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[Q] a woman that i met

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saltywaffles
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States91 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-09-07 00:40:40
September 02 2008 06:51 GMT
#1
so the other night i met a girl at lunch at my college and we started talking and we got to know each other fairly well. We talked for like 2 hours then she gave me her msn and we traded #'s and then we went back to our own dorm rooms. Then she got on cam on msn and she showed me her dances and all that. And yes she danced with clothes on. Then after she got off msn she called me and asked me if i wanted to come by her room tomorrow around 5pm so she can show me some "new dance moves she learned". I told her yea sure i would probably call her then come over after. Now the question i have is, does she really want to show me some new dance moves or is it something else? If i go over i dont want to seduce her because im beginning to like her, and i think that if we have sex things will be different. Or maybe idk wtf i'm talking about. Post your opinions if you want but at least keep them on topic and give me some real advice.
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Part 2:
I just wanted to let you all know that i have been reading all of your comments. Some of them are really helpful, and some of them are just plain random. The majority of you think she wants "me to be balls-deep in her salivating vagina."
Anyways in 6 hours i will be in her dorm room. And after tonight i will tell you all what happened. Just because you all think we're are going to have sex, i hope all she does is show me her new dance moves.
Oh and i wanted to tell you all that she sent me a text earlier today and told me that i give her butterflies every time i talk to her. I just thought i would throw that in.
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Part 3:
Ok so i just got back from her dorm room. Now i got there around 5pm and got done at about 8:30 ish. When i got in there it looked like she had cleaned the place and even got us some dinner. I told her she didnt have to get dinner but it was nice of her. We ate dinner (chinese), and we watched a movie she had, it was Saw 4 (one of my favorites). While we watched the movie she was making weird faces because it was too gory for her tastes. Near the middle of the movie she grabbed my arm and squeezed tight because she was scared. So, being the gentleman i am, i put my arm around her and told her it's ok you can hold onto me if it makes you feel any better. This made her happy so she scooted closer to me and i put my arm around her. Then right after we got into this position she turned off the movie because she was too disgusted. I of course lol'd at her and teased her for a minute. When i teased her she would be like "shut up" in a flirty kinda voice. Then it got quiet, you know that kinda quiet where you just look at eachother and you know you want something to happen? yea that kinda quiet. Then i moved in closer to her and i put my hand on her cheek and I went in for the kiss. When our lips met it was magical! imo it was something like a fairy tell kiss. For like 10 mins we madeout sitting up then eventually she pushed me on my back and continued to make out with me cept now she is on top. We continue like this for maybe another 5-10 mins, idk i lost track of time. Then all of a sudden she stops and says i can't do this, i don't want to go any farther then this. Now I am in shock, but i smile anyways and tell her "it's ok, i didn't plan to come here and have sex with you." This made her smile and she kissed me once more. Then i started asking her questions about her past bf's, what she looks for in a guy, and just what her personality is like. We talked until about 8:20, then we madeout again to my amazement. Then i told her i got to get back to my dorm room i have too much homework due tomorrow for class. Of course she was sad but asked me if i wanted to come over again tomorrow and i was like yea sure of course i would love to come over again. Then we walked to the door together and i kissed her goodnight and told her i had a really great time tonight and she agreed with me. Then i asked her if she wanted to go to dinner with me tomorrow night. She excitedly said yes and i told her ill come get her after my class is over and we'll go out. So overall, I had a great night with her. OH AND SHE DIDNT EVEN SHOW ME THE NEW DANCE MOVES! i just remembered that lol. Tomorrow night at her place i will ask her to show me them and i will find a video on youtube that resembles what she showed me. I think after a couple more nights with her i am going to ask her to be my gf. + Show Spoiler +
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Update #4:
So i just realized that i have not updated you all on what has happened since that night. As in the past, we have been talking A LOT! it feels like we have gotten to know everything about each other and we still are happy being around each other. sometimes it is hard to hang out because of our schedules but we do what we can. I took her out to dinner the other night and we had one of those deep conversations. I totally scored a lot of brownie points with her. And she even said every time she is with me she cant stop smiling. Then she told me how she feels about me and all that good stuff, so i replied with some cheesy things that i feel about her. THEN I POPPED THE QUESTION, "yo, you wanna be my gf?" She put down her fork and just looked at me. At this point i was getting really red because if she said no, what would i do, and if she said yes, what would i do lol. Lucky for me, she was like yes i would love too. I was like ooo yay who's the man!? of course that made me look bad but it made her laugh so who cares lol. After she was like hey lets go to my place. So we did, and ill leave this update with... it was like warm apple pie.
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Update #5:
Its been awhile since i posted stuff about my new relationship, so i thought tonight i would do it. Like any relationship in the beginning its been going nice. We are learning stuff about each other all the time. Also from what i can tell we aren't like all clingy and always wanting to spend 24/7 with each other. like we know that we need space sometimes and hang out with our own friends, and we both respect that. Oh, and i wanted to tell you all why i haven't got laid yet. The reason that i haven't scored yet is because she wants to wait. She says either marriage or most likely wait for the perfect guy to come along and make it special. And i totally respect that, thats what i told her. Of course we do other things if you know what i mean...She just doesn't want to feel like a slut, thats why she wants to wait. I dont understand either so dont make fun of it please. But a problem did come up in our relationship...in a couple of years we have to go to different schools to finish our education. I thinks he has to go to Michigan or some shit and I have to go to Seattle. The reason i have to go to Seattle is because of the scholarship i have. The scholarship that i have requires me to go to the school that they want me too, but they cover everything. She doesnt want to go to Seattle because she doesn't like their medical field as much as Michigan's. So even if we last that long, what happens when we have to go to different school? I dont want to think about it right now but it comes up in my mind everytime i see her now. Oh well, post your opinions on whats happened so far

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stanley_
Profile Blog Joined December 2007
United States816 Posts
September 02 2008 06:55 GMT
#2
what difference does it make? Bring a condom.
hoorah
paper
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
13196 Posts
September 02 2008 06:55 GMT
#3
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Poll:
(Vote): new dance moves
(Vote): sex
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saltywaffles
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States91 Posts
September 02 2008 07:01 GMT
#4
Oh cmon guys, nobody actually thinks that she only wants to show me dance moves?
indecision
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Germany818 Posts
September 02 2008 07:07 GMT
#5
nah, there's no way :>
saltywaffles
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States91 Posts
September 02 2008 07:10 GMT
#6
On September 02 2008 16:07 indecision wrote:
nah, there's no way :>


no way what?
terranmetal
Profile Joined May 2007
Canada153 Posts
September 02 2008 07:10 GMT
#7
lmao you can turn this situation sexual REAL FAST....there is no other way, she wants it, you are just prolonging it by going into a "relationship".
I play on BW west.
saltywaffles
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States91 Posts
September 02 2008 07:12 GMT
#8
On September 02 2008 16:10 terranmetal wrote:
lmao you can turn this situation sexual REAL FAST....there is no other way, she wants it, you are just prolonging it by going into a "relationship".


Well i prefer to get into a relationship and have sex with someone that i know and care for then some random one night stand with some slut whos name i dont even know
ChaoSbringer
Profile Blog Joined April 2008
Australia1382 Posts
September 02 2008 07:12 GMT
#9
It's a trap to have her BF jump you and steal your wallet + mobile phone when you get into/near her room.
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
September 02 2008 07:15 GMT
#10
So you like this girl, and it isn't because you want to have sex with her?
Rayzorblade
Profile Blog Joined September 2004
United States1172 Posts
September 02 2008 07:15 GMT
#11
It's obvious that she PROBABLY just wants you to be balls-deep in her salivating vagina
saltywaffles
Profile Blog Joined September 2007
United States91 Posts
September 02 2008 07:17 GMT
#12
On September 02 2008 16:15 travis wrote:
So you like this girl, and it isn't because you want to have sex with her?


No i like this girl because we have a lot in common and she wasn't like all the other girls at my college imo
fight_or_flight
Profile Blog Joined June 2007
United States3988 Posts
September 02 2008 07:19 GMT
#13
Keep us updated on what happens.
Do you really want chat rooms?
shavingcream66
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
United States1219 Posts
September 02 2008 07:19 GMT
#14
i sense a trap
Xiberia
Profile Joined September 2007
Sweden634 Posts
September 02 2008 07:57 GMT
#15
I think she just likes to dance.
luiohh
Profile Joined February 2008
Bangladesh78 Posts
September 02 2008 08:01 GMT
#16
On September 02 2008 15:55 paper wrote:
[image loading]

Poll:
(Vote): new dance moves
(Vote): sex


one more option plz..."it's a trap"
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
September 02 2008 08:02 GMT
#17
On September 02 2008 16:17 saltywaffles wrote:
Show nested quote +
On September 02 2008 16:15 travis wrote:
So you like this girl, and it isn't because you want to have sex with her?


No i like this girl because we have a lot in common and she wasn't like all the other girls at my college imo



well good luck with it not being weird, then
avilo
Profile Blog Joined November 2007
United States4100 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-09-02 08:05:55
September 02 2008 08:02 GMT
#18
ok, you like this girl cause she's "not like the other girls at your college." But guess what? She IS like all the other girls at your college in that she wants to be fucked, and by YOU, so GL soldier.

The relationship can come afterwards lol! If you "don't seduce her cause ur beginning to like her" this isn't gonna fucking go anywhere (from her point of view maybe). You need to seduce her and just go along with how things go tomorrow.

You realize why nice guys like you (and I) sometimes lose the girl we like? Cause even tho girls do love us, they don't want that pansy shit, lol it's almost like you're purposely trying to put yourself into the "let's just be friends zone..."

So yeh...if you don't want her ending up with some jackass, I'd go "learn those dance mooves!"

Also, keep in mind all of what you're going through is in the context of the beginning of the school year.

This is the time, especially for freshmen, when they first start meeting new friends/people in college and forming all those connections, so you already have the hard parts done, now this girl is basically spoon feeding you her vagina, and you're trying to tell us, "no, I just want peas and potatoes."

So um yeh, just go over, see what happens. You'd rather end up with this girl than someone else right? You can escalate whatever happens from whatever happens tomorrow, whether it's relationship- wise or sex-wise.
Sup
Jizz
Profile Blog Joined August 2008
Australia224 Posts
September 02 2008 08:05 GMT
#19
horizontal dance moves maybe
I made this account before i knew what the name meant. I just thought it sounded coooool
Deleted User 3420
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
24492 Posts
September 02 2008 08:06 GMT
#20
On September 02 2008 17:02 avilo wrote:
ok, you like this girl cause she's "not like the other girls at your college." But guess what? She IS like all the other girls at your college in that she wants to be fucked, and by YOU, so GL soldier.

The relationship can come afterwards lol! If you "don't seduce her cause ur beginning to like her" this isn't gonna fucking go anywhere. You need to seduce her and just go along with how things go tomorrow.

You realize why nice guys like you (and I) sometimes lose the girl we like? Cause even tho girls do love us, they don't want that pansy shit, lol it's almost like you're purposely trying to put yourself into the "let's just be friends zone..."

So yeh...if you don't want her ending up with some jackass, I'd go "learn those dance mooves!"


This is all fine and dandy if you believe starting a relationship off with sex is at all healthy.

Not trying to be judgemental of people who do that sort of thing. just my 2 cents.

your post is pretty good though.
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