, everyone is jealous when I say he is a professional video gamer lol.
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On November 11 2009 10:07 Klockan3 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 10 2009 18:31 uNcontroLable wrote:
Sorry if I'm misunderstanding you, but this is exactly what I was talking about a few posts back with the girl help threads. This seems so common sense to me ??? It is common sense, its mostly that you need to hear it many times to actually change yourself. Be happy if who you got moulded into by your childhood is a working human being, since otherwise you will get many years of trying over and over and over to change yourself into someone whose life is worth living. Psychology is not trivial, even if you know exactly what the problem is that doesn't mean that you can do much about it and you can certainly never expect quick results. If your childhood taught you that no matter what people will always hate you and when it seems otherwise it is just a facade, then you will continue feeling as if that is true for the rest of your life. You can be taught to ignore it and such but to change such things requires extensive measures and even then the feeling will always linger beneath the surface. Thanks for the reply by the way. PS, I have way too heavy problems for any kind of forum interaction to really help much, but I like to get some input. Especially number 2, I often forget that when I avoid people they think I do it because I am not interested in them and not because I am afraid of making them angry. Really, in my mind everyone is a ticking bomb, just waiting to explode with anger all over me so when I associate too much with the same people it often ends with me getting a nervous break down. So I switch groups a lot, no problem with loose contacts and people usually enjoy my company till I start to get too nervous around them. It is funny that, most can sense how you feel around them and will react accordingly even though they might not actively think about it. Being nervous do make others nervous too.
That's totally true, years in school for communication definitely taught me that people are more mirrors then we or even they realize. ...plus, speaking as a girl, I can definitely say that a guy increases in attractiveness when he shows interest in me and who I am. 
I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way about others. You're totally right, psychology isn't trivial... and it's good that you recognize those things about yourself and are seeking understanding. Let us all know if we can help more! *hug* You're worthwhile!
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On November 11 2009 18:17 mrgerry wrote:What a great first post lol
lol
yeah I'm sure she knows what most girls do
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I've been trying to post this forever and couldn't figure out why it wasn't working... then realized I was on the public elementary school wifi and it was kicking me off each time I typed the P word! LOL ...changing all those to stars...
On November 11 2009 10:45 mania wrote:
do most girls watch ****?
I don't know statistics, but my own experience would tell me no. I don't. I believe all the evidence that shows it can be really harmful to relationships and to the psyche.
PS... An interesting note on that subject... I've talked to a lot of people who feel similarly about overly romantic movies/books/etc., calling it "girl ****." They are of the opinion that, in the same way that **** creates unrealistic expectations about sexual performance, they create dissatisfaction in a relationship where it doesn't belong. Movies about perfect romance, overly self-sacrificing love, etc. can create unrealistic expectations for performance in terms of relationship maintenance. No one can act like they are in "The Notebook" all the time, not everyone will run from the altar into the arms of the one they "really" love...and so on. I by no means think there is an equal comparison between sappy romances and ****...AT ALL... and I'm not to the point yet where I'm willing to give up my chick flicks.. but I think there is at least something to this idea that is worth thinking about. At least, it made me stop expecting there to be roses on my doorstep every day.
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On November 11 2009 10:54 YPang wrote:
What would you do if you suddenly found out incontrol was your cousin?
HAHAHA
ummm... good question... depends on how distant of a cousin. 
...lol ew
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Because it is rare to see a girl that has her shit together (i.e. not some insanely annoying super eyeliner saturated emo/neopets girl) on the interwebs and ESPECIALLY on a SC website I would like to thank you for actually talking to us about real stuff and not being a biatch.
Serious question now:
Is it common for girls to have secret crushes on people who they hang out with almost every day? There is a girl I know who I hang out with almost every day. I study with her, laugh with her, sit around and do nothing with her and we talk about almost everything. I have a giant crush on her but I have ruined so many relationships I would like to take this one slow because it seems so worth it. She laughs at my jokes but she never touches me and I never touch her for some reason. I think she really does like me as more than a friend but I cannot tell. I firmly believe that we have a good relationship going and that real relationships cannot be forced and will happen automatically if it was meant to work. So my question to you is: Should I just continue being a great guy to her and not inquire about how she feels about me or should i take this opportunity to ask her out?
Thanks
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On November 11 2009 19:31 Klockan3 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 11 2009 18:17 mrgerry wrote:On November 11 2009 10:45 mania wrote:
do most girls watch porn? What a great first post lol I am sure that it wasn't a first post, but a 10 minute account just to ask an awkward question.
haha this is my real account. i've been lurking on tl for a while now, but i couldn't resist. 
uNcontroLable: thanks for the honest answer
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nice thread uncontrollable... i just wasted an hour of sc playing time reading it lol.
question:
if geoff took a job as a progamer in korea would you:
a: move over there to be with him
b: go long distance
c: break up
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On November 11 2009 14:41 BuGzlToOnl wrote:
I quickly browsed through the thread, but didn't see anyone asking the following, which is surprising seeing that the TL population is compromised almost entirely of adolescent males, but...
What's it like to sleep with Inc? Please describe everything immense detail.
Does he hog the sheets, does he snore, does he prefer a certain side of the bed, is there enough room for both of you on the same bed or are you forced off to the edge of the bed, does he have cold feet, does he talk in his sleep, has he ever said something in his sleep regarding SC, whats it feel like when when (or if) he puts his ginormous arm around you at night, what kind of jammies does inc where, does he have any pre-bedtime rituals, does he use any night facial creams?
I think all these questions are what most of us are dying to know, but are too afraid to ask.
Haha... wow... such an intimate question to ask! Well, it's easy to give IMMENSE detail on this subject... if you know what I mean.
Well, we don't live together, but from what I have experienced: He doesn't hog the sheets, but he totally pulls them out of whack, which makes it so I can't sleep cause I'm OCD and I have to have all the blankets perfectly parallel to the bed. He doesn't care which side, and likes to cuddle so I've never gotten completely pushed off...but he does occupy a large fraction of our shared space. Once in a while I suppose he has cold feet, but otherwise he's a freakin human furnace, omg. I've never heard him talk in his sleep, about Starcraft or otherwise. His ginormous arms always make me feel safe and warm... and sometimes a little crushed... but in a good way. He doesn't wear jammies...unless you count boxers (though thinking about him in like, fuzzy footy pajamas almost just made me lol). He has an annoying lack of bedtime rituals, in fact, being that I have a million and he'll just lay down and fall asleep before I'm even halfway ready for bed.
Night facial creams? Come on now.
I'm glad to answer the questions that were on everyone's mind. I'm glad the elephant is out of the room.
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