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Ok this sounds really wrong and retarded, but my thoughts are sex in shows and movies. You see it in alot of movies now, making love like how sex is suppose to be, alot of kissing, both guy and girl knowing what to do.
But the real question is the post-sex part, you know the guy wouldnt get the girl pregnant so he pulls it out and makes the blanket, bedsheet, or her wet. Do the girls not care feeling it? And it doesnt even seem like he pulls it out, just kinda leaves it to go in.
In other news, I've been reading Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hide, which I have not read (due tomorow). However, I've been thinking about it, the duality of man. Do any of you all act different to other people? There's always alot of hypocrisy, especially in Korean people. There's people that at school that cuss, smoke, skip school, underage driving and drinking. One of my friends does exactly that, he acts all different towards different people. It makes me mad. Which side is real, which is fake? If you act good at places where you're suppose to (church, home) but act all different at school, which one is real?
As I was typing this, I was being a J and H. I play for the church band at the youth group, and I'm like the biggest pervert and struggle with guy stuff.
 
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Pulling out in and of itself is kinda irresponsible (let alone not pulling out without protection, but I think my point isn't too hard to get).
I don't think I show anyone my 'real' side (and to an extent hide it from myself).
+ Show Spoiler +My real self is a 350apm random player who surpasses the entire nation of South Korea.
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On October 19 2007 10:16 micronesia wrote:Pulling out in and of itself is kinda irresponsible (let alone not pulling out without protection, but I think my point isn't too hard to get). I don't think I show anyone my 'real' side (and to an extent hide it from myself). + Show Spoiler +My real self is a 350apm random player who surpasses the entire nation of South Korea.
lmao at the spoiler
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About people that seemingly have two faces:
Though both aspects of their life are "real" to a great extent, the one family-close friends orientated may be the real one, and the other one just a mask to hide excessive sensibility or perhaps even a small amount of introversion. Things can be the other way around though (the facet shown at home being the 'faked' one); the problem with most teenagers is the lack of a defined personality (which is still in the process of forming), or perhaps even periodical identity crisis. Most if not all teenagers do not even realize their own duality.
If this disturbs you, allow time for your friend to grow up (if you think it's worth it).
As for your other personal problem, my opinion is, that even if you're a relatively good Christian, negating your instincts, especially in the hormone-full period of teenage, is not healthy by any means. You cannot keep it all in, eventually it will explode - and since you don't have a life partner yet (a wife, lol), it's only normal that you will try to 'cool' yourself down by any means, most often, the fastest means possible. The thoughts you described, though they differ from person to person, are perfectly normal at this stage in your life.
Learn to deal with them, so you will be able to manage sexual tension, rather than abstinence for a long period followed by an inevitable excess.
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Personality is too complex to easily label anyone. We are full of impulses and through experiences we learn to act on the impulses that best benefit us at whatever situation we are in. It's just conditioning, though it's much more complex than we can imagine.
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People act differently according to the situation. Sometimes i think that i have a split personality or something. Personality like silentlurker said is really complicated and people probably have several personalities at once. For example i took two personality tests at different times and some of the questions overlapped but i answered a different answer not the same. People change according to their mood and environment. Its impossible to truly know someone.
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Yea, it's called being a poser. Kids that do that are annoying as hell. Especially the ones running around trying to be GANGSTAAA while spending mom and dad's money.
I was always under the impression that sex (as in actual penetration) did not occur in movies and television shows (besides the ones where it obviously is happening) merely the illusion of all the.
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hey when i went to my korean church's retreat a few months back, my cabin group was discussing some stuff one night and we all admitted that we watched porn sometimes or regularly. It's not like guys that go to church live up to the perfect christian lifestyle. My pastor said 80% of christian guys struggle with pornography; i knew the number would be high but i was surprised it was that high.
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hmm, oh yeah i kinda feel like i can relate to you iloseonpurpose because I used to be really involved in church a while back and i was still dealing with pornography and stuff. Do you ever feel hella guilty at church playing for the band and sometimes knowing that in the back of your mind you have that kind of stuff you haven't dealt with?
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I can relate to iloseonpurpose too but i left christianity and religion. I asked my pastor and teachers about their views on masturbation too like if its right or wrong.
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yeah, i always used to wonder whether or not masturbation is right or wrong. my pastor said he doesn't think the actual act is wrong, but it's what we think of during the act that makes it wrong.
meh so i guess if you can keep your mind as a blank slate during masturbation it's okay? haha...
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On October 19 2007 23:14 BlueRoyaL wrote:
yeah, i always used to wonder whether or not masturbation is right or wrong. my pastor said he doesn't think the actual act is wrong, but it's what we think of during the act that makes it wrong.
meh so i guess if you can keep your mind as a blank slate during masturbation it's okay? haha...
If you have the muscle power to fap for like three hours.... keeping your mind blank is the ideal compromise.
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I think my balls would explode If I didn't fap for more than 2 weeks. One Day I'll delete all my porn and see how long I can go without doing it.
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