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William paradise
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Alesti
Canada288 Posts
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nerpderp
United States780 Posts
On the other hand, it *is* kinda flattering? I mean, they wouldn't ask you out if they didn't think highly of you in some way. :-) | ||
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Scarlett`
Canada2392 Posts
On July 08 2015 08:10 nerpderp wrote: Scarlett - those tweets were great. I'm glad you're comfortable speaking your mind. There's so much that's challenging about being a girl gamer in a scene full of teenage boys that people don't realize. On the other hand, it *is* kinda flattering? I mean, they wouldn't ask you out if they didn't think highly of you in some way. :-) i mean most of the time its super uncomfortable - like they sit down next to you and dont leave when you say no; just keep trying until you walk away.. its especially bad in toronto events cuz i actually live near there so i get asked quite a bit .. i spent most of the time with friends last weekend so i wasnt really approachable but then its kinda awkward for fans who just want pic/autograph or quick chat and anyway still ended up happening like; if you really like someone dont put them in a situation like that (and do you really think if you're a fan of someone and just met theyd agree to go out with you ---??) kinda like catcalling in a way (ppl think its flattering but its just ;x) | ||
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nerpderp
United States780 Posts
On July 08 2015 08:22 Acer.Scarlett` wrote: i mean most of the time its super uncomfortable - like they sit down next to you and dont leave when you say no; just keep trying until you walk away.. its especially bad in toronto events cuz i actually live near there so i get asked quite a bit .. i spent most of the time with friends last weekend so i wasnt really approachable but then its kinda awkward for fans who just want pic/autograph or quick chat and anyway still ended up happening like; if you really like someone dont put them in a situation like that (and do you really think if you're a fan of someone and just met theyd agree to go out with you ---??) kinda like catcalling in a way (ppl think its flattering but its just ;x) Oh, I totally know the feeling. I'm queer and Asian, and whenever I travel anywhere that's not west coast NA, I get plenty of "hello my pretty little Asian boy" come-ons from creepy white men. And it's especially awkward in places where I can't easily get away, like a small bar. Eventually, I just learned to be very clear and politely say "thanks, but I'm not interested" and then walk away without worrying about coming across as a bitch. But to put it in perspective, I'm sure a lot of the guys who hit on you have zero social skills, and have no idea what it means to actually like someone. Most of them probably just really admire your play, think you're attractive, and are trying to express it in the only way they know how. This isn't to excuse their behavior, but it might help you deal with it more effectively if you can see where they're coming from. | ||
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William paradise
1753 Posts
On July 08 2015 08:37 nerpderp wrote: thats really well said. Oh, I totally know the feeling. I'm queer and Asian, and whenever I travel anywhere that's not west coast NA, I get plenty of "hello my pretty little Asian boy" come-ons from creepy white men. And it's especially awkward in places where I can't easily get away, like a small bar. Eventually, I just learned to be very clear and politely say "thanks, but I'm not interested" and then walk away without worrying about coming across as a bitch. But to put it in perspective, I'm sure a lot of the guys who hit on you have zero social skills, and have no idea what it means to actually like someone. Most of them probably just really admire your play, think you're attractive, and are trying to express it in the only way they know how. This isn't to excuse their behavior, but it might help you deal with it more effectively if you can see where they're coming from. | ||
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nerpderp
United States780 Posts
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TheLastTemplar
Iceland593 Posts
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xtorn
4060 Posts
On July 08 2015 07:25 Alesti wrote: Ooh I see what did there xd so Ukraine? My second guess was Romania to raise a vampire army, I was pretty close. I asked my fellow romanian vampires and they received no such news, such a visit would have made rumours in the underground vampire world. | ||
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Scarlett`
Canada2392 Posts
On July 08 2015 12:06 nerpderp wrote: Hey Scarlett -- Hitman made Challenger. How do you feel? excellent ! | ||
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William paradise
1753 Posts
On July 08 2015 13:55 xtorn wrote: I asked my fellow romanian vampires and they received no such news, such a visit would have made rumours in the underground vampire world. thats because shes not really going there she just throwing people off,you think she would say where her vampire headquarters is? | ||
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Nymia
United Kingdom3 Posts
On July 08 2015 07:09 Alesti wrote: You're going to Thailand? Just guessing... Well if she is then all the best of luck to her its a really nice place. We'll miss you though Scarlett <3 Yea those LAN/Expo boys can be really creepy, its just kinda like: 'that's nice and all but I don't even know you :s'. | ||
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Butters (Scot)
Scotland471 Posts
yea all it took was thousands of hours abusing protoss on ladder, most of the real players to retire / take a break, an extremely favorable bracket and his coin flip 50 / 50 builds to make him 2k. showing all the protoss abusers / all in ladder heros that if u abuse the crap outta something long enough u will get your very small moment in the light  all tho i'm a little disappointed in puck not putting him out tbh even with the 50 - 50ness of PVP, state gets a pass cos i think hes dealing with ping from korea (unless i'm mistaken) oh and i'm ok with being used in her vampire army i just want a position of power when she rules the world | ||
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William paradise
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xtorn
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Butters (Scot)
Scotland471 Posts
posted on Mon, Jul 6 2015 11:32 PM tweet was way after sorted !!!!!! link for people who might be confused  | ||
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partouf
Netherlands405 Posts
On July 08 2015 08:37 nerpderp wrote: Oh, I totally know the feeling. I'm queer and Asian, and whenever I travel anywhere that's not west coast NA, I get plenty of "hello my pretty little Asian boy" come-ons from creepy white men. And it's especially awkward in places where I can't easily get away, like a small bar. Eventually, I just learned to be very clear and politely say "thanks, but I'm not interested" and then walk away without worrying about coming across as a bitch. But to put it in perspective, I'm sure a lot of the guys who hit on you have zero social skills, and have no idea what it means to actually like someone. Most of them probably just really admire your play, think you're attractive, and are trying to express it in the only way they know how. This isn't to excuse their behavior, but it might help you deal with it more effectively if you can see where they're coming from. If that's the only way they know how to express that, I think we live in a fucked up world... Oh wait, we do. | ||
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Mike L
Germany162 Posts
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William paradise
1753 Posts
On July 09 2015 01:57 xtorn wrote: Ok, I have to ask. What's this "teamScarlett" in your signature actually i have know idea just sounds good to me makes no sense but what the hell. | ||
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BrieFanFiction
United States167 Posts
On July 09 2015 07:07 William paradise wrote: actually i have know idea just sounds good to me makes no sense but what the hell. I had noticed that before. I just assumed that it was referring to the fanclub; I feel like we're all "teamScarlett" here. | ||
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