Just forget about them, don't try to fight anyone. The guy who hit someone's car is just trying to stir trouble when he was the one who was solely responsible and he is a fucking douche.

imo I don't see the need to apologize to the woman. Remember she was consensual as well. Did they break up over this incident? They had another issue if they broke up last month.

If you do get into a fight, what will you get out of it?
will you get your friend of a douche back?
a medical bill?

iSCOUT4u

United States327 Posts

August 14 2008 11:34 GMT

Maybe don't sleep with somone that has a bf? Easy way to avoid this drama...ppl that cheat are dumb...ppl that get in the middle of a relationship...aren't that smart either. (Wether they had problems or not)...she's obv a sl*t.

I know you said she ment nothing to u...so it doesn't matter much...but when ppl like u are sleeping with a girl who is already with someone (the girl is cheating) then what do u think that girl is gona do if she gets with u? ....she would cheat on u as well...

To the point. Be a man. You did something stupid...and this guy is gona try and beat ur ass...don't let him.

Agavond

448 Posts

August 14 2008 13:14 GMT

It's stupid to fight for stupid girls and stupid situations like this. I hope you don't fight for the sole purpose of defending some reputation you have. If the guys ask you just admit it and ignore him if he wants to fight. Besides the consequences of getting jailed and/or having to pay for a hospital bill is not worth defending any reputation. The girl is a hooch that is not worth it, so just relax and ignore the situation.

BluzMan

Russian Federation4235 Posts

August 14 2008 13:28 GMT

First, hit the guy who is bitching in the groan and make him piss blood. Based on what he's done, his genes are not preferred to carry over to the next generation. There's your cause, make the world a better place.

Then, if you have any problems with the second guy with whose gf you slept, hit him in the throat and stomach and make him vomit his innards. He's a loser if his gf is sleeping with random people, and he's a double loser if he thinks those people are somehow responsible. Losers that harass you deserve a beating, there's your cause again.

Seriously, you don't need to get afraid when you've done nothing wrong, just hit them first silently when they come yelling at you like all pussies do. Sleeping with a girl whose boyfriend you don't even know doesn't place any considerable guilt on you (you're not Jesus), and letting a guy know that some motherfucker hit his car and ran away is not a bad deed either.

Scorpion

United States1974 Posts

August 14 2008 14:17 GMT

I was in the same situation somewhat, just that I was JUST talking with my friend's girlfriend before they were going out and it was so random that they went out anyways, but, she seem to have been torn between me and him and he found out so he wanted to fight me.

I tried to use words to cool him but I ended up fighting him anyways, it ended up being a short fight in front of some store(the thing I didn't want to do... fight in public T-T) and it ended pretty fast. It was me trying to headlock him the entire time because I totally didn't feel like fighting because I didn't feel like I was wronged, just that the stupid bitch still had feelings for me, even while going out with another dude(why the fuck did you go out with him anyways ~.~).

Blergh, people can be stupid ._.

Schnake

Germany2819 Posts

August 14 2008 14:19 GMT

#10

Try to avoid a confrontation and let time do the rest. If you have to face him, tell him that it was not your intention of hurting his feelings and point out that you need two people to have sex, indicating that his former gf is to blame. Fighting is not going to bring him is ex back.

If reason doesn't work and you don't want to fight, maybe you can let him hit you once and he is satisfied and leaves you alone.

Always an alternative is to actually get the initiative and confront him and start the fight for yourself in a situation where you are comfortable and can control the settings/surroundings. For instance, you could confront him in a very public and crowded place or close to a police car/station.

Or just tell him that you switched sides and are a butt pirate now and if you meet him, you will conquer his butt. xD

mAKiTO

Colombia4175 Posts

August 14 2008 14:54 GMT

#11

Yeah, mostly the thing is I live in a very redneckish town and I think i know for a fact that 90% of the time this dude is going to want to fight me just because hes mad that I fucked his girl. Which somewhat I can understand so thats why If it comes down to it and I will roll with the guy.

And no they didnt break up bc of this, I guess they broke up for different reasons and he found out supposedly last night so it would be after they broke up

I was just talking to the girl a min a ago and she said the dude might be fucking with him and trying to get me scared or something and doesnt think he told the bf yet, because she hasnt got a call from him going psycho about it, and going by what she said the dude if he knew he would be already be calling her and stuff or even calling me and threating me. so who the fuck knows

InfeSteD

United States4658 Posts

August 14 2008 15:45 GMT

#12

This is an opinion from a non-fighter (I'm straight up a lover dude, I've always been the smallest guy and the baby of the group so everyone has always defended me and I have never had to fought) but I think the one that needs a beating is the guy snitching just for the hell of it... I mean, why would you do that? it doesn't even has to do with me at all nor I dont know u mAkito but ya se me revolvio la sangre.. yo le caeria a coñazos a esa marica.. no tiene q estar diciendo nada de lo q has hecho con la girl.. how does he know in the first place anyways?

I have a similar story that I just found out this past weekend.. my best friend fuckd his '' assistant's girlfriend (aka wife, they live together) at their own house on the couch) She s fine as hell so Im tryin to hit it too.. if something like that ever happened, and the guy found out I wouldnt fight him.. Id avoid him because fighting over a hoe like her isnt worth it.. girls that cheat are putas and arent worth a penny or a fight)

InfeSteD

United States4658 Posts

August 14 2008 15:46 GMT

#13

Nada de man up.. los valientes estan todos en el cementerio man... just pew pew him~ lol

iSCOUT4u

United States327 Posts

August 14 2008 16:11 GMT

#14

I cant believe that dude told u to let him hit u 1 time...wtf. Be a man...if hes trying to fight u...then defend urself. Wtf is wrong with ppl these days. Of course make sure he starts the fight

Are u like smaller than the dude or something and u know he will beat ur ass?

InfeSteD

United States4658 Posts

August 14 2008 16:21 GMT

#15

On August 15 2008 01:11 brad3104 wrote:
I cant believe that dude told u to let him hit u 1 time...wtf. Be a man...if hes trying to fight u...then defend urself. Wtf is wrong with ppl these days. Of course make sure he starts the fight

Are u like smaller than the dude or something and u know he will beat ur ass?

who said that? I missed it lol

ShmotZ

United States581 Posts

August 14 2008 16:22 GMT

#16

On August 14 2008 18:33 mAKiTO wrote:

[04:46] dude who hit the car: hey juan remember how u told john that i hit his car??? well me n red a good friends now and i told him how u slept with his gf while they were dating and boooooyyyy does he wanna whoop your ass haha sorry dude but i guess were even now

Sounds like your buddy here did ya in...

anyways if there is a fight, just get it over with and move on cant do nothing about it, from what you describe its sounds like its a definite yes.

iSCOUT4u

United States327 Posts

August 14 2008 16:31 GMT

#17

On August 14 2008 23:19 Schnake wrote:

If reason doesn't work and you don't want to fight, maybe you can let him hit you once and he is satisfied and leaves you alone.

This dude...

XCetron

5226 Posts

August 14 2008 16:33 GMT

#18

why do you even talk to these people anymore, ignore them from now on. Also if he does confront you then apologize since you cant say youre not at all responsible. Don't fight him tho.

mAKiTO

Colombia4175 Posts

August 14 2008 16:34 GMT

#19

Infes, long time ago he was at my house chilling and it was late at night and I got a text from her saying she wanted to come over, and I think i was in the bathroom or something and he read it and kinda put it together from there. and I know this kid is such a scumbag cheap bastard that I want to fucking knock him the fuck out. I have stopped being friends with this kid a while ago after i found out of his ways. and yeah thats why I kinda dont want to fight because I have nothing to gain as I dont want to be with her or anything I would just be fighting because I have to like defend myself or something lol.

and yeah in Colombia people actually get killed for what I did and maning up good thing Im in the states haha

brad, hes not much bigger hes just fatter than me, but I have heard he is a good fighter but I have never seen him fight, I think it could go either way, he has advantage on me tho which is he was the rage or the like the power to go crazy because hes hurt, while Im the type of person that if Im not emotionally involved I cant fight my best. Im not a bad ass by any means, but I have been in plenty of fights, gave some whopings and took some too so im not really worried too much about it

anyways after talking to the girl for sometime she told me just to shut up and let her deal with it and just if i get ask it never happened. I told her I wanted to man up and tell the truth but she said it was her decision because its her ex- which I guess they were maybe getting back together , and I had nothing to win or lose as compare to her she was in a lose-lose situation. So while I kinda feel like a coward for having to deny everything I think it just might save me some trouble, but trouble I did deserve for fucking a chick with a bf .. anyways she gets back in town today so we'll see what happens , that dude is supposedly so in love with her and so whipped that there is a high chance he will buy whatever storie she tells him over anything