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JadeFist
United States1225 Posts
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
If she's not interested before or after date, keep it to band friends. Not that I have experience, trying logic here ;-) (my online mode of operation) | ||
CaucasianAsian
Korea (South)11579 Posts
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New Zealand6138 Posts
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beetlelisk
Poland2276 Posts
Don't mistake her Restoration saving from loneliness plaguu with Blind of your own libido ;d Since she's shy maybe talk to her little more before making any move? Let her like you more? | ||
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GoSu
Korea (South)1773 Posts
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iceburn
United States303 Posts
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
But definitely just ask her out. If she seems shy, you're most likely not going to get any sort of sign from her. Laughing and blushing are both excellent signs in any case. Saying "I'm happy i met you" is about as forward as any girl will get anyway. | ||
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Ingenol
United States1328 Posts
Whatever you ask her to do, you should suggest a specific place or activity. Women eat up self-confidence and assertiveness. | ||
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DeathSpank
United States1029 Posts
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Ronald_McD
Canada807 Posts
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YPang
United States4024 Posts
Edit: if that doesn't work it means you gotta get more booze, not "try harder" | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
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FreeDoM[YA]
Canada855 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:42 YPang wrote: man guys stop shitting urselfs. Next time u see a chick, just wipe out your dick and let the evolution do the speaking. If she doesn't jump on it, prob a lesibian or too afraid of your monster cock anyways. Edit: if that doesn't work it means you gotta get more booze, not "try harder" Yeah.... I tried that and.... + Show Spoiler + It went fucking amazing! I recommend this technique at all times! | ||
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anderoo
Canada1876 Posts
in the kennigit online dating thread he said something in his profile about just looking for a friend, but obv a guy and a girl going out together you're not just looking to be friends, but you won't look like a desperate noob if you're just being friendly | ||
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esla_sol
United States756 Posts
quit living in the past it'll take you nowhere fast sitting high up above or down below when you are too in love to let it show if you never try you'll never know just what you are | ||
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Fontong
United States6454 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:49 FreeDoM[YA] wrote: Yeah.... I tried that and.... + Show Spoiler + It went fucking amazing! I recommend this technique at all times! eww aren't you like 13 or something XD | ||
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Archaic
United States4024 Posts
Hahaha, and YPang is a genius. | ||
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gusbear
333 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:07 JadeFist wrote: So, I work in a band compromised almost entirely of old people. I however, am college bound and 18. There is also a girl in the band who is college bound and 18 going to a college near mine. So we started talking on one of the band's gigs and she was laughing and smiling a lot. The gig was all day long and she was positioning herself around me a lot and near me asking me questions etc. She seems pretty shy and was blushing around me. At the end of the day she told me she was really happy she met someone she could talk to in the band. So I do not know whether or not she just wants to be around me because she has nobody else to talk to or if she actually likes me. Thoughts? (I am not applying starcraft strategy don't worry) just dont get yourself college bound in a compromising position with entirely old people. and 18. | ||
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n.DieJokes
United States3443 Posts
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Code
Canada634 Posts
Just because she talked to you doesnt mean she's head over heals in love with you. Plus, you dont want to upset the band "chemistry" or whatever if you make a serious move at her too soon and shes like "whoa man i just wanted to talk to someone my age, back off!" Rome wasn't built in a day + Show Spoiler + ^^ I never have used that saying before so hopefully it applies here | ||
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Multiplex
Canada14 Posts
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GeneralStan
United States4789 Posts
Asking her out on a date isn't some huge step, it isn't saying "lets start a relationship". Its testing the water one on one, so if things go well enough they can go from there. Its an indication that maybe you could be more than friends. Mini-golf is a capital idea as well | ||
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anderoo
Canada1876 Posts
On July 21 2009 09:56 GeneralStan wrote: I completely disagree with the last three. If you want to be her friend, then by all means talk to her and let it develop. But if you want to date her, ask her out next time you see her. this do. naught. get. friend zoned. | ||
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Ingenol
United States1328 Posts
On July 21 2009 09:30 Code wrote: I wouldnt jump right into asking her out or on a date just yet. She's in your band so you're going to be able to see and talk to her a lot. Just get to know her and go from there. Just because she talked to you doesnt mean she's head over heals in love with you. Plus, you dont want to upset the band "chemistry" or whatever if you make a serious move at her too soon and shes like "whoa man i just wanted to talk to someone my age, back off!" Rome wasn't built in a day + Show Spoiler + ^^ I never have used that saying before so hopefully it applies here Strongly disagree. You WILL get friend zoned. In girl-world, she's shown about as much interest as a typical girl is willing to show. If you don't reciprocate she'll figure you're not interested in her and will do that crazy thing girls do where they will themselves to stop being interested in you. Girls like a man who's confident, knows what he wants (in this case, her), and isn't afraid to go for it. You're not making a serious move (convince yourself of this even if it feels serious/scary for you), just asking her out casually. | ||
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KP_CollectoR
United States744 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:33 Ingenol wrote: Yes she's definitely interested. | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On July 21 2009 09:11 n.DieJokes wrote: Congrats, sounds like you made a friend; I'd just cultivate that and then see if something's gonna happen from there Yeah, this is terrible fucking advice. DO NOT LISTEN TO n.DieJokes. Having balls and being up front is the best way to get a date, even if she's not super into you at the time. | ||
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Ichigo1234551
United States649 Posts
my heart beats faster is this love? | ||
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zulu_nation8
China26351 Posts
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DoX.)
Singapore6164 Posts
this. | ||
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Kennelie
United States2296 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:42 YPang wrote: man guys stop shitting urselfs. Next time u see a chick, just wipe out your dick and let the evolution do the speaking. If she doesn't jump on it, prob a lesibian or too afraid of your monster cock anyways. Edit: if that doesn't work it means you gotta get more booze, not "try harder" I could not have stated it better my friend. | ||
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MoRe_mInErAls
Canada1210 Posts
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Energies
Australia3225 Posts
On July 21 2009 06:33 Ingenol wrote: Yes she's definitely interested. It's not really rocket science. She seems interested and you'll get nowhere playing guessing games. "I really like you. I'd like to get to know you better, lets catch up for a drink" | ||
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Energies
Australia3225 Posts
On July 21 2009 23:02 MoRe_mInErAls wrote: I think all she's just a lonely girl looking for a friend in band. Have you considered being her friend? It might be better than sex. You never know. aww, that's adorable! | ||
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Badjas
Netherlands2038 Posts
(edit out 'fucking'. that sounds a bit too vulgar in this context) | ||
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