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Night[Mare
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Mexico4793 Posts
May 25 2008 08:25 GMT
#1
So i have this problem about forgiving someone. You probably know the story; a "friend" of mine started dating my ex, they become bf/gf and then he lied to me about he caring about me and my ex being ok with each other. So we fight one day and i find that he only wanted so because he's sick of her gf bitching about how she misses me and asking if i am doing ok etc etc.

months later my ex and i send some emails and i explain to her why cant we be friends and why i hate his bf. So next day i casually get a email from him telling me that he got "sources" and that he knows why i hate him drama drama, so he says he's sick of me and never wants to talk to me again.

Unfortunately for me he's my classmate. So the situation between him and i is pretty tense, at the point one of my classmates asked me that i should fix things with him for the sake of the rest, because he says this is affecting everyone.

I however, am unable to fix things. I hate this guy sooo much, i just cant forgive him for what he has done. I think that the best course of action is to fix things and get rid of all that stress i have going on with this shit. But i get sooooooo angry even when i just say something to him (which i never do but it happened when he "tried" to talk to me).

i have had second thoughts about forgiving him and just deal and carry on with it but i cant give honest forgiveness. I was terribly backstabed when i found out that all the time he was fucking lying. I mean when we were friends i handed my complete trust and friendship to him and he pays back with this shit? man im soooooooo angry.

what would you do if you were in my shoes?

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Mada_Jiang
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
Australia236 Posts
May 25 2008 08:33 GMT
#2
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mdb
Profile Blog Joined February 2003
Bulgaria4059 Posts
May 25 2008 08:47 GMT
#3
Why do you send e-mails to eachother if you are classmates?
Doctorasul
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Romania1145 Posts
May 25 2008 08:52 GMT
#4
I think Jesus should mind his own business.

About your friend, realize it's a sign of his own insecurity that he felt the need to capitalize on the attraction between the two of them. A secure guy would have more easily rejected the thought for your friendships sake knowing that he can simply find another girl. What he did was weak.
"I believe in Spinoza's god who reveals himself in the harmony of all that exists, but not in a god who concerns himself with the fate and actions of human beings." - Albert Einstein
Quesadilla
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States1814 Posts
May 25 2008 08:58 GMT
#5
Dude is a toolbag, but honestly, so is the girl for indulging in that. It shows where both of their levels of true respect laid. You gotta keep shooting high for more quality relationships both girl and friend-wise, patience and being the example you wish to receive back is always the best way.
Make a lot of friends. Wear good clothes. Drink good beer. Love a nice girl.
JudgeMathis
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
Cuba1286 Posts
May 25 2008 14:29 GMT
#6
I'd probably fought him already. Lol. : - )

But, regardless. Your ex gf, and your "friend" should not be forgiven. They knew what they were doing, and they didn't give a fuck about your feelings. People like that don't deserve your kindness(or forgiveness).
Benching 225 is light weight. Soy Cubano y Boricua!
Krohm
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Canada1857 Posts
May 25 2008 14:37 GMT
#7
You don't need a friend like that. Straight up. I'm 23, and I've tossed aside lots of friends. They come and go. Sometimes you come across people who are really good and stand up people. But that guy, is not one of those. He's not worth forgiving, hes not worth you time.

I probably would have beat him up already as well. Just like JudgeMathis said.
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HighTimes
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Taiwan342 Posts
May 25 2008 14:58 GMT
#8
If that friend was your best friend or smth, go get drunk with him and talk talk while you're drunk enough and you both say sorry lol
If he's just another friend who you only meet in class, forget him whatever...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gvD9G5uDfo
Jibba
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States22883 Posts
Last Edited: 2008-05-25 15:04:58
May 25 2008 15:04 GMT
#9
Quesadilla and the romanian got it. If there's some way to not let it avoid your class, then do that, but don't forgive the guy. It doesn't even sound like he's sincerely apologized or anything and he sounds like an asshole that would never be sincere even if he did apologize.
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ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
May 25 2008 16:18 GMT
#10
On May 25 2008 17:33 Mada_Jiang wrote:
See it as a blessing my friend. Someone who was your friend revealed them selves. It's like having a rotten egg in your basket, and you finally found out which one and discarded it. You don't need friends like that.

In terms of forgiveness, I always believe that we have done so so much wrong to each other and to our God and because of what we did, we put Jesus on the cross. If Jesus and forgive us, so can we forgive those to sin against us.

Peace be with you brother ^.^

jesus fucking CHRIST dude

you need to understand that sometimes it's NOT appropriate to preach about your religion.
it is seriously annoying as hell after a while.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
Night[Mare
Profile Blog Joined December 2004
Mexico4793 Posts
May 25 2008 16:49 GMT
#11
ahrara_ its ok, he was jsut giving his point of view.
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Chef
Profile Blog Joined August 2005
10810 Posts
May 25 2008 17:07 GMT
#12
Check between your legs. Is there anything there?

You're both being huge vaginas. Rip each other out a bit if you have to, then move on. You can co-exist peacefully without being friends, but if he's an alright guy and he's friends with all your other friends, you're just holding a grudge to be a little bitch.

It's hard to give you advice without knowing you, your friend, or the details of your problems with him, but I would say there's two possibilities: he's a piece of shit that no one likes anyway, so you don't have to forgive him, or he's just a regular guy who messed up once (everyone does), and you need to play nice in the sandbox with him Either way, you knew the answer before you made this thread.
LEGEND!! LEGEND!!
ahrara_
Profile Blog Joined February 2008
Afghanistan1715 Posts
May 25 2008 17:27 GMT
#13
I was just annoyed because that's literally all he ever posts. I don't have a problem with his views, but it's like posting in every strategy thread the same advice whatever the situation.
in Afghanistan we have 20% literacy rate
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