The Secret to a good relationship

On July 02 2008 15:44 QuietIdiot wrote:
I bet you met one of those disney world obsessed girls who believe in Cinderella stories and Snow White destiny. When she meets her first relationship it ends up in a pathetic attempt to attain this fantastic bliss.

Y'know, the types that expect everything they see in one of those lame ass Korean dramas, or expecting absolute positivism from the man. Roll out the red carpet wherever they go, buy them the perfect gift every time, bitching and whining as to "why you haven't called" on the date of your grandmother's funeral, hold off sex till marriage, mistake broodwar for WoW, watch THE NOTEBOOK x 10000 FUCKING TIMES, she asks you to be honest about her and when you do she gets angry, cry over a broken nail, flirt with other guys and call them friends, and when you finally decide to break up with her, she spreads vicious rumors about you and you post a a photoshopped porno pic of her on 4chan and you feel strangely good about yourself afterward.

Seriously though, don't be so cynical, there are many people who work towards a great relationship but it takes way more dedication than people make it out to be. Not all women are overly expectant beings who assume their mate must be another Hercules nor is a man only looking for a woman to give steak/bjs. Sure, you may never find your absolute perfect match, but understanding each other and having the intimate company of another makes up for it. For some people love is like seasons, others like a birds in a nest. We are a diverse species with high variability in personality/relationship traits, no need to skew human sexual relationships entirely under a few scopes.