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Hi guys I'm one of those guys that only stalk on TL !
some background , my IG name is Zavulon , real name misha . I was born raised in England yet my English is abysmal but my Russian is great (makes sense ?) .I play only dota now used to be a gold SC2 and loads of other story games I just wanted to right a blog for fun and to get a different view on whats happened this term (trimester ? )I'll tell you some random stuff I'm overweight , want a GF , currently on an intense excercise regime to lose weight and get a GF and I play too much Dota .
So I came from a posh private school to a less posh private school , I was friends with noone and have a really camp voice and the only one there who plays PC games (kill me now ) then I make friends with a lets call him Jim (quite an amusing character) and he goes on my phone ,sees the wow armory app and I found out he is a closet wow player (I didn't know there was a thing but he is one haha ) . We become friend and I become friends with his GF and voila I am Ron from harry potter in this three way friendship
that's fun (really isn't) . Slowly I become friends with loads of people , now I could have a conversation with about 90 off the 120 in our year and make them laugh , so I get a group of friends which is basically everyone . The second half of that term I slowly manifest (pretty snazzy word) and every week someone usually says "misha you're soo funny !" and I'm like I try . and this slowly happens over and over . Nothing happens more than that with any girls .
Nothing happens over the winter break (right american phrase ?) .
And welcome to now 2 or 3 weeks ? into the term (no that I think about it its semester isn't it ? ) . I am friends with sam and like if I have a 1 on 1 conversation they will usually say I'm funny but definitely laugh . This is my best asset with girls also coincidently . There is a girl lets call her chick , cuz shes cute and fit soo fit . She is Jim's GF BF . My chances I believe are astronomically low with her , but I like being around her so much and we have become such god friends in like 5 days (due to said humour) .The one problem is though I want to be friends with everyone so I don't want to go out with her and then break up in like a month and not be friends . So I leave you form this terrible blog of a 14 year old , do I ask her out the fit girl I'm friends with or try to stay friends longer and make the realtionship firm to the go out with her whilst losing weight to look hot .
I don't want to regret my choices but I really would love to get my first kiss , first girlfriend and just be happy don't care what other people .
should I ask her out now , or become better friends then just ask or just stay as friends and be kind and not taking advantage of our relationship . Please help , I have no girl advice .
Thanks for reading my bad english and just I dunno what to do .
  
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why do you want a girlfriend when you are 14 years old
DEFINITELY continue with the exercise. I have a friend who was also overweight when he was 14 and lost weight gradually over two years and is now much more social as a result. This, along with your studies, is something that you should really focus on.
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On January 25 2014 08:09 Chocolate wrote:
why do you want a girlfriend when you are 14 years old.
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On January 25 2014 08:38 [MD]Frostbite wrote:Show nested quote +On January 25 2014 08:09 Chocolate wrote:
why do you want a girlfriend when you are 14 years old.
Also, she's already attached, don't act on it.
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I was so in love with a girl (let's call her Vicky) in 7th grade (when I was 12), because she was so cute. I knew other guys liked her too, but she didn't have a boyfriend (officially). Even though I was a weakling I would imagine beating up the other boys and stealing her heart. I even imagined her licking my face a few times. One morning she offered me gum and I thought she really liked me. Then her stupid friend who was too bossy and nosy told Vicky in front of the whole class that I liked her because she caught me staring at her in English class. Vicky was like "EWWW" that's when I knew my chances with her were over, and she only gave me gum to be nice not because she liked me. She avoided me for the rest of the year. So it could go both ways with you, you might get a cute girlfriend or she might ignore you forever. Good luck friend
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Hahaha, I loved this bog. Fucking gold.
Fuck bitches get money dude.
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On January 25 2014 08:38 [MD]Frostbite wrote:Show nested quote +On January 25 2014 08:09 Chocolate wrote:
why do you want a girlfriend when you are 14 years old.
When you're 14 aren't girls the only thing you care about?
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On January 25 2014 09:13 speakerbox wrote:
Hahaha, I loved this bog. Fucking gold.
Fuck bitches get money dude.
Pretty much my thoughts/reaction.
glhf yo
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On January 25 2014 09:18 Najda wrote:Show nested quote +On January 25 2014 08:38 [MD]Frostbite wrote:On January 25 2014 08:09 Chocolate wrote:
why do you want a girlfriend when you are 14 years old. When you're 14 aren't girls the only thing you care about?
iirc yeah
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On January 25 2014 09:13 speakerbox wrote:
Fuck bitches get money dude.
User was warned for this post
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On January 25 2014 09:13 speakerbox wrote:
Hahaha, I loved this bog. Fucking gold.
Fuck bitches get money dude.
True say. Then she will be writing a blog about you!
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Ask the girl out. If she says no then brag about it. Confidence at that age will set you above every guy in your class. Just play it off as no big deal. "Yeah I asked her out, but I wasn't worried. She said no, and now I've got more time to hit on other chicks." But if she does turn you down don't get akward about it. Trying to avoid her or interact with her a lot more afterward both give of bad signs. Just remember you are a "badass motherfucker". Never be afraid to ask a girl out, EVER. GG.
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Go for it. You're 14, there will be lots of opportunities for other girls in the future. The experience, successful or not, will be worth it.
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Remember that girls are people too. Don't just date her just cuz you want to have your first kiss. Ask her on a date because you genuinely like her. Check your mindset before acting. Ask yourself this question: Why do you want to date this girl? Also, what can you do for her? Don't just date her because of what she can do for you. 
That's all the advice I have for you.
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On January 25 2014 14:31 [CCSRAM] BaoQuan wrote:Remember that girls are people too. Don't just date her just cuz you want to have your first kiss. Ask her on a date because you genuinely like her. Check your mindset before acting. Ask yourself this question: Why do you want to date this girl? Also, what can you do for her? Don't just date her because of what she can do for you. That's all the advice I have for you.
You've just meta-cognitively deconstructed the phenomena known as TL girl blogs.
Well done sir
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There is no use in hiding feelings to develop a friendship. If you get them out of the way now your friendship will only have more room to grow. Of course this could get complicated but that's what life's about. I spent years trying to avoid complication all the while making life more difficult for myself. You have an opportunity to take a short cut here.
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I would definitely say pursue a different girl at this point. Y'all are 14, they'll break up, one of their hearts will be broken and they'll fuck other people at some other point. It's how highschool works, people are awful to each other for little to no reason except they think that's how they should be. Just give it time, pursue a different girl, and continue your workout routine, make sure you don't overdo it at 14 since you are still growing.
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On January 25 2014 11:45 CecilSunkure wrote:User was warned for this post Cecil's like ... worth it.
This blog did not disappoint! Please continue blogging!
(And practice confidence! Pedestal-izing and self deprecation will get you nowhere later on)
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PLOT TWIST : I got a girlfriend WOOH and we're really good friends she suddenly came on to me , it only took 14 years in the friendzone (knonw her forever) im gonna keep with the diet to be fit oneday .
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