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Klogon
Profile Blog Joined November 2002
MURICA15980 Posts
May 31 2007 13:30 GMT
#21
Hahah nice work mnm
Cpt Obvious
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Germany3073 Posts
May 31 2007 19:22 GMT
#22
If it only were this easy, I'd have gotten some lately.

This is the social equivalent of theorycraft :/
A for effort, E for usefulness.
Nobody ever reads signatures of people like me, do they?
OverTheUnder
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
United States2929 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-05-31 22:00:09
May 31 2007 21:59 GMT
#23
On June 01 2007 04:22 Cpt Obvious wrote:
If it only were this easy, I'd have gotten some lately.

This is the social equivalent of theorycraft :/
A for effort, E for usefulness.


well obviously if you aren't very good looking then you need to lower your expectations of girls:O (look wise)
Honor would be taking it up the ass and curing all diseases, damn how stupid can people get. -baal http://puertoricanbw.ytmnd.com/
Skew
Profile Blog Joined October 2006
United States1019 Posts
June 01 2007 03:16 GMT
#24
On June 01 2007 06:59 OverTheUnder wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 01 2007 04:22 Cpt Obvious wrote:
If it only were this easy, I\'d have gotten some lately.

This is the social equivalent of theorycraft :/
A for effort, E for usefulness.


well obviously if you aren\'t very good looking then you need to lower your expectations of girls:O (look wise)


that couldn\'t be further from the truth. i have many ugly friends (most of them are fat, too) that have cuter girlfriends than ill ever have simply because of their insanely quick personalities and the ability to talk about absolutely nothing and have everyone love every second of it (id trade a fucking arm to do this). these abilities are far more rare and desirable than looks, in this day and age.
OverTheUnder
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
United States2929 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-06-01 10:03:51
June 01 2007 04:00 GMT
#25
On June 01 2007 12:16 Skew wrote:
Show nested quote +
On June 01 2007 06:59 OverTheUnder wrote:
On June 01 2007 04:22 Cpt Obvious wrote:
If it only were this easy, I\'d have gotten some lately.

This is the social equivalent of theorycraft :/
A for effort, E for usefulness.


well obviously if you aren't very good looking then you need to lower your expectations of girls:O (look wise)


that couldn't be further from the truth. i have many ugly friends (most of them are fat, too) that have cuter girlfriends than ill ever have simply because of their insanely quick personalities and the ability to talk about absolutely nothing and have everyone love every second of it (id trade a fucking arm to do this). these abilities are far more rare and desirable than looks, in this day and age.


good for them:D Some guys can get good looking girls with a great personality alone, but that is hardly the majority. Maybe I'm just being shallow, but I know a lot of hot girls that wouldn't go out with an ugly guy even if they had a 10/10 personality. Many people require a "minimum" in both personality and looks;o

edit: I could definitely see girls putting more weight on personality than guys though.
Honor would be taking it up the ass and curing all diseases, damn how stupid can people get. -baal http://puertoricanbw.ytmnd.com/
mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
June 01 2007 05:24 GMT
#26
Those who aren't as physically gifted definitely still have a big chance. As long as they don't sulk with self pity and they enjoy life and are themselves around people, they are likely to have their personalities shine through and attract those who are compatible. In fact, they are more likely to attract compatible people than their more physically gifted counterparts because the attraction isn't as superficial.

But yea, I wouldn't try too hard if i was an ugly guy and I wanted a hot girl and she just isn't attracted to my personality =p.
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Hydrolisko
Profile Blog Joined May 2004
Vanuatu1659 Posts
June 02 2007 15:24 GMT
#27
BAHHGHAGHAGHAHHGAHGHAHGHAGHAHGHAGHA Damn I loved this entry
Stygg
Profile Blog Joined February 2004
Sweden1100 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-06-03 05:14:49
June 03 2007 05:12 GMT
#28
haha, I like this

you're taking pity on tl.net ^_^

guys, this is not a bible, don't read too much into this and wonder where you went wrong if things still fail. the main point still is, be natural, be yourself, play your own assets to the max and don't try to play out a character that you are not. You'll be fine. There is no rule that you should lean into the girl 90% before she's willing to kiss you, lol.

be natural, be yourself. I could say it over and over again a thousand times to pound it into everyone's heads. That's what girls like. play your own assets, not someone else's.

genuinely good post tho mnm
wine is fine but whiskey's quicker
xM(Z
Profile Joined November 2006
Romania5281 Posts
June 05 2007 22:29 GMT
#29
so, a girl just have to wait for a guy to pick her up?
if she wants one guy can't she (you) just go to him and start a conversation?; or she will have better chances just wearing a sumary outfit + some flirtation, innuendoes, tricks and gimmicks....

from your experience and taking in to accout the needs/wants of both parties, in what situation a guy and a girl became friends/lovers more often: when the guy makes the first move or viceversa?
(i realize that the guy usually makes the first move but that is still a valid question).
can you see your self in a situation like that?. would you approach a guy you like? . if not, why wouldn't you do it?
And my fury stands ready. I bring all your plans to nought. My bleak heart beats steady. 'Tis you whom I have sought.
mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
June 06 2007 03:17 GMT
#30
a girl doesn't 'have to' wait for a guy to pick her up.. but more often than not she already will have her hands full with the guys who take action that guys who don't take action come in second. indeed, if she wants a specific guy, she can go talk to him.

ideally the attraction between two people will cause them to gravitate to each other and thus this mutual want to hang out with each other will cause them to spend much time together and technically both parties put in the same amount of effort. luckily, a lot of my experience has been like that.. and these experiences turn out to be the best and more successful ones. the guy usually initiates taking the relationship to the next level though.

i do approach guys i like. i don't wait until i obsess over him from a distance like a lot of guys do. the sparks show in conversation. maybe i do make moves and i don't even notice it. i have a tendency to balance out the guy of interest though. if i see that the guy i am interested in might be interested in me, my interest for him grows to match what seems to be his level of interest in me. if the guy i am interested in doesnt have as much interest in me, my interest in him tends to dwindle. i don't really understand why you would want to go out with someone who doesn't like you.

for many passive guys, i see the trend of the guy taking a humungous interest in a girl and obsessing over it while he watches her from afar. many times the girl doesn't even know of the guy. this imbalance tends to doom the relationship from the start because the passive guy, if he makes a move, ends up looking very needy and desparate and scares the girl away. i keep telling these guys not to think too much, go with the flow. its best to learn how to read situations and let (controlled) feelings drive your actions.
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xM(Z
Profile Joined November 2006
Romania5281 Posts
June 06 2007 05:31 GMT
#31
what you said is fairly decent and common but what about passion?; yes, the persons with a more reasoned attitude toward metting persons of the oposite sex do get their way more often but also the approach becomes routine, mechanized and for one to wait for feedback (or untill they gravitate) from the person they approach is at best neuter. there is no fire, no desire; to just wait for things to happen after some shallow look assessments is pretty dull. or you actively suppress your desire to not look like an obssesed person?
a person can initially reject another, from various reasons which may not include the fact that he does not like you; and from this
if i see that the guy i am interested in might be interested in me, my interest for him grows to match what seems to be his level of interest in me. if the guy i am interested in doesnt have as much interest in me, my interest in him tends to dwindle.

i understood that you quit pretty easy or at least you do not bother much.
i personally prefer a healthy obsession opposed to a quid pro quo friendship/love fling.
And my fury stands ready. I bring all your plans to nought. My bleak heart beats steady. 'Tis you whom I have sought.
mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-06-06 15:02:26
June 06 2007 15:01 GMT
#32
passion is premature when you just meet a person. romantic obsession over someone you don't even know makes no sense.

i dont actively suppress my desires. i actively act upon my desires. the amount of attraction shown by both parties play a big role in the resulting bond between the two. if i am interested in a guy and he shows interest in me, my interest in him grows since i know there is a good possibility of progressing. if im interested in a guy and he shows no interest in me, my interest in him diminishes because i am not as attracted to someone who has no interest in me.

i suppose my liking just adapts well to circumstances.
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xM(Z
Profile Joined November 2006
Romania5281 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-06-06 15:56:43
June 06 2007 15:55 GMT
#33
passion is premature when you just meet a person. romantic obsession over someone you don't even know makes no sense.

that is the diference between a girl and a guy; a girl needs to be swept off her feet (bullshited a little) for the passion to emerge a guy does not; he can have pure passion at first then later after he sees how many needs you have (things that needed to be met) for building that passion he kind of quits, becomes more shallow.
it's like after a guy tells a girl he likes her immediately she needs to know why: is it her looks, her brain, her personality, her body...etc; upon finding out (IF there is a specific trait the guy likes) she tends to ruin it with to much 'attention' (flaunt).
romantic obssesion is the shit when you know where to draw the line.

sometimes is better to try your best then hope for the best. it saves you a lot of remorse.
i suppose my liking just adapts well to circumstances.

did you ever thought of dictate those circumstances?.

also didn't girls suppose to have more elaborate feelings, a recognised intuition, a natural ability to read men (faces); after all that why do you need your passion to be awoken? you have from the start the means to weigh someones worth.

is it that your so called passion is only your vanity and the guy your mirror?.
And my fury stands ready. I bring all your plans to nought. My bleak heart beats steady. 'Tis you whom I have sought.
[IrIs]YellOw
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Sweden91 Posts
June 06 2007 20:13 GMT
#34
Fuck, mnm, you are my fucking hero right now. I have serious probems and I always get nervous when I approach a girl. You're my savior from now on. It's my first week with my girl, so I start out now! Thanks!
ToT)MidiaN(
Profile Blog Joined May 2003
England2183 Posts
June 07 2007 07:29 GMT
#35
"depending on stats" ..... I'm A+ ez going?!
Nothing worth doing is devoid of risk
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32048 Posts
June 07 2007 08:03 GMT
#36
I think mnm could have told you guys anything and half of you would have gone out right away and tried it haha. The advantages of being tl's only girl =x
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CharlieMurphy
Profile Blog Joined March 2006
United States22895 Posts
Last Edited: 2007-08-06 07:22:57
August 06 2007 03:31 GMT
#37
I find this to be hilarious for some reason. Thanks for the read.

PS- I am just curious, How would you rate me on your scales (I can take any negatives, be honest)
..and then I would, ya know, check em'. (Aka SpoR)
decafchicken
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
United States20010 Posts
August 06 2007 08:19 GMT
#38
haha just read this
ugly approach seems like way too much work T_T
how reasonable is it to eat off wood instead of your tummy?
CubEdIn
Profile Blog Joined April 2006
Romania5359 Posts
August 06 2007 08:31 GMT
#39
God you're so right. I hate it when girls just use me for sex and then throw me away like cheap trash. My good looks are killing my social life.


But seriously. I think this is very mean. It's more in the attitude, if you're not seriously ugly that is. At least that's what I noticed around here.
Take me for example (seriously this time): I'm usually a shy individual, and I tend to lean towards long-lasting relationships. But now and then, when I go out with some of my friends, I just feel like acting different for some reason, and just be really impulsive. I don't LIKE meeting girls in clubs but if I feel like it I can just "fake" some of my friends' personalities, and act all confident, make moves, cut corners, etc. And 60% of the time it works ALL the time!

Now I may not do this often, but if there's one thing i know for sure is that looking confident and acting like you know the girl wants you badly (even if she doesn't), maybe even be cocky... works.
Im not a n00b, I just play like one.
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