Don't post in this thread to say "gay gamers are like everyone else, why do they have a special thread?" It is something that has been posted numerous times, and this isn't the place for that discussion.

For regular posters, don't quote the trolls.

geript

10024 Posts

June 25 2017 17:48 GMT

#7361

FWIW while there is correlation to a genetic component to homosexuality, it's by no means definitive. Arguments have been made for environment within the uterus playing a part (among other things). The reason why the "born gay" movement started was in response to the Religious Right assertion that homosexuality is a "choice." The problem of course is that no one ever wakes up and consciously thinks: "I'm going to be straight/gay/bi/etc." So it was the best way of saying, "Being gay/bi/etc. is an inherent part of who I am that I had no active choice is; I can no more choose to be straight than I can choose to be a T-rex." The science on the nature vs nurture effect on sexuality is still inconclusive (last I knew). I think the problem with "growing into homosexuality" from an ideological argument is that, presuming homosexuality is morally wrong, there are factors which could be controlled to prevent this "moral wrongness" from happening. So when that's likely why most people would identify as being "born gay" (even if it's a subconscious choice). Overall, the argument is pretty stupid because the "born gay" counter-argument should be, "Fuck you and your fucking nut job belief that homosexuality is wrong; even if it is a choice it's a perfectly valid choice to make."

Caligo

South Africa15 Posts

June 28 2017 00:14 GMT

#7362

I'm of the opinion that homosexuality is not a choice but on the other hand saying you were "born gay" doesn't seem accurate either. The former because I don't recall the moment when I "chose" to be gay and I'm pretty sure no heterosexual person would be able to tell me when they chose be straight either. Also it would be a pretty bad decision considering it amounts to painting a giant bulls-eye on your back, leads to many awkward situations (repeatedly having to come out for one) and that you're effectively shrinking your dating pool by (approximately) between 80% and 90%.

The reason I say the phrase "born gay" isn't accurate either is that though I'm no expert in child development I highly doubt people start experiencing sexual attraction before the onset of puberty. However, I suspect people using this phrase might rather be trying to more compactly express that they are "naturally gay" as opposed to being gay due to learned behaviour or being influenced/shaped by past experiences.

I would also say sexuality is merely a preference or a taste - nothing more, nothing less. To me being attracted to guys rather than girls is the same as my preference for coffee over tea. There is no rhyme or reason why I prefer coffee over tea and in the same way there is no extrinsic reason for my homosexuality. If you'd rather compare it to some other human characteristic, as opposed to taste in beverages, then I'm certain you wouldn't find it strange that someone prefers brunettes over blondes (or vice versa) for no reason other than just liking one more than the other. Why would sexuality be any different?

atrox_

United Kingdom1711 Posts

July 03 2017 22:22 GMT

#7363

nvm after thinking about it you be you lad say what you want i wont subscribe to your blog

Axero

United States307 Posts

October 14 2017 19:58 GMT

#7364

This thread is still going!

Drekkonis

Canada286 Posts

October 19 2017 09:41 GMT

#7365

Never shall it die

Zaros

United Kingdom3692 Posts

October 20 2017 20:50 GMT

#7366

That which is dead can never die

R1CH

Netherlands10342 Posts

October 20 2017 20:58 GMT

#7367

Except the IRC. That really is dead.

DIngoDog

11 Posts

October 22 2017 03:19 GMT

#7368

Damn, well at first I saw the thread title and had the obvious reaction you cited at the beginning. After reading further I have to say that if you find people to connect with that share the same hobbies and are also gay, then more power to you. If that provides solace, comfort, camaraderie, then that's a beautiful thing. I know it's not my fault, but I'm sorry society is so fucked up that it's a big deal what you like to do with your penis. With the fuck heads that are running this country (and voting for them across the midwest retard-belt), it's more important now than it has even been to band together and show support, particularly since it may mean even more challenging times for many. Keep fighting the good fight...interesting perspective on the whole thing that I'd never thought of before. At some point, the old world thinking will die, but it seems like it has to fester and rise to the surface first, before it pops, like a nasty pimple (Ok, yeah, fucking gross analogy but you get it).

Zaros

United Kingdom3692 Posts

October 22 2017 22:07 GMT

#7369

On October 21 2017 05:58 R1CH wrote:
Except the IRC. That really is dead.

I miss the good old days

RoMGraViTy

United States314 Posts

November 11 2017 13:46 GMT

#7370

On October 23 2017 07:07 Zaros wrote:

Show nested quote +

I miss the good old days

#Neverforget
#Miss you all.

lestye

United States4243 Posts

November 13 2017 18:15 GMT

#7371

Really happy to see this thread is still going. I hope all of you are still getting great use of it and meeting supportive people here.

Drekkonis

Canada286 Posts

November 27 2017 09:26 GMT

#7372

On October 21 2017 05:58 R1CH wrote:
Except the IRC. That really is dead.

It should of evolved into a Discord ... RIP. I miss the late night joking around

xscrubforlifex

1 Post

December 25 2017 10:09 GMT

#7373

Gold Terran player from Toronto here. Used to play back in WOL/Brood War days but I took a break after. Getting back into it because its free to play now.

xPlayer0001x #1627 is my addy.

Drekkonis

Canada286 Posts

January 16 2018 02:12 GMT

#7374

On December 25 2017 19:09 xscrubforlifex wrote:
Gold Terran player from Toronto here. Used to play back in WOL/Brood War days but I took a break after. Getting back into it because its free to play now.

xPlayer0001x #1627 is my addy.

Another Toronto player in the house! Make sure you join the StarCraft Toronto Group

Axero

United States307 Posts

January 20 2018 18:12 GMT

#7375

On November 27 2017 18:26 Drekkonis wrote:

Show nested quote +

It should of evolved into a Discord ... RIP. I miss the late night joking around

https://discord.gg/McdCeCj

Come make it a reality!

Odenetheus

Sweden11 Posts

October 30 2018 15:13 GMT

#7376

Axero, is that Discord still up? If it is, I'd love a new link.

Just got back to SC2, and found this thread after googling to see if Serral might be gay, as he's hella cute and I'd tap that. Anyway, if anyone would like to play, hit me up c:

tOmAtO_OblOngAtA

1 Post

November 24 2018 21:50 GMT

#7377

Hiya, I'm gay af and would love to meet other LGBTQ+ players. I made an invite link to a LGBTQ+ channel on my discord: Mod edit: Link removed.

XenOsky

Chile2358 Posts

December 21 2018 10:20 GMT

#7378

On November 25 2018 06:50 tOmAtO_OblOngAtA wrote:
Hiya, I'm gay af and would love to meet other LGBTQ+ players. I made an invite link to a LGBTQ+ channel on my discord: Mod edit: Link removed.

you should add dM-White on west

bigmechhero

3 Posts

December 30 2018 16:01 GMT

#7379

im gay but i dont make it into a lifestyle please nobody needs to know your sexual orientation dude unless ur trying to get a jizzle out of a big mech dizzle

Quantran

United States44 Posts

December 31 2018 22:17 GMT

#7380

I'm not gay but I do agree that society has been one huge asshole to gay people.