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Asking for some wisdom (sort of emo rant)
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nimysa
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
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Xeofreestyler
Belgium6787 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:34 Mastermind wrote: you need to learn to develop a 'who gives a fuck' attitude +get some self-confidence and start kicking some ass | ||
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:34 Mastermind wrote: you need to learn to develop a 'who gives a fuck' attitude Agreed, i'm trying but its extremely hard because of the way I have been raised and how I have been wired. | ||
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SiegeTanksandBlueGoo
China685 Posts
Seriously though, go find a companion. | ||
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stanley_
United States816 Posts
REMEMBER OTHER PEOPLE HAVE IT WORSE. ARE YOU DYING YET? ARE YOU SUFFERING THAT MUCH? More than likely people around the world would kill 10 people and a puppy to be in your position. You live in the united states, stop complaining. | ||
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:46 stanley_ wrote: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLG9DheSh-c REMEMBER OTHER PEOPLE HAVE IT WORSE. ARE YOU DYING YET? ARE YOU SUFFERING THAT MUCH? More than likely people around the world would kill 10 people and a puppy to be in your position. You live in the united states, stop complaining. Ah yes, I know so much and could know so much about people halfway from my part of the world in completely different circumstances, not to mention that they're a completely different people, people I can't relate to or know much about or even know. How am I supposed to help myself when I am concerning myself with what other people have, don't have, and can do? Isn't that what you're not supposed to do? | ||
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stanley_
United States816 Posts
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:56 stanley_ wrote: Then traveling is your solution. You missed my point. | ||
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Wysp
Canada2299 Posts
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
reality has only one course, why resent it you weak Apollonian Do you guys have any helpful rational emphatic advice other then the generic pubescent Testosterone-driven-manly culture garbage that you absorb from lurking and posting in too many threads about  Reach? | ||
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Ack1027
United States7873 Posts
Trust in your own self identity or person. As for the getting through hard times like you described: Music, close friends/family, *some* time alone, crying, and fresh air. Sometimes though music and time alone either don't work or work negatively. Close friends/family is what I would suggest in most dire times. | ||
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
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Folca
2235 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:40 nimysa wrote: Agreed, i'm trying but its extremely hard because of the way I have been raised and how I have been wired. It helped me through a lot, it should help you too | ||
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stanley_
United States816 Posts
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prOxi.swAMi
Australia3091 Posts
When the going gets tough, the tough get going. | ||
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
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OllieWilliams
United States69 Posts
On September 29 2008 08:46 stanley_ wrote: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLG9DheSh-c REMEMBER OTHER PEOPLE HAVE IT WORSE. ARE YOU DYING YET? ARE YOU SUFFERING THAT MUCH? More than likely people around the world would kill 10 people and a puppy to be in your position. You live in the united states, stop complaining. Everyone's problems are relative... If you break your arm you're not going to be worrying about some guy that has no arms. Maybe you can say that to your family when they say other people are in a worse situation, OP. | ||
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Sadist
United States7328 Posts
You arent smarter than everyone, or different than everyone, everybody has problems. Stop bitching and start doing something about it. ( not shooting up a school....) If not you will end up a bitter asshole | ||
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StarN
United States2587 Posts
How old are you? Are you somewhere between the ages of 13-20? If so, then you should realize that a lot of people go through what you're going through right now. You've reached an age where you're switching from being a kid who is pampered all the time he gets down (i.e. baby cries, parent does their best to make you feel better) and you're becoming an adult who needs to fend for himself. You're not a baby anymore, you're an adult so you should learn to be able to stand on your own two feet and not have to rely on outside things to determine your emotions. You're old enough to understand that all people choose their emotions, this was strongly supported by Viktor Frankl who was found that even during his time in a Concentration Camp during the Holocaust one could choose to be happy as long as he had faith in the future. I don't know your situation, but if you really are from the USA then chances are your situation is probably way better than 90% of the world. And you should just start seeing things in a more positive light. | ||
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