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jcarlsoniv
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red_
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On November 26 2013 04:25 Scip wrote: those are euphemisms for boring and conformist Boring I disagree with, but conformist is actually pretty true, 100% conforming to societal norms. | ||
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mordek
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jcarlsoniv
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Meanwhile, I'm across the river ~10-15 min away, and usually have no desire to go out and party with them. They've been telling me they miss me being around and close enough on campus. I don't think they understand though. They're all busy with grad school and stuff, but it's still the same school thing for them. I'm busy with this whole new life now - work, apartment, cat, my own space. I'm perfectly happy with sitting my computer chair and not moving, having bills and shit, generally being a real person (most of the time). I feel like I'm disappointing them by not being exactly the same as I was senior year - but I gave less than 0 shits about anything last year. Maybe they'll get it once they're "real adults". | ||
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JonGalt
Pootie too good!4331 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:32 mordek wrote: I'm just waiting for that day to come... hopefully not for awhile. uhm.... which day are you referring to exactly papa mordek? | ||
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mordek
United States12705 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:38 JonGalt wrote: uhm.... which day are you referring to exactly papa mordek? When I know longer have time to "game". It's creeping up really quickly  At the moment trying to juggle the responsibilities while still enjoying One For All for a few hours on weekends, which is definitely worth. | ||
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GhandiEAGLE
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caelym
United States6429 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:37 jcarlsoniv wrote: It's weird for me. Like, my girlfriend lives in a house with all her friends (and I'm close with the friend group as well) who are all grad students now since we graduated in May. They're all still in the whole school mode thing, and love going out every weekend and partying with people in their major. Meanwhile, I'm across the river ~10-15 min away, and usually have no desire to go out and party with them. They've been telling me they miss me being around and close enough on campus. I don't think they understand though. They're all busy with grad school and stuff, but it's still the same school thing for them. I'm busy with this whole new life now - work, apartment, cat, my own space. I'm perfectly happy with sitting my computer chair and not moving, having bills and shit, generally being a real person (most of the time). I feel like I'm disappointing them by not being exactly the same as I was senior year - but I gave less than 0 shits about anything last year. Maybe they'll get it once they're "real adults". being a real adult and going out are not exclusive | ||
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:42 caelym wrote: being a real adult and going out are not exclusive oh, I know. But last year I was just across campus from them, so I could go hang out all the time Now I actually have to get into my car and drive through Springfield to get to them - it's inconvenient, and after a day of work I really just prefer to sit and play with my cat/computer edit: also, they have been more apt to going out to really crowded college bars (ones that I didn't like when I was still in college), which isn't my scene. | ||
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wei2coolman
United States60033 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:44 jcarlsoniv wrote: oh, I know. But last year I was just across campus from them, so I could go hang out all the time Now I actually have to get into my car and drive through Springfield to get to them - it's inconvenient, and after a day of work I really just prefer to sit and play with my cat/computer Tell them to grow the fuck up. :D | ||
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caelym
United States6429 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:44 jcarlsoniv wrote: oh, I know. But last year I was just across campus from them, so I could go hang out all the time Now I actually have to get into my car and drive through Springfield to get to them - it's inconvenient, and after a day of work I really just prefer to sit and play with my cat/computer edit: also, they have been more apt to going out to really crowded college bars (ones that I didn't like when I was still in college), which isn't my scene. if you want to hang out and but dont want to go out, host a board game night at your place. get people come to you. and I don't think you're disappointing them. If you are, then do what wei said. | ||
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
I guess it's just weird for me. They're still in the same world they've been in for over 4 years. I've been thrown into real life, and it is a stark difference in attitudes now. I sometimes just wonder if they realize it. | ||
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WaveofShadow
Canada31495 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:39 mordek wrote: When I know longer have time to "game". It's creeping up really quickly At the moment trying to juggle the responsibilities while still enjoying One For All for a few hours on weekends, which is definitely worth. How is it that you have time now? I suppose not everyone`s kid is like mine and you don`t have to be paranoid about going into them at all hours of the night? | ||
Carnivorous Sheep
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caelym
United States6429 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:54 jcarlsoniv wrote: I mean, I still see them fairly frequently, it's just not as much as it used to be. I guess it's just weird for me. They're still in the same world they've been in for over 4 years. I've been thrown into real life, and it is a stark difference in attitudes now. I sometimes just wonder if they realize it. academia is definitely a bubble. funny enough, my friend at med school says it feels like high school. | ||
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red_
United States8474 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:54 jcarlsoniv wrote: I mean, I still see them fairly frequently, it's just not as much as it used to be. I guess it's just weird for me. They're still in the same world they've been in for over 4 years. I've been thrown into real life, and it is a stark difference in attitudes now. I sometimes just wonder if they realize it. I'm guessing this is also in no small part because most of your college friends were also athletes, given that you were an athlete at what you said is an athletic school. I went to a big state school so I technically had a lot of options, but due to being around my teammates pretty much all the time, they ended up being the majority of my friends, and they tend to spend free time very stereotypically(it's a stereotype for a reason!). Also, they're in the first semester of grad school, the difficulty of their programs may not have hit them yet. That doesn't necessarily change their attitudes though, just the time they have to spend asking you to come drink with them. All of this post could be wrong, it's 100% anecdotal from my own experience playing football and transitioning to PT school(although I was out of school for a couple years in between). | ||
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Gahlo
United States35173 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:58 Carnivorous Sheep wrote: real life sux school was ez i wanna go back to school Trade you. | ||
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
On November 26 2013 05:05 red_ wrote: I'm guessing this is also in no small part because most of your college friends were also athletes, given that you were an athlete at what you said is an athletic school. I went to a big state school so I technically had a lot of options, but due to being around my teammates pretty much all the time, they ended up being the majority of my friends, and they tend to spend free time very stereotypically(it's a stereotype for a reason!). Also, they're in the first semester of grad school, the difficulty of their programs may not have hit them yet. That doesn't necessarily change their attitudes though, just the time they have to spend asking you to come drink with them. All of this post could be wrong, it's 100% anecdotal from my own experience playing football and transitioning to PT school(although I was out of school for a couple years in between). Your post isn't 100% wrong, just mostly =P They're mostly PT majors. The PT program at SC is a 3 year undergrad/3 year grad program, so this is technically their 2nd year of grad work even though they walked at graduation in May lol It's because their atmosphere hasn't changed, and I'm not sure they realize how different mine is. | ||
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mordek
United States12705 Posts
On November 26 2013 04:57 WaveofShadow wrote: How is it that you have time now? I suppose not everyone`s kid is like mine and you don`t have to be paranoid about going into them at all hours of the night? Most weekend afternoons are baby and mom nap time = LoL time. Sometimes my wife wants to watch a tv show in the evening and I play a game or two then. The kid is definitely something but taking care of a house which always needs something done despite being in good shape and job that asks I work more than 40 hours is almost more of a pain imo. I like the responsibility of my baby  I still play volleyball and frisbee on a weekly basis depending on season and lift not as much as I'd like but still make it to the gym and meet up with friends for games and stuff. It's crazy and it just means less time to just grind a ladder or get into more than one game at a time lol.College was an awesome time of life. Don't you dare waste it lol. Also, my wife and I talk a lot about how different things are with friends that are a) in college b) single c) married without kids. Every layer just makes things different. It gets to 11pm and you're like wow when are people leaving I want to go to bed where as in college it was like, we got a few hours to whatever we want and go out! | ||
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Cixah
United States11285 Posts
On November 26 2013 01:12 AsmodeusXI wrote: Cixah you didn't shout out TL LoL on the most recent Turn2! I am disappoint. T_T I couldn't. I had like a super long list of shoutouts and they were all like, "WE ALL GET ONE THIS TIME BECAUSE OF HOW LONG WE GO ON DURING THE SHOW." So I had to atleast plug the TL Tourny Thread | ||
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