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Ok well, yesterday was Canada day. I went with the girl I've liked for years, her boyfriend, and another guy who liked her. lol.
Me and her have been friends for 12 years, nothing bad's happened, etc.
We get to a friends house that night, and me and my friend start doing this "Sumo wrestling", it ends up with me and her on the ground, me tickling her, her hitting me, us both laughing our asses off, as it always does.
Then she says ow, for a reason I don't know.
Second that happens, her boyfriend tackles me and punches me.
I get up, and deck him.
The next 5 minutes were me and him having a verbal war, and I didn't want to do anything farther.
After that he apologized, as did I, and me and the girl hugged a few times, and she said she loved me. Everything would be alright.
I get home, she blocks me on MSN. I try to call her, no answer.
I'm friggin scared to lose my best friend here, and spiral down into the hell that is mass gaming.
Anyone have any ideas?
 
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I think mass gaming is the best choice here really. If she was really a good friend she wouldn't stop talking to you for no reason.
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I guess I should add this.
Me and her have been BEST friends for 12 years, never apart.
And her boyfriend is leaving sometime soon for good basically.
Also, she doesn't want to be with him anymore ~_~
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You are so far in the friend zone you should probably just give up and go with cava's suggestion of mass gaming.
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just send her an e-mail or leave her a message that's like, "why did you block me on msn and stop answering my calls." you get extra points for mentioning how immature and middle schoolish that shit is. oh, and mention that you've been friends for 12years and a "i'm always on your side, you can talk to me about anything" type sort of thing at the end.
you pretty much want her to feel like an idiot for being an idiot, while being awesome.
don't be a pussy plz.
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vaginas don't make any sense at all.
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On July 03 2008 00:43 DeadVessel wrote:
vaginas don't make any sense at all.
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On July 03 2008 00:41 geometryb wrote:
just send her an e-mail or leave her a message that's like, "why did you block me on msn and stop answering my calls." you get extra points for mentioning how immature and middle schoolish that shit is. oh, and mention that you've been friends for 12years and a "i'm always on your side, you can talk to me about anything" type sort of thing at the end.
you pretty much want her to feel like an idiot for being an idiot, while being awesome.
don't be a pussy plz.
what he said was pretty good, And if that fails looks like you got alot of mass gaing and wackin off to do. 
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I'd give things a little bit of time to cool down. Be friendly, but give her space. It sounds like the whole thing was a huge drama fest, everyone having intense feelings and such. Give that time to blow over and I bet things will be fine. Just don't add more drama to the mix.
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How do you know she blocked you?
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Snet
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just relax for a while, you had a fight with her boyfriend she's obviously gonna be a little distant for a while
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You can find out if people block you on msn, its a little technique, but games are always good. Glad you're friendly I'd break his wrist if he tackled me :D
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I should explain the main reason why I didn't do anything other then punch him once.
I was afraid if I did anymore, she'd just hate me forever.
Also, the huge size difference.
I'm 6'9'' 280, her boyfriend is 6'0 130.
I would've crushed him. :|
Thanks for the advice guys, I'd go visit her, but no ride, and its a 50 minute walk. Plus she sleeps in until 4 PM usually lol.
I guess I'll just relax, and hope everything turns out fine...
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On July 03 2008 00:56 nA.Inky wrote:
I'd give things a little bit of time to cool down. Be friendly, but give her space. It sounds like the whole thing was a huge drama fest, everyone having intense feelings and such. Give that time to blow over and I bet things will be fine. Just don't add more drama to the mix.
exactly
wait and see...
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If her BF was the person that actually started the thing (which it appears that he did) then IMO you didn't do anything wrong, I don't see what's wrong with self-defense.
But yeah, some girls are confusing. T_T
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hit her boyfriend repeatedly in the face and generally act like Tarzan (not sure he would do that though), that will get you out of the friend zone asaply my friend
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Do you want to date this girl, or do you just want her to be your friend again? I think if you just wait she'll start talking to you again after a while.
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Tell her its her decision you wont call her anymore, if she doesnt want to see you. Dont forget to mention how disappointed you are in her and that you misjudged her and dont even know if you want to be friends with her again. If she apologizes and you see her again make your move or stay friends forever.
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EPT
