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So, I just got into a fight with my Best friends mum...
Atm I am quite drunk so this post might be edited but heres the gist of it. We went and drank at one of my (best) friends house. It was all good until another of my friends got really drunk and needed to yak. So I took it apon myself to look after him. Took him to the bathrooom and watched over him as he was sick. This is kinda in my nature. Im currently studying medicine becuase this is the kinda stuff I want to get into, looking after people when they are unable to look after themselvevs.
So In comes the problem. My friends mother, whos house we are at, comes into the bathroom and starts ripping into my friend about how fucking useless he is and how he fucking is irresponsible etc. Of course this infuriates me. And I pretty much tell her she is a hearless bitch and she should fuck off (knowing that it is her house, but fucking no-one talks to my friends that way). So after a bit of pissed off arguing, she leaves, and my friend is all like, wtf man, why did you do that, shes going to hate you. And I tell him I just dont give a flying fuck. If someone is going to attack my friend, I will fucking defend him.
So, I just got home, its early in the morning or late at night, however you want to look at it. I think my friends mother is a fucking bitch and hope she dies in a hole. My friend is pissed off at me becuase he knows that he is going to take the heat of what I said to his mum tonight. And another of my friends is sitting there passed out snoring.
Ok so thanks for reading. I just had to vent about this, because I know Im goin to face this later. and I just dont care about my friend's mum's opinion. Like I understand that its her house and its fucking gross, but you do not fucking have a go at my friend when I am around, because it infuriates me and I will put you down (btw one of my best skills is making someone feel bad, so I will not lose this fight if we go at it when sober).
Anyways, post whatver you want. Up your post count if you want. Or offern advice. Im interested in what you have to say TL1!!
EDIT: LOL
Ok, I'll leave that up and wont edit it for the sake of people being able to refer back to it if they want and having a good laugh.
It seems that in my anger last night, I might have exagerrated the facts... A lot.
So a sober recount of what actually happend.
We were drinking. One of my friends got drunk and started throwing up. I decided I would look after him and did. At some point, my friends mother (Not the mother of the one who was throwing up) comes in and starts telling my friend how bloody stupid he is (Which he is, I dont throw up from alcohol consumption because it is stupid, there is no point getting that drunk). However she doesnt stop. She just keeps ripping into him. After a little while I look at her and say "ok" in a kinda 'we get the point' type of manner. She turns to me and says "no, this is just really irresponsible etc." and keeps on going. My friend is just sitting there on the floor in tears. So I stand up, and say "look that is NOT constructive, you are NOT helping here". To which she scowls at me and then leaves.
"And I pretty much tell her she is a hearless bitch and she should fuck off" So ok, this sentence is lol, and requires a bit of exaggeration to make sense.
I did NOT yell at her.
I went over today and said I was sorry about last night, she said it was ok and that we're cool. She said she wasnt angry at me, she was just angry at the fact my friend had gone and thrown up in her bathroom sink (which is fair, id be pretty pissed off as well).
 
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her being wrong does not make you right.
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On July 12 2008 02:05 dinmsab wrote:
BF !=best friend.
I know, But I needed some hook to get you guys to read...
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Snet
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Your friend starts puking in a woman's bathroom, she gets upset and yells at the loser who can't hold his liquor, and you think you're being some righteous defendant friend and she's some "heartless" bitch?
She has every right to yell at him. I'm surprised she didn't kick you out of her house after giving your ass a good beating. Where the hell is this kids dad, letting some drunk tool yell at his wife in her own house?
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lol? "noone talks to my friends like that"
its his mom..i dont care who you are haha you just dont do that :/
now i dont know you but..ill leave there ;'p
DONT DO THAT simple
anger management maybe..or i could scarab your face
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On July 12 2008 02:13 Snet wrote:
Your friend starts puking in a woman's bathroom, she gets upset and yells at the loser who can't hold his liquor, and you think you're being some righteous defendant friend and she's some "heartless" bitch?
She has every right to yell at him. I'm surprised she didn't kick you out of her house after giving your ass a good beating. Where the hell is this kids dad, letting some drunk tool yell at his wife in her own house?
well said..GG
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I totally agree with Snet, you dont talk to people like that.. especially when your in their home. If I was your best friend I would totally punch you in the face for saying that to my mum. Like seriously, she has the right to get pissed.. she pays for his food/internet/housing so she expects better than that.
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Yeah... it was his mom. The lady had every fucking right to yell at him!
She was probably saying the truth as well, If you get so drunk that you are puking that is pretty irresponsible.
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On July 12 2008 02:13 Snet wrote:
She has every right to yell at him. I'm surprised she didn't kick you out of her house after giving your ass a good beating. Where the hell is this kids dad, letting some drunk tool yell at his wife in her own house?
When i was like 9 i once saw one of my fathers employee yelling at my mother when we had a small garden party. He fucked that guy up completely. This guy could have yelled at her out on the street and my father would just walk away, but the fact that this guy yelled at her in our house was unforgivable for my father.
Your story, i don't even know where to start...
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Ok, just to make sure, It wasnt the guy who was throwing up's mum. It was the guys whos place we were at's mum.
And fuck off about that anger management shit. I was with my friend who was in a bad way, he was feeling guilty and embrassed, and some bithc comes in and starts bitching about him yacking in her bathroom?????
Another person yacked in that bathroom tonight, and she didnt give a shit about her.
My friend was REALLY in a bad way, as In I was REALLY conteplating calling the ambulance. I was very thankful that I didnt need to. And all the time she was sitting there bitching. Sure you can be angry that a kid got drunk and yacked in your bathroom, but dont fucking rub it in. Hes feeling bad enough as it is. Absolultely no compassion whatso-fucking-ever
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On July 12 2008 02:27 Fen wrote:
Ok, just to make sure, It wasnt the guy who was throwing up's mum. It was the guys whos place we were at's mum.
And fuck off about that anger management shit. I was with my friend who was in a bad way, he was feeling guilty and embrassed, and some bithc comes in and starts bitching about him yacking in her bathroom?????
Another person yacked in that bathroom tonight, and she didnt give a shit about her.
My friend was REALLY in a bad way, as In I was REALLY conteplating calling the ambulance. I was very thankful that I didnt need to. And all the time she was sitting there bitching. Sure you can be angry that a kid got drunk and yacked in your bathroom, but dont fucking rub it in. Hes feeling bad enough as it is. Absolultely no compassion whatso-fucking-ever
Thats an even better reason to scold someone... She fucking owns the property. If someone came to my place and started to make a mess in my toilet I would totally start yelling at people myself. Hell, you can shoot people if they trespass on your property, yelling at them is nothing.
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On July 12 2008 02:22 Jayson X wrote:Show nested quote +On July 12 2008 02:13 Snet wrote:
She has every right to yell at him. I'm surprised she didn't kick you out of her house after giving your ass a good beating. Where the hell is this kids dad, letting some drunk tool yell at his wife in her own house? When i was like 9 i once saw one of my fathers employee yelling at my mother when we had a small garden party. He fucked that guy up completely. This guy could have yelled at her out on the street and my father would just walk away, but the fact that this guy yelled at her in our house was unforgivable for my father. Your story, i don't even know where to start...
Seriously, you're lucky as shit you didn't get your teeth put down your throat by the kids dad.
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Your friend's mom is right, your friend is a pathetic loser. I fucking hate people who drink so much they vomit. Know your damn limit for Christ sakes. Even drinking just a little under your limit is lame, because then you're lethargic, lazy, and just want to go to sleep, which means you're no fun to be around.
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On July 12 2008 02:32 dinmsab wrote:Show nested quote +On July 12 2008 02:27 Fen wrote:
Ok, just to make sure, It wasnt the guy who was throwing up's mum. It was the guys whos place we were at's mum.
And fuck off about that anger management shit. I was with my friend who was in a bad way, he was feeling guilty and embrassed, and some bithc comes in and starts bitching about him yacking in her bathroom?????
Another person yacked in that bathroom tonight, and she didnt give a shit about her.
My friend was REALLY in a bad way, as In I was REALLY conteplating calling the ambulance. I was very thankful that I didnt need to. And all the time she was sitting there bitching. Sure you can be angry that a kid got drunk and yacked in your bathroom, but dont fucking rub it in. Hes feeling bad enough as it is. Absolultely no compassion whatso-fucking-ever She fucking owns the property. If someone came to my place and started to make a mess in my toilet I would totally start yelling at people myself. Hell, you can shoot people if they trespass on your property, yelling at them is nothing.
Thats why I live in a civilised country,,,
Look heres the deal. Ill defend my friend on principal. Ill aplogise tommorow, because I can understand that it would be frustrating to her. The fact remains that in her lifetime she has DEFINATELY done stupid shit like this, and she should be a little bit more understanding.
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On July 12 2008 02:41 PsycHOTemplar wrote:
Your friend's mom is right, your friend is a pathetic loser. I fucking hate people who drink so much they vomit. Know your damn limit for Christ sakes. Even drinking just a little under your limit is lame, because then you're lethargic, lazy, and just want to go to sleep, which means you're no fun to be around.
...Pathetic loser? shit happens, calm down..
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On July 12 2008 02:41 PsycHOTemplar wrote:
Your friend's mom is right, your friend is a pathetic loser. I fucking hate people who drink so much they vomit. Know your damn limit for Christ sakes. Even drinking just a little under your limit is lame, because then you're lethargic, lazy, and just want to go to sleep, which means you're no fun to be around.
Have you ever vomited because of alcohol consumption?
If yes, then your a hypocrit.
If no, then you dont know what the fuck your talking about
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On July 12 2008 02:27 Fen wrote:
And fuck off about that anger management shit. I was with my friend who was in a bad way, he was feeling guilty and embrassed, and some bithc comes in and starts bitching about him yacking in her bathroom?????
Obviously she's not just "some bithc". First of all, like you said, it's HER bathroom. Secondly, she and this other person evidently have some kind of history - it sounds like they've known and possibly despised each other for quite some time. Is it really your business to impose upon whatever's between them so forcefully?
At any rate, you're hurting one friendship and acting vigilante in another.
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On July 12 2008 02:53 boe_N wrote:Show nested quote +On July 12 2008 02:27 Fen wrote:
And fuck off about that anger management shit. I was with my friend who was in a bad way, he was feeling guilty and embrassed, and some bithc comes in and starts bitching about him yacking in her bathroom?????
Obviously she's not just "some bithc". First of all, like you said, it's HER bathroom. Secondly, she and this other person evidently have some kind of history - it sounds like they've known and possibly despised each other for quite some time. Is it really your business to impose upon whatever's between them so forcefully? At any rate, you're hurting one friendship and acting vigilante in another.
Ill defend my friends because they are simply my friends, regardless if they are in the wrong of right. If they are in the right, ill back em up. If they are in the wrong Ill, try and lessen the blow. My friend was obviously in the wrong tonight, but I think getting put down is not a constructive way to go about things.. (guess I need to add more info... My friend who got drunk has quite low self esteem.) My friend does no make a habit of getting drunk and throwing up at other people's houses. To be exact, Ive hung out with this guy since we started drinkng together (about 4 years). And Ive never seen him yack at someone elses house before. Hes a good guy, and I think what he was recieveing was not what he deserved.
The question in my mind, is what would have happended if I had just stood back and let her rip into him... Im sure that would have been a great experience. He couldnt stand up forhimself, as a mate, ill stand up for him instead,
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