EPTWeird kid sit's with me - Page 4
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QuanticHawk
United States32154 Posts
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DarkRidley6
United States24 Posts
1) get to know him and let him join in your group, from the sound of it he seems pretty lonely and if your group is the closest thing he has to friends he probably is. just get to know him, you may find that he is pretty cool, and everyone is happy 2) let him sit at the table (you probably cant really do anything about that), but don't engage him, if his presence doesn't actually bother you then just ignore him, as for your rule of the first to come is the first to play, you can interpret it so that it only applies to your group of friends, i mean you wouldn't let the school bully(if you have a school bully) play just because they got there first would you? 3) if you have the possibility, move elsewhere to a location that he cannot join you, at my school we had an outside area where only Seniors could go and eat, if you have something similar just go there, or move to a different location where he wont be able to find and follow you to easily, if he does find and follow you, move again one or two more times, if he continues you will have to find another solution 4) you can confront him, let him know that you don't really know him, don't consider him as a member of your group of friends and would like him to go elsewhere during lunch, you can tell him this in one of two ways: give it to him easy so as not to hurt his feelings as much, or be blunt telling him to fuck off if it were me i would probably go with number 2, as its easy and doesn't require any confrontation or effort, and if he isn't bothering you then just leave him be, but one of these options should work, its just a matter of picking the one that fits the specific situation (if you want to let him join or not, how much he bothers you, how bad you will feel for telling him to fuck off, etc) | ||
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o3.power91
Bahrain5288 Posts
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avilo
United States4100 Posts
a) does not have many friends, if any b) may have had a lot of friends in the past, but has forgotten how to make new ones c) may just not know how to make friends, and is doing the best he can d) he has aspergers syndrome, and probably doesn't even know it e) he has few close friends that are on a different lunch shift or whatever, and sits with you guys for security, did he know you in the past at all, even your names? or is it really a complete "stranger" he's not causing you any harm, maybe get to know him some, or just continue to ignore him, though that is already what you've been doing it seems (not saying it's good or bad). I'd go with the "nice positive option," as this guy won't come back as some school shooter 3 yrs later or some shit. Hell, maybe you'll change his life. | ||
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Krohm
Canada1857 Posts
He just sounds like he doesn't know how to make new friends, I'd really say talk to him and get to know him. Then if you actually get to know him, and you still don't like him. Just tell him to go away or something. | ||
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nAi.PrOtOsS
Canada784 Posts
Which may seem pretty cool to you guys, but it really is not. | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
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Jonoman92
United States9110 Posts
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nAi.PrOtOsS
Canada784 Posts
On October 29 2008 06:29 Jonoman92 wrote: Lol your description completely matches up with a kid at my school. Over the years I've had math classes with him a few times and he always shouts something out, often times incoherent and mumbled, even if he's wrong and has no clue... Yea like he is such a teachers pet that he doesn't even think when he answers questions, he just imedietly puts up his hand and then pulls shit out of his ass. | ||
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d1v
Sweden868 Posts
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kefkalives
Australia1272 Posts
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nAi.PrOtOsS
Canada784 Posts
On October 29 2008 08:25 kefkalives wrote: hearts is without doubt one of my favored card game. I remember playing that for a whole winter with 3 other dudes at school, shooting the moon resulted in people wooping and shouting, tonnes of emotion :> yea Lol, It's always funny when someone shoots the moon first hand and then loses the game, OR gets stopped in shooting the moon and takes 25 points HAHA. Have you ever seen someone shoot the sun? (Take ALL tricks) | ||
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Durak
Canada3685 Posts
On October 29 2008 09:59 nAi.PrOtOsS wrote: yea Lol, It's always funny when someone shoots the moon first hand and then loses the game, OR gets stopped in shooting the moon and takes 25 points HAHA. Have you ever seen someone shoot the sun? (Take ALL tricks) The game is really boring once you're all masters at it. Play bridge. | ||
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kefkalives
Australia1272 Posts
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artofmagic
United States1951 Posts
On October 29 2008 06:44 nAi.PrOtOsS wrote: Yea like he is such a teachers pet that he doesn't even think when he answers questions, he just imedietly puts up his hand and then pulls shit out of his ass. hahaha. wow i willbe laughing everyday at class. | ||
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yubee
United States3826 Posts
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
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nAi.PrOtOsS
Canada784 Posts
On October 30 2008 03:40 Mastermind wrote: Well, you could try doing something more exciting during your lunch break then playing cards. lol. I would have gone crazy if thats how I spent my lunch hour in high school. Just tell all of your friends wha you will be doing instead and when he shows up to play cards no one will be there. Somtimes we Study  OO also we have competitions such as who can memorize all the elements on the periodic table, their order, there symbol, and there atomic mass Also sometimes we make up challenging questions related to either chemistry or physics and ask each other them | ||
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DwmC_Foefen
Belgium2186 Posts
On October 28 2008 22:39 G.s)NarutO wrote: Punch him in his face-_- KICK HIM IN THE NUTS !!! No seriously, depends... If he talks shit to you or your friends tell him to fuck off, if he's a nice open fellow that's chatting everyone up keep him If you just want to get rid of him, tell him :oHe'll feel bad but he"ll respect it | ||
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Siefu
Australia205 Posts
Alternatively you can just avoid this whole situation by not letting the opportunity for him to join present itself. You could always move, or close the group off. This kinda happened to me at graduation breakfast, where this kid no one really liked (cause he pissed his pants in like year 8 and is just a retard in general) randomly sat down with us. When we got up to get our breakfast we got someone to take his spot so he couldn't sit with us, thus he attached himself to another group, like a parasite. I know its pretty mean but at least you don't have to crush him by telling him to fuck off. | ||
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