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Asking a girl out is harder in person but that's really the only way you can go about doing it without seeming like a totally spineless tool! It forces them to answer and you can actually gauge their interest in you (or if you've completely caught them off guard). It's tought tho  Just gotta tell yourself, "what's the worst that could happen? I get rejected, move on, and find another fish in the sea. Live life without regrets!"
EDIT: And I read that flaked blog post, very interesting stuff! I too notice this trend, especially among my age cohort (kids in our 20s). Some people basically have no accountability, show up to events hours late, and generally act like selfish brats. Meh, I suppose we're all to blame for putting up with flaking. Personally, I think the main reason is... the internet. I don't know why, I just feel it is
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i think you should go to yubee for advice.. ithink it was him writing whole batches of how to become a pimp or something~
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CA10835 Posts
On April 11 2009 09:10 BuGzlToOnl wrote:
Oh and on a semi-but-not-really related note. I think I read somewhere it might have been on TL not sure, but that the clit evolved into a penis or that the penis evolved into the clit. Don't remember I tried googling it but failed to come up with something scientific other than some pictures of clits and some stuff on hormones in case you want to make your clit look like a small penis. Anyone actually know or read anything on this?
it's something called bipotentiation.
at around 6 weeks into gestation, there is a form of sexual genitalia that is not sexually dimorphic. at this point in time, secretion of DHT ( dihydro-testosterone) will lead to differentiation along the male pathway and lack of DHT will lead to the female pathway. the genital tubercle becomes the penis in the male and the clitoris in the female. the labioscrotal swelling become the scrotum in males and labia in females.
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So girls have a split nutsack and a tiny nub penis?
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Canada9720 Posts
On April 11 2009 10:03 Pawsom wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2009 09:10 BuGzlToOnl wrote: I said it was fine and if she wanted to do anything some other time just to text or call. But ddin't seem to interested. Of course she didn't. If she texts you saying she can't make it, especially on a first date kinda thing, one of the best responses you can have, is "make what?" Don't ever make open, "well if you want to do something sometime let me know" type plans. Thats not how you get girls
im not too sure about the first part, but the second part is good advice
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On April 11 2009 10:41 LosingID8 wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2009 09:10 BuGzlToOnl wrote:
Oh and on a semi-but-not-really related note. I think I read somewhere it might have been on TL not sure, but that the clit evolved into a penis or that the penis evolved into the clit. Don't remember I tried googling it but failed to come up with something scientific other than some pictures of clits and some stuff on hormones in case you want to make your clit look like a small penis. Anyone actually know or read anything on this? it's something called bipotentiation. at around 6 weeks into gestation, there is a form of sexual genitalia that is not sexually dimorphic. at this point in time, secretion of DHT ( dihydro-testosterone) will lead to differentiation along the male pathway and lack of DHT will lead to the female pathway. the genital tubercle becomes the penis in the male and the clitoris in the female. the labioscrotal swelling become the scrotum in males and labia in females.
I already knew this, but thank you for the well typed out reply and picture.
I was talking more in terms of evolution thou, like the clit evolving after million of years into a penis or vise versa. I know it seems irrational because you need sperm + egg for sexual reproduction, but the first micro organisms reproduced asexually they had to have one or the other. I just wanted to know if there's any data/research indicating which came first.
Kinda of like the chicken/egg question.
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On April 11 2009 10:52 CTStalker wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2009 10:03 Pawsom wrote:On April 11 2009 09:10 BuGzlToOnl wrote: I said it was fine and if she wanted to do anything some other time just to text or call. But ddin't seem to interested. Of course she didn't. If she texts you saying she can't make it, especially on a first date kinda thing, one of the best responses you can have, is "make what?" Don't ever make open, "well if you want to do something sometime let me know" type plans. Thats not how you get girls im not too sure about the first part, but the second part is good advice
My train of thought was if she's interested she now knows I'm available/like her and she'll contact me. If not there's no reason for me to go after her I'm not head over heals for her I just like her a bit. :p
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On April 11 2009 10:15 ilistis wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2009 09:55 Try wrote:On April 11 2009 09:52 iSCOUT4u wrote:
Whats wrong with thanks homie...
keep ur pimp hand strong
represent....Mallllibu i just can't imagine a cute, attractive girl saying something as brusque as "thanks homie" after you hand her a flower. lol That's the same guy who suggested that slapping a woman is okay. lol
Hey now...read the last post in that thread....i said i was joking....for those who arent friends with captain obvious...and the stuff i was joking about...was from malibus most wanted....
keep ur pimp hand strong
B-rad from maaalibu peace up a town down
edit: like the dude said she was saying homie in a cute way...which is cool...but still a little weird...and sounds like your in the friend zone.
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You need a better build order, what you just expect to go 9pool and hash your way to a win without a follow up plan? Make like fantasy and prepare a few creative builds, at the very least you'll come close like he did
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Ask Oov (yubee) for help.
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5/5 for the title. But fuck her.
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you know why she cancelled?
Cos she got another hotter date, sorry. Happens. And she took the LEAD and initiated the dinner, meaning you were one step lower than her. AND you got flaked. Thats a pretty damn big GG right there, unless she reschedules without prompting from you, drop her asap. JWD, agree with me? XD
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Look at it from her perspective man.. You were all nice and shit, then as soon as you get away from her you text her a "sneaky" wanna hang out?. I guarantee its not even close to the main thing on her mind because you texted it. Be direct, have confidence and it will go fine man.
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what is a homie? thanks honey or thanks darling is a more polite way to say it. btw the woman at my school cafeteria used to call me darling coz im just such a cute guy.
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On April 11 2009 10:57 BuGzlToOnl wrote:Show nested quote +On April 11 2009 10:52 CTStalker wrote:On April 11 2009 10:03 Pawsom wrote:On April 11 2009 09:10 BuGzlToOnl wrote: I said it was fine and if she wanted to do anything some other time just to text or call. But ddin't seem to interested. Of course she didn't. If she texts you saying she can't make it, especially on a first date kinda thing, one of the best responses you can have, is "make what?" Don't ever make open, "well if you want to do something sometime let me know" type plans. Thats not how you get girls im not too sure about the first part, but the second part is good advice My train of thought was if she's interested she now knows I'm available/like her and she'll contact me. If not there's no reason for me to go after her I'm not head over heals for her I just like her a bit. :p
That's NOT how girls work. The second she knows for certain you are interested, is the same time she loses interest.
Girls are used to being asked out, and they hear these "hey if you want to hang out sometime call me" shit all the time. When you do that, you're becoming like everybody else. She's in it for the challenge just as much as you should be. You want her to be seeking that attention, and you can never just give it. When you learn how to make her be the one thats trying so hard for attention, you'll be amazed at how easy it can be to pick up girls.
TLDR: It's all a big game, learn to play it.
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Pawsom you talk like a friend of mine who also knows how to play the "game" and all he scores are these skanks some may be semi attractive I'll give him that, but I see them as skankz/easy. Sure you get them in bed the first time you meet and he gets mad pussy yo~. But that's not what I'm after, I'd rather have something worthwhile than a one night stand.
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YO I WANT MORE BLOGS FROM YOU....That blog rocked. Anyways this blog reminds me of the flakes blog. I don't think i posted in that blog but she TOTALLY flaked out on you bro. Well anyways try not to touch yourself but tender your nerves. Oh and don't flake out on the important things in life and just be a fool and ask up front.
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I've gone through something like that with this girl I'm crazy about, and she definitely says stuff like "thanks, homie" and we have a great time together. To make a long story short, we have dinner all the time together and I'm waist deep in the mother fucking friend zone, so yeah... I don't think you really asked her out. I think you asked if she wants to eat with you which is totally different than asking for a date.
I actually asked for the date but got flaked out on, and I took the hint that she wasn't interested that way. :\ We're still close friends and I know we'd make a terrible couple, but it sucks.
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just act like u r better than she is
then fuck her
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