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Hey boners,
this is a girl blog.
I'm currently living - and have lived for half a year - in a student's home.
This means that you get affordable rent in a city in which it would otherwise nigh impossible to live, but it also means that you don't get to chose your flat-mates. Mine are fine, thank god, but herein lies the issue: one of them isn't fine, she's damn fine. She's insanely smart, spends all of her time reading and studying, is simply breathtaking, and her laugh is as cute as a kitten-puppy-kitten-sandwich. Obviously I can't get her out of my fucking head and the past six months have been pretty jarring as a result of that.
You know how they say you're into a girl if you still think about her after having a wank?
Well, I do. I even think about her when I just had sex with someone else, so I know it's not just the fellow downstairs who fancies her. I had sex with four other ladies since I've known her, so it isn't just a case of being into the only girl around.
So here's what I'm thinking about: moving sucks, but I could always ask the students' administration whether or not there is a place in another home. Places are scarce, however, and usually they don't just let you move villi-nillyly. Also, the one I live in now is about a hundred yards from my main lecture hall, so wherever I move, it's a step down.
I only ask this because it's becoming a real problem, I can't quite focus on anything while she's two meters away, I alter my conduct, I avoid going into the kitchen when she's in there, for fear of annoying her and when I even so much as hear her talk to my male flatmate, my tummy feels all sorts of weird.
The dick move would be simply telling her, but for her this place in the home is just as much a blessing at it is for me, so it would be highly inconsiderate making things awkward for her.
Besides, it would only make me feel better and not lead to anything, as in half a year there's no indication she is anything other than politely neutral towards me.
Any suggestions?
 
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Ooooh. I love the disguised girlblogs.
Maybe try flirting a bit to see if shes a bit interested in you? Nothing over the top, just give her compliments out of the blue.
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On October 29 2013 08:28 SixStrings wrote:+ Show Spoiler +Hey boners,
I'm currently living - and have lived for half a year - in a student's home.
This means that you get affordable rent in a city in which it would otherwise nigh impossible to live, but it also means that you don't get to chose your flat-mates. Mine are fine, thank god, but herein lies the issue: one of them isn't fine, she's damn fine. She's insanely smart, spends all of her time reading and studying, is simply breathtaking, and her laugh is as cute as a kitten-puppy-kitten-sandwich. Obviously I can't get her out of my fucking hand and the past six months have been pretty jarring as a result of that.
You know how they say you're into a girl if you still think about her after having a wank?
Well, I do. I even think about her when I just had sex with someone else, so I know it's not just fellow downstairs who fancies her. I had sex with four other ladies since I've known her, so it isn't just a case of being into the only girl around.
So here's what I'm thinking about: moving sucks, but I could always ask the students' administration whether or not there is a place in another home. Places are scarce, however, and usually they don't just let you move villi-nillyly. Also, the one I live in now is about a hundred yards from my main lecture hall, so wherever I move, it's a step down.
I only ask this because it's becoming a real problem, I can't quite focus on anything while she's two meters away, I alter my conduct, I avoid going into the kitchen when she's in there, for fear of annoying her and when I even so much as hear her talk to my male flatmate, my tummy feels all sorts of weird.
The dick move would be simply telling her, but for her this place in the home is just as much a blessing at it is for me, so it would be highly inconsiderate making things awkward for her.
Besides, it would only make me feel better and not lead to anything, as in half a year there's no indication she is anything other than politely neutral towards me.
Any suggestions?
You forgot the [girl blog] tag.
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No deception intended, edited accordingly.
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On October 29 2013 08:36 SixStrings wrote:
No deception intended, edited accordingly.
More of a quip than anything, I wouldn't sweat it.
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On October 29 2013 08:34 jrkirby wrote:
Ooooh. I love the disguised girlblogs.
Maybe try flirting a bit to see if shes a bit interested in you? Nothing over the top, just give her compliments out of the blue.
No chance of her being that. As I said, she hasn't given any indication of that, and believe you me, had there been any sign, I would have pounced onto that.
We're not even on the same fucking planet, she's way hotter than I am, she's way smarter than I am, and when I'm going to be a lowly chemist (and not of the kick-ass Walter White variety) she'll be an MD. So yeah, slim chance of that.
Also, I'm socially weird and she's rather secluded, so I would seriously freak her out being more than politely distanced.
Keeping that in mind, I spend an entire night drinking, smoking and writing an honest to god letter, and when I had written the perfect piece of prose on a single page of my best paper, I used that fucker to roll another joint.
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How well do you know her? I'm only asking this because if you try to get to know her better you might feel less nervous. Also, we tend to idolize people based off of our initial perception of that person, if you get to know her better, the idolization will dispel. Then you'll be fine, no?
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Lol, you cant be serious. Wanting to move out while your priviliged to live in a great location because you have the kind of lady roommate everyone would dream to have.. its just kinda absurd. You obv have been smoking too much to even consider this. Your in college/uni. All you need to do is get your papers and fuck around while you have the chance.
Sure, the situation is somewhat complicated because you could potentially screw up both living environment if you'd make an awkward move, but saying your scared to approach her because she's way hotter/smarter than you? That's just dumb as fuck.
I obviosly dont know much about you. At some point you seem like a normal guy (makes some rational comments, fucks around with girls, smokes weed) but at the same time your saying your socially weird (which is strange thing to say in regards of the former).
Again: I dont know you, but if your the average kind of guy that likes to go out, drink, party, smoke weed and fuck girls then it's hard to say your socially awkward. And if she's the type of smartass cute AND hot bookworm girl that's "out of your reach" because you are socially different, then yeah, she might not immediately dig you. But saying she's out of reach is kinda BS.
Ugh i dont feel like writing anymore. Ill just end this with a tip. If your looking to invest time to get more from her then casual sex. Try to spend doing activities together. This is easy as fuck because your livinf together. She likes to study? Grab your books and study with her. Doesnt need to be the same subjects. Being in same room will eventuelly lead to conversations. Not working? Try cooking together. W/e there are thousands of opportunities because you potentially see her on daily basis.
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On October 29 2013 10:40 Steins;Gate wrote:
How well do you know her? I'm only asking this because if you try to get to know her better you might feel less nervous. Also, we tend to idolize people based off of our initial perception of that person, if you get to know her better, the idolization will dispel. Then you'll be fine, no?
I had hoped that would happen, but it seems like that anything new I learn about her and every little chat we have adds to the initial image. Meh.
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You should probably read this:http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=395285
Works 100%
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On October 29 2013 19:02 playerboy345 wrote:
You should probably read this:http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=395285
Works 100%
I knew by your name a quality post was sure to follow. Thank you.
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Why don't you just accept the fact that you're in love with her? Clearly, you're trying to make up excuses not to confront her. Just do it, get it over with, chances are she's into you aswell.
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Ask her if you can watch her taking a dump. That should cure it.
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I read this thread and I'm pretty sure that the OP just wanted to share something with us and the question is just a placeholder so that people won't believe that this is a short autobiography.
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On October 29 2013 21:54 Sponkz wrote:
Why don't you just accept the fact that you're in love with her? Clearly, you're trying to make up excuses not to confront her. Just do it, get it over with, chances are she's into you aswell.
Because out here in the real world, actions have consequences and one not only has to consider ones own but also others' feelings.
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pics or she's an imaginary anime girl
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Jesus christ, just hit on her.
Ask her out, or if you're too cheap for that ask her if she'd be willing to eat some food you cooked with you while getting to know you better.
Besides, it would only make me feel better and not lead to anything, as in half a year there's no indication she is anything other than politely neutral towards me.
"If she doesn't show obvious interest in me I have no chance."
I just remembered again why I don't read girlblogs.
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Harsh, rash and probably stupid. I like it.
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