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Forgive the crude title, but I am a tad irritated at the moment. I'll keep this brief since I have class in 6.5 hours and I'm fucking exhausted.
There's this girl in one of my classes last semester. She's nice, I don't talk to her often but she makes the attempt to talk to me. I honestly don't like overly forward people like this but I try to stay polite and shit. She adds me as a friend on Facebook, fine. She posts every so often, fine. OK, not so fine because her messages are like, "Have a happy new year" or whatever. It could be she's trying to be nice, but fuck; I want to be left alone. I do not want to associate myself with this person. But she keeps up with the constant prying posts on Facebook. If I put my status as, "Jaeyoung is working," then she would post something like, "oh what are you working on?" I'm probably overreacting but that's why I'm posting this.
I probably didn't make a whole lot of sense, but bottom line: There's a person at school I do not wish to associate myself with but she keeps trying to become close with me.
Oh and funny story which leads me to believe she's a TAD insane: she tags photos of me on Facebook (I rarely take photos, it's strictly with close friends only) and I was about to check it out for the first time and I think to myself, "Huh, I don't recall her taking a picture of me." (which is fucking freaky as it is) I look at the photo, it's a picture of Dong Bang Shin Ki (or w/e they're called/spelled). What the FUCK? I check where I'm tagged, it's some shaggy haired member of the group. And I'm not just tagged either, another Korean guy in my class is tagged as well. I haven't talked to him about it, he probably thinks she's fucking insane as well.
  
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I wish I had stalkers. This is the new age man, very few people have social skills besides the computer. It's just the way things are turning -.-, so what's so bad about this girl?
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Best solution is to just not talk to her. Whenever she talks to you just give half assed answers that aren't technically rude but if she has half a brain she should be able to get the veiled 'fuck off' message. Some girls never get it though T_T.
In a semi related story, tome guy tagged a picture with a bunch of progamers in it. I was Much. Maybe I'm old looking.
Band you were talking about is like TVSQ isn't it? Also DBSK LOL. I think it is because the chinese is 东方神起-->(t)dong (v)fang shen qi. lawl.
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Wow, Just be like "Im not comfortable with you stalking be please fuck off"
If all else fails hit her in the face and tell her to go die in a fire. 
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um... if she doesn't get the hint (assuming you've sent her some) why dont you just tell her to go away? she must have some asian guy fetish...
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i just treat chicks like that really badly if i aint got 2 many mutual friends with the person.
i have this annoying girl thats cute and all but she has no character and she added me to facebook after speaking to her once at this exhibition we both had art up at. She puts attending to all the events i go to (think friday, saturday nights at clubs, bars whatever)
and i've spoken to her once, i alwyas catch her glancing at me.
2 months ago(after like 3 months of this weird stalking) she just jumped infront of me and said "hello!" putting a hand up as if to shake it, and i was SUPER wasted and knew she had a crush on me but i didnt like her so i was like "GOD DAMN IM SO DRUNK, REBECCA RIGHT?
then i just turned around completely and starting to talk to some complete stranger, i guess she walked away cuz when i turned around to look for her she was gone.
lol
edit* oh and her name wasnt rebecca, i said the wrong name to her on purpose
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LMAO what is this at, where. high school? college?
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Kentor
United States5784 Posts
it'll be fine if she was super hot right?
yeah i've had similar a similar experience but not as insane as your girl. the girl just kept calling me and asking me shit randomly, and yes she was ugly
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On January 23 2009 16:33 Kentor wrote:
it'll be fine if she was super hot right?
I assume it would be lolol
Notice the only adjective he uses is "nice"
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T.O.P.
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I just saw Equinox's facebook.
She is insane.
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dude crazy bitches man, don't be too mean or she'll probably stab you. Tell her you're in a long distance relationship with the love of your life(that way she wont go looking for said girl to stab) and you're not interesting in being too close.
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On January 23 2009 15:59 MarklarMarklar wrote:
edit* oh and her name wasnt rebecca, i said the wrong name to her on purpose
Oh wow, thats the kicker right there. Good job.
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Bang her and tell her to ?!£% off. Or just tell her to leave u alone
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Just find a topic she does NOT enjoy talking about. Whenever she talks to you, switch the conversation to that topic. She'll hopefully get sick of you real fast.
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Braavos36392 Posts
clearly the appropriate course of action is post on TL, have one of the members link her to this blog, and once she reads it she'll leave you alone
that or kill you
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Remove her from your Facebook friends.
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1. take a screenshot of this thread
2. upload screenshot on facebook
3. tag screenshot as her
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Start calling her everyday, then she'll run away from you.
might hurt your image tho.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
I know the feeling. It's even worse when no matter how mean or rude you are to the person, making it without a doubt you don't want to talk to them, they still like you and want to talk to you.
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Try and do it subtly / gently first, she might not have the social skills to realise you are not interested in any sort of contact with her. Of couse if that fails, proceed to this:
On January 23 2009 18:15 Hot_Bid wrote:
clearly the appropriate course of action is post on TL, have one of the members link her to this blog, and once she reads it she'll leave you alone
that or kill you
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Just because she has left you a few messages on facebook doesn't mean she is trying to get close to you? Just don't talk to her.. pretty simple.
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why don't you tag this thread to facebook?
[edit] someone else beat me to it
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On January 23 2009 21:39 aliceblue wrote:
Just because she has left you a few messages on facebook doesn't mean she is trying to get close to you? Just don't talk to her.. pretty simple.
I checked his Facebook, it is more than a 'few'.
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My recommended course of action: quit being a nerd posting on tl about it, grow up, and learn how to communicate with people. She's bothering you? Good talk to her about it and settle it instead of being just as sketchy as she is.
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I didn't think it was all that bad until I read the last paragraph.
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Bang her, then ignore her. That will make for the best situation, and certainly the best blog.
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I wish someone was so interested in me.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On January 23 2009 15:42 Equinox_kr wrote:
Forgive the crude title, but I am a tad irritated at the moment. I'll keep this brief since I have class in 6.5 hours and I'm fucking exhausted.
There's this girl in one of my classes last semester. She's nice, I don't talk to her often but she makes the attempt to talk to me. I honestly don't like overly forward people like this but I try to stay polite and shit. She adds me as a friend on Facebook, fine. She posts every so often, fine. OK, not so fine because her messages are like, "Have a happy new year" or whatever. It could be she's trying to be nice, but fuck; I want to be left alone. I do not want to associate myself with this person. But she keeps up with the constant prying posts on Facebook. If I put my status as, "Jaeyoung is working," then she would post something like, "oh what are you working on?" I'm probably overreacting but that's why I'm posting this.
I probably didn't make a whole lot of sense, but bottom line: There's a person at school I do not wish to associate myself with but she keeps trying to become close with me.
Oh and funny story which leads me to believe she's a TAD insane: she tags photos of me on Facebook (I rarely take photos, it's strictly with close friends only) and I was about to check it out for the first time and I think to myself, "Huh, I don't recall her taking a picture of me." (which is fucking freaky as it is) I look at the photo, it's a picture of Dong Bang Shin Ki (or w/e they're called/spelled). What the FUCK? I check where I'm tagged, it's some shaggy haired member of the group. And I'm not just tagged either, another Korean guy in my class is tagged as well. I haven't talked to him about it, he probably thinks she's fucking insane as well.
she likes you and is ugly i guess
just tell her straight up to stop acting like a fucking stalker
say it half jokingly half serious but make sure your tone of voice is not that of an irritated or angry person, sound happy
it will do the trick and you won't look like an asshole
if she keeps coming then tell her to fuck off angrily
(u dug urself this ditch by being nice and polite, i've become very good at just completely blocking everyone out of my world unless i choose to let them in)
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Northern Ireland22212 Posts
On January 23 2009 19:12 EpiK wrote:
1. take a screenshot of this thread
2. upload screenshot on facebook
3. tag screenshot as her
Haha, sweet justice
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On January 23 2009 16:36 BanZu wrote:Show nested quote +On January 23 2009 16:33 Kentor wrote:
it'll be fine if she was super hot right? I assume it would be lolol Notice the only adjective he uses is "nice"
next time some guy asks what to do when he's put in friend zone, he should be given link to this blog immediately ;P
But on topic, the lesson of today - next time, don't be polite when you're trying to dodge something, be it girl or whatever else
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On January 23 2009 18:15 Hot_Bid wrote:
clearly the appropriate course of action is post on TL, have one of the members link her to this blog, and once she reads it she'll leave you alone
that or kill you
Not quite, she will hit him over the head until he is unconscious, drag him back to her place, have her way with time(i.e tie up games and all), then kill your family infront of you. After that she will continue to bite off your dick, feed you it, then kill you.
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If you cant get the leaver up for the beaver, try the ace you have in your sleaver.
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hello JaeYoung my name is Jinwon and I have had a similar experience in the past. The best thing to do is to keep ignoring her, she'll probably cry herself to sleep for a few weeks or a few months idk. If you want to speed up the process write her a Facebook message or some shit saying that she's annoying or obnoxious or something nicer than that if you will, but you gotta be somewhat of a douche bag if you want to be released from this prison.
Best of luck sir.
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If i went on facebook and showed the girl this link.. would I get banned from tl.net?
I feel like doing it
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On January 25 2009 02:54 InfeSteD wrote:If i went on facebook and showed the girl this link.. would I get banned from tl.net? I feel like doing it
More like you would get banned for being a creepy stalker that knows her name even though OP hasn't told us, not because of the link though
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On January 25 2009 03:45 Grobyc wrote:Show nested quote +On January 25 2009 02:54 InfeSteD wrote:If i went on facebook and showed the girl this link.. would I get banned from tl.net? I feel like doing it More like you would get banned for being a creepy stalker that knows her name even though OP hasn't told us, not because of the link though
Well i dunno who the girl is but it seems like a couple of people in the thread have noticed who she is by looking at equinox's profile? or am i wrOng?
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On January 23 2009 17:34 Teh_Arbitur wrote:
Bang her and tell her to ?!£% off. Or just tell her to leave u alone
okay... if u want a girl to leave u alone... this is the last thing u want to do.
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