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semioldguy
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Insane Lane
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sMi.Days
United States29 Posts
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
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Etherone
United States1898 Posts
I am going to sound like an ass for a bit, but bare with me. when did she bake you the cookies? before she met her current boyfriend? If so, did she bake him cookies as well? you can kinda see where I'm going with this, sadly it's a possibility, albeit one that can be easily ruled out, so please rule it out first. done being an ass. does she still talk to you, or has she been talking to you A LOT less, or stopped completely? have you met this guy? if not, is there anyway you can? ( you, her, him, and some other mutual friend, preferably a girl) answer these questions please, and i might be able to help you work from where you are. | ||
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ffswowsucks
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sMi.Days
United States29 Posts
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CharlieMurphy
United States22895 Posts
On January 23 2009 14:07 jwd241224 wrote: Uhhhh, I'm still not seeing how that is possible though you've never hung out together, I mean shouldn't even "that teenage type of love" at least require some level of personal interaction?  Obviously go for it, I mean she's clearly into you. Make a move ASAP. he means as a joke, you know how people really enjoy conversation and say shit like "omfg, i love you" its not to be taken literally. sort of like how you play sc and you go "OMFG I RAPED UR ASS BITCH". get a clue, what are you doing in girl advice thread? PS On January 23 2009 14:16 Raithed wrote: girls have fucking pussies, fucking hell. fixed | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On January 28 2009 05:19 sMi.Days wrote: well to etherone, we have pretty much stopped talking completely i dont see her in school anymore either. and to ffswowsucks, the bad thing was that she knew this guy thats going out with her right now way before me, so maybe she never liked me? I don't buy it, I think she did and he just moved first. Take it as a lesson learned, and don't be so passive next time. | ||
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sMi.Days
United States29 Posts
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ffswowsucks
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Insane Lane
United States397 Posts
On January 27 2009 14:29 sMi.Days wrote: Heh that sucks insanelane, and what happened after? She stayed with the guy for a long time? Hmm well it turns out that things didn't work out between them after just a short while. Lame as hell and it was pretty much because that guy basically told her it couldn't work out(for some other reasons). At that point, it was too late and I have more pride than to go try and go back in as a rebound when she clearly turned me down before. However, I still love her in the sense that she is awesome and she feels that way about me too, so we're really great friends still. Never going to go out though, but it's all good. In fact, I feel like us going out might've just set back our relationship in terms of our closeness. And I've moved on with romantic interests. So stay friends with her. She sounds like a really valuable friend, and she must be to have baked you cookies and such. You definitely meant something special to her and it just might not of been "boyfriend" special. And those feelings are really hard to lose unless you do something unforgivable, and asking her out is not nearly on that list- she should understand (especially considering she sent you that song). I would seriously reach out and get in touch with her somehow and just start casual contact again (of course preferable in person). EDIT: Ok I realize that I automatically assumed that she doesn't like you in a boyfriend sense. Well just to jump off of that and your post: On January 28 2009 07:08 sMi.Days wrote: will I ever get to know if she likes me? should i ask if her if she had feelings for me? i doubt she did bro, seriously i am quite sure i made it clear i wanted to hang out with her, and she said no she had stuff to do. I questioned this too. Of course its important to know whether or not she loved/loves you, just because. I really thought about this a lot especially considering how when she said no she sounded really sincere and was practically crying for me. My resolution, aided by what other people told me, is that she didn't. Still, I overanalyzed the shit out of it. Really, though, the main reason to know is whether its still possible to go out with her. I just accepted that it's not going to happen and moved on, so it really became irrelevant to me after a while. But NO, don't ask her if she had feelings for you, not now at least. Give it a long while for it to all simmer down and for it to just be another thing to laugh about. She probably feels extremely uncomfortable at the moment talking about it. Personally, I have never asked the girl whether she liked me but have told her exactly how I felt and currently feel. | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
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Xeris
Iran17695 Posts
most girls think that a person who relies on IM and text messaging or w/e to do things like ask them out are really bad... so in the future make sure you do all this kinda stuff in person, makes you seem a lot more incontrol of yourself, etc. | ||
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sMi.Days
United States29 Posts
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
On January 28 2009 13:19 sMi.Days wrote: Meh I think i'm just going to move on, not going to linger around waiting to see what happens. Good idea. | ||
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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BanZu
United States3329 Posts
On January 28 2009 17:07 il0seonpurpose wrote: So no more texting her? That makes it even weirder between you two doesnt it? I think he means just staying as friends | ||
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decafchicken
United States20169 Posts
On January 26 2009 14:42 sMi.Days wrote: im pretty sure i made it clear i liked her and wanted to go out with her.... she just wasnt in to me bro Bullshit, she definitely wanted your nuts. You just fucked up and/or got screwed. | ||
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EsX_Raptor
United States2802 Posts
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