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DoctorHelvetica

United States15034 Posts

July 12 2009 18:05 GMT

#21

Losing someone who is such an integral part of your life is a really shattering experience, I understand as I have gone through it myself. Ultimately, you must realize that your life is your own and that no matter who fades in and out of it, it is still worth living to the fullest.

Ghardo

Germany1685 Posts

July 12 2009 18:41 GMT

#22

sadly you can never know when someone leaves this world - it could be over for any of us any minute - but there is no sense in dwelling on that thought as you just waste the time you have in doing that, similarly you should learn to accept the fact that your mother is gone and to not let the pain/depression take over because of that... such things are not planned, they just happen and what you got to do now is carry on as you can't change the facts anyway - your mother wouldn't have wanted your life destroyed because of it.

if you manage to develop some kind of positive basic attitude still time will heal your wounds.

Deleted User 3420

24492 Posts

July 12 2009 23:10 GMT

#23

You need to face some stuff and clear it up.

I'd love to talk to you about it. It really could help a lot.

But if you are like the majority of people here you probably have a poor opinion of me and don't want to. But if you do, just pm me.

If you don't want to talk to me about it... I recommend you find someone else. Someone levelheaded and kind. Speak your mind to them, tell them how you feel. Let them help you sort out your thoughts.

Your sister says the things she says because she is hurt and confused.

I am so sorry for the pain you experience now but things won't last forever.

Please don't be afraid to let someone help you with this. I know I can help you, at least some, if you just take a chance on it. Dealing with this stuff is what my life is centered around. No one would have to know. And if not me, someone else. Please.

Etherone

United States1898 Posts

July 14 2009 03:54 GMT

#24

BackHo[BLACK]

80 Posts

July 14 2009 09:01 GMT

#25

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe you can think about donating a kidney? I walked past a stall where they were raising awareness about how many people have to go get dialysis every week just to survive and it's a really long and suffering life for them, yet most of us have two healthy kidneys and can afford to help them, but there is always a shortage. You could make a real big difference to someone's life, even if yours feels really sad.

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