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On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote:
... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting.
I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it.
OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question.
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On January 23 2009 14:02 jwd241224 wrote:
Wait...you say "I love you" but you've never been on a date before?
WTF is going on with kids these days....?
He's saying "I love you" in the same way you would say "I love you" to MoC or R1CH after they release an AWESOME SC add-on or something. I think :O
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have you asked her out yet?
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Dude she wants you!!!! she just had plans thats all...
tip #1... DONT STOP TEXTIN HER FAG!
tip #2... Be cool about it and ask her out again not desperately (kinda like you're a busy guy but u'd stop doin watever ur doin for her because u like her)
tip#3 Dont stop textin.. but dont text too much cuz then u wont have anythin to talk about when u go out on a date!
so has anythin happened?
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United States22883 Posts
On January 23 2009 23:52 Varn wrote:Show nested quote +On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote:
... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting. I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it. OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question.
Voice, eye contact and the things you say aren't planned as well like you said. It makes things more clumsy, but it's more natural as well.
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On January 24 2009 03:19 Jibba wrote:+ Show Spoiler +On January 23 2009 23:52 Varn wrote:Show nested quote +On January 23 2009 14:25 il0seonpurpose wrote:
... Also talk to her in a more human way, actually call her and stuff, not just facebook and texting. I've never understood this view. How are written words somehow less human than spoken words? Both are expressions of a human's thought, are they not? I would say, unless you're throwing out slang-drenched one-liners all the time (which I'm sure many people do), that communicating through writing is much more human than speaking, as there is much more time and thought behind it. OP: She baked you fucking cookies...seriously this isn't even a question. Voice, eye contact and the things you say aren't planned as well like you said. It makes things more clumsy, but it's more natural as well.
True. I'm incredibly inarticulate when I speak though (clumsy is too lenient), at least about things that I've thought about a lot, so I prefer the clarity of writing if I have something important to say or discuss. Emotionally vacant, I know, although sometimes something actually comes out right when I'm hanging out with someone, but generally those situations only arise with girls I know aren't interested in me whom I feel I can speak openly with. Anyway, I guess it depends on what you're going for, communication or emotion.
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United States22883 Posts
I agree. Although I've found when it's something important, I can do way more wooing in person.
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Lucky you. 
Maybe I'll pick up the skill someday.
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Ask her out again. And watch the feminine mind games begin.
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On January 23 2009 13:54 sMi.Days wrote:
Well im sure you guys are bored already with all these girl problems that are posted, so i'm going to be quick. Basically i'm getting it on with this girl pretty good, were texting pretty much every day we mutually say we love each other in that cute way you know, and then we flirt when were in school. so then its our last day in the same class together and she makes me cookies lol yea pretty silly, but anyways this kind of made me grow the balls to ask her out, which I did but she said she had plans already, which was the truth because over the weekend she went to this jewish camp.
Now my question is should I be persistent and ask her out again this weekend or should I wait a little, mind you we havent texted since I asked her out, weve only been chatting through facebook.
rofl:D
go for it she likes you
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cmon its not that hard, go for it
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have you called her yet, asshole?
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Netherlands19135 Posts
Texting and w/e is great to break the ice and get a general inclination of someones interests/feelings. It's a good way to feel more comfortable around someone but always:
*always*
Seal the deal in person by asking someone out and have a good time. There's no beating laughing and smiling to gether and sharing those awkward moments. 80% of human communication is non verbal but bodylanguage and someone asks hows texts are inferior to words and being there in person?
Ask her out, be interested in her and how her camp was, ask questions and let her talk while you take her coat, hold the door, order drinks for her and yourself after asking what she wants. This gets her more comfortable with you and you don't get yourself into trouble by saying stupid shit if you're not a smoothe talker (like me ^^).
gl hf 
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Belgium8305 Posts
a jew camp..
i don't think she's coming back dude
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Netherlands19135 Posts
Hahaha I passed up on that one when it came to mind CoW but as always theres someone who does hit it out of the ballpark haha.
Miracle it took over 3 pages to get there ^^
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On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote:
a jew camp..
i don't think she's coming back dude
What the fuck
I dont know whether to laugh my ass off, or be serious, but the moment I read that I was laughing pretty badly
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On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote:
a jew camp..
i don't think she's coming back dude
#1 poster
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Well guys I asked her out again, and again she said she went to a jewish camp which she did.... but she came back with a little surprise. she's got a boyfriend. her facebook status just changed from single to being in a relationship. all i gotta say is fuck life LMFAO 
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I was gonna call it. Talking over facebook is pretty impersonal because everyone does it. I thought the cookie thing was a good thing though.
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On January 25 2009 00:31 vGl-CoW wrote:
a jew camp..
i don't think she's coming back dude
LMAOOOOOO
To the op, please give us updates!!
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