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On July 03 2008 01:44 Yuljan wrote:
Tell her its her decision you wont call her anymore, if she doesnt want to see you. Dont forget to mention how disappointed you are in her and that you misjudged her and dont even know if you want to be friends with her again. If she apologizes and you see her again make your move or stay friends forever.
EDIT : Make sure you pour on loads of guilt..
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Don't try to be "BFFs" with a girl. She'll always mean more to you than you do to her, and you'll end up feeling betrayed. It's bullshit, but that's life. Girls always put all their focus on their boyfriends, because they don't know how to balance their lives, so you really can't be starving for their attention unless you are their boyfriend =P At least, this is my experience. TBH the fact that you're asking TL is scary to me.
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On July 03 2008 01:21 ZZangDreamjOy wrote:
I should explain the main reason why I didn't do anything other then punch him once.
I was afraid if I did anymore, she'd just hate me forever.
Also, the huge size difference.
I'm 6'9'' 280, her boyfriend is 6'0 130.
I would've crushed him. :|
Thanks for the advice guys, I'd go visit her, but no ride, and its a 50 minute walk. Plus she sleeps in until 4 PM usually lol.
I guess I'll just relax, and hope everything turns out fine...
wtf and he punched you first? Kid's got mad balls, no wonder he's tappin that and you aren't.
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lol, Defaf, you're a tard 
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On July 03 2008 02:02 decafchicken wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2008 01:21 ZZangDreamjOy wrote:
I should explain the main reason why I didn't do anything other then punch him once.
I was afraid if I did anymore, she'd just hate me forever.
Also, the huge size difference.
I'm 6'9'' 280, her boyfriend is 6'0 130.
I would've crushed him. :|
Thanks for the advice guys, I'd go visit her, but no ride, and its a 50 minute walk. Plus she sleeps in until 4 PM usually lol.
I guess I'll just relax, and hope everything turns out fine... wtf and he punched you first? Kid's got mad balls, no wonder he's tappin that and you aren't.
ROFL. QFT.
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On July 03 2008 01:21 ZZangDreamjOy wrote:
I should explain the main reason why I didn't do anything other then punch him once.
I was afraid if I did anymore, she'd just hate me forever.
Also, the huge size difference.
I'm 6'9'' 280, her boyfriend is 6'0 130.
I would've crushed him. :|
Thanks for the advice guys, I'd go visit her, but no ride, and its a 50 minute walk. Plus she sleeps in until 4 PM usually lol.
I guess I'll just relax, and hope everything turns out fine...
wtf? You're not Chinese are you?
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On July 03 2008 02:02 decafchicken wrote:Show nested quote +On July 03 2008 01:21 ZZangDreamjOy wrote:
I should explain the main reason why I didn't do anything other then punch him once.
I was afraid if I did anymore, she'd just hate me forever.
Also, the huge size difference.
I'm 6'9'' 280, her boyfriend is 6'0 130.
I would've crushed him. :|
Thanks for the advice guys, I'd go visit her, but no ride, and its a 50 minute walk. Plus she sleeps in until 4 PM usually lol.
I guess I'll just relax, and hope everything turns out fine... wtf and he punched you first? Kid's got mad balls, no wonder he's tappin that and you aren't.
I've never experienced my balls being mad or angry. How does one achieve such a state?
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Apparently by being a dumbass and cheap shotting someone. So manly.
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on a serious note, ignore her
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If you two have been friends for that long, it's not likely that she's just gonna cut you off completely all of a sudden. Just give it some time. She's probably handling the issue of your friendship and what happened that night with her boyfriend right now, and more interaction from you wouldn't help keep the situation calm between them. Her boyfriend means more to her than you likely do, at least in the short term way of emotions, so don't feel put-off if you take a backseat to their issues for a little while - that's just the way relationships work on that side of the fence. Call her again in a few days or so, and if you get an answer, let her set the ground rules as far as what's going on and communication between you two.
In short, just try to be an understanding friend to her rather than rampaging your way around angry, confused, and demanding/manipulating things from her.
The guilt trip that others are suggesting is piss-poor. You don't know why things have happened as they have, and trying to manipulate her like that just makes you look like a passive-aggressive asshole.
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I'd say the best option is to just wait it out.
I'm pretty sure that she'll come back and unblock you and talk to you.
12 years isn't something that someone just throws away for shits unless you're batshit crazy or on drugs.Plus, my girlfriend says she chose me because I made her feel comfortable, so I'd say bullshit to all those who claim that you're too far into the "Friends" territory.
By the way, this boyfriend of hers must be anorexic as hell. I'm 6'1" 155 lbs and skinny as hell but 6'0" 130 lbs?
You're 280 lbs wrestling with a girl and you wonder why she says "Ow"? You obviously don't know how strong you are. Anything you do with a girl could possibly be misconstrued as a bear attack.
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On July 03 2008 02:37 MTF wrote:
In short, be a bitch.
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On July 03 2008 02:35 Holylight wrote:
on a serious note, ignore her
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On July 03 2008 02:45 PsycHOTemplar wrote:
Yay for stereotypical machoman responses of mockery with absolutely no reasoning!
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Yes, basically, ignore her.
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just wait it out buddy haha.
If you feel genuine for her and the time is right, go for it. If no at least try to be your best to be her good friend.
no fear!
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On July 03 2008 02:35 Holylight wrote:
on a serious note, ignore her
i wouldn't ignore my best friend, that's just plain wrong. I don't know why u guys are giving retarded advises.
But I would agree in a sense that you should lay low and give yourself and her soem breathing space for abit.
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Well... update I guess.
I talked with her boyfriend.
Its water under the bridge for me and him.
But she's still REALLY pissed at me.
Even though he started it.
So I'm... I donnou, completely lost.
I have to convince her of something apparrantly, and her birthday is in 5 days. -_-
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Lol man. This situation.
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