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On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly.
so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post 
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On October 07 2013 05:42 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly. so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post
Well, I have tried making them better. The problem is that I have no talent for writing. Everything you see has been taught to me, but even with that teaching it is still hard for me to make clear and understanding topics and papers. I can write a decent paper on calculation and math topics though.
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On October 07 2013 05:46 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 05:42 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:40 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:35 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:31 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 05:27 Smurfett3 wrote:On October 07 2013 05:02 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 04:48 ffreakk wrote:
OP seems like a delusional guy who takes criticism very poorly. That's what i've gotten out of this blog n all the comments/replies.
Additionally, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed. Two months, and it doesn't seem like he's able to read the "i'm not interested" message that she seemingly quite plainly sent him. I don't know but being called creepy, scary and outright delusional isn't criticism to me and is just plain for lack of a better word cussing me out? Like, I do not really listen or learn from people that do that and I have no reason to. If you respect me than I will respect you. If you do not respect me, why the hell should I take a single word of advice from you? instead of creepy, scary, and delusional how about hmmmm mysterious, intimidating, and strong-minded? Would you take criticism from me if i called you those things? And I am only typing this out of respect for ya I think you can tell from the blog that I took criticism well when people did that. If I seem hostile to them than you are a bit wrong since I had not hostility really in those specific ones. For instance the first one with chairman ray was maybe a little hostile but more so out of frustration than well no idea what the word is but not frustration? why were you pushed over the top with frusturation with chairman rays post? Was it the whole thing or a part of it that made you see red? Well, calling the current chick, a backup chick made me mad. On top of that people were telling me that I was creepy/scary. Not all of them which I am grateful to the ones that didn't. That and he seemed to misunderstand what the blog was about. It was about a friend I knew in highschool who I wanted to hang out with, but she wouldn't give me the time to do it. You can add in the interested in after that but that was the main idea behind the blog. I am not a great writer so I might not have portrayed that correctly. so a bunch of misunderstandings created by ambiguity through your writing. Well, I think you can see here how improving your writing skills might be beneficial for your next blog post Well, I have tried making them better. The problem is that I have no talent for writing. Everything you see has been taught to me, but even with that teaching it is still hard for me to make clear and understanding topics and papers. I can write a decent paper on calculation and math topics though.
it takes practice. And since you have no talent, it might just take a little bit extra to get to where talented people can normally write, but it's not impossible to make your writing better, just difficult
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On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life.
HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them.
You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses.
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Good stuff. Be sure to tell us about your future endeavors.
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Sounds like she dodged a bullet.
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On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:Show nested quote +On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses.
That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for.
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Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Yeah, you're a mess.
I mean, you're definitely not going to listen to us now. But maybe in 5 years you'll stumble onto your old account, read this blog and realize how ridiculous it was.
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On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for.
We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124
This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course.
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To the OP: your ID is quite ironic.
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Gonna need pics before we can accurately judge if you're in the 7.8 to 8.2 range.
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On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course.
First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary.
behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period.
This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this.
Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that.
According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples.
It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it.
it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this.
Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote.
edit: Yeah I still hate people like you. Also, still no fucking clue if she is interested in hanging out or not. Even though i told her to tell me if she wasn't. Frustration max but in calm mode.
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On October 07 2013 11:54 HappyCamper wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course. First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary. behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period. This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this. Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that. According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples. It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this. Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote.
there is social ettiquite that needs to be followed. saying fuck you isn't good social ettiquite
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On October 07 2013 08:49 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out. Yeah, you're a mess. I mean, you're definitely not going to listen to us now. But maybe in 5 years you'll stumble onto your old account, read this blog and realize how ridiculous it was.
Even a fucking admin really. I am at fault yes, but she is also at fault. She is not blameless. Do guys really fucking think girls are blameless.
It's always the guy's fault omg like totally. Yeah, shes pretty so she cannot do anything wrong. Do you not see the issue I am having with you people? There is post upon post telling me the same bullshit. This totally lowers my standards of the teamliquid community. I thought the teamliquid community was a cool community with adults that have lives. THat have lived through these fucked up situations. Now, I think it is full of beta white knights that have no clue what they are talking about. For instance, rekrul coolest fucking dude I know of (except day9) in the teamliquid community said nothing about that and only asked for pictures. Rekrul has lived life and I don't know if he supports what I did or not but he understands it.
edit: be more like kwark, he was sarcastic. I like sarcasm, makes me chuckle.
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On October 07 2013 12:10 Smurfett3 wrote:Show nested quote +On October 07 2013 11:54 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 09:15 Blisse wrote:On October 07 2013 08:15 HappyCamper wrote:On October 07 2013 06:49 DefMatrixUltra wrote:On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?
Now here is my rant. Fucking really chick why the hell would you like not even try to hang out with me. Fucking bitch mother fucking hell. I am so pissed and annoyed it isn't even funny. I fucking tried giving you chance after chance to hang out but you wouldn't even fucking try. FUCK YOU.
Apparently responding to statements like this by saying that the other person isn't at fault is "white knighting" now. Misattributing guilt and responsibility as above is not how a healthy individual deals with situations in life. HappyCamper, your _.-*-.-~own personal blog~-.-* is not free from criticism when you make posts like you did. People that are trying to get you to examine your mindset you respond to by attempting to insult them. You want to get mad because someone said that your paragraph up there was creepy given that the woman did nothing to deserve it? You can get angry, that's fine. You can interpret it as a personal attack. But responding to it by insulting people (calling them children or saying they're "white knighting") is an out so that you can dismiss it in your mind. I really think it's something you should consider. Feel free to hate my guts. But think about why you're getting these kinds of responses. That is a rant. It is speaking feelings not critical thinking. I even said thats a rant. Rants are for venting off frustration, that is what they are for. We have a vent your frustration thread. http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=235432¤tpage=124This is a blog and as such people can and will respond to whatever you post, and tell you you're an idiot for behaving like you've described. And you are one of course. First off, fuck you. I hate people like you. Second, my behavior had nothing to do with the situation. I could have been behaving extremely well. Which I do, I have little to no emotional background(in person). The only time I let my emotions slip is when I need to vent out a bit of frustration about any situation and that is what a blog can be used for. There are many reasons for a blog, but calling me an idiot on my own fucking blog. It is unneeded and unnecessary. behavior the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, esp. toward others. Listen you self righteous prick. If you were put in that situation that I was put in. I doubt you would behave any differently. Oh excuse me, unless your a fucking beta than you wouldn't get a single dam girl period. This blog more or less was a closure blog basically saying, " fuck this situation, im moving on". I thought I would share it with people so that I could tell people that it is better to go after girls that want to hang out with you over girls that don't even try to. With the other reason being, venting out my frustration over a fucked up situation. It was way more fucked up than you realize. The situation as simply as I can put it is this ( different from circumstances mind you) . I did not want to be single anymore ,but I wanted to go hang out with this cool chick. That is two conflicting emotions/feelings. Because of this confliction, I went through some serious fucking shit mostly due to the fact that I wanted to hang out with this chick but I can't hang out with her if I am not single. If, she messaged me right now saying lets go hang out. I would have to say I cannot hang out anymore, I apologize for that. Something along those lines. You can say I put myself into that fucked up situation, but it does not change the situation. Sometimes situations happen that are out of your control. This was one of them. Mostly due to the fact that people I have known for three or four years that I respect generally get more leniency on alot of stuff. So much so that it took me two months to say fuck this. Now she is not blameless in this. You fucking white knighters, are saying its not her fault. That isn't completely true, she did stuff that caused the situation to be worse. If she wasn't interested in hanging out, all she had to do was say," I don't want to hang out with you at all." Now, I mgiht be thats kind of fucked up, but now its even worse. Cause now its me being thats really fucked up and im annoyed on top of it. Eventually, even with my increased leniency on people i generally respect. I hit a limit that said fuck you. And I moved on from that. According to the MISC on the BodyBuilding website: A white knight is defined as a male that treats woman as goddesses and does nothing but shower then in compliments on how wonderful and beautiful and special they are. Maybe be used as a noun or a verb. Simply put, girls are never at fault. Really, people are seriously going to say that they are not white knighting my blog up? lets get some examples. It's more slamming your dick in a door than torture. She made it pretty clear she wasn't interested in you like that, but you gave her such a creepy vibe that she didn't wanna outright say it. it's because people who don't respond to you are not interested. She has no responsibility in all this. Is two examples enough baby? You want more? Look at what you fucking wrote. there is social ettiquite that needs to be followed. saying fuck you isn't good social ettiquite
I agree, but calling me an idiot makes me want to say that. Being a css player that I am, I talk quite a bit of shit. A general 10man of css goes as follows. I call them fucking bitches,retards,trash,garbage, and terrible players. I get the same dam shit. They call me that. However, it is two way trash talking and since css is a big part of my life. I cannot really change that without some serious no css.
edit: this is not an exaggeration. This happens every ten man almost.
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What you don't realize is it is ONLY IN HIGHSCHOOL where you can't date more than one girl at a time. After that it is free reign to date as many girls at the same time until you have the "exclusive' tag. I suggest you start early and have given both the time of day anyways.
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you were merely validation for her. feels good knowing someone desires you, doesn't it? but clearly she wasn't interested in you, but didn't have enough self-esteem or respect to turn you down. you said it yourself in your blog - there are other girls interested in you (unless you were lying or exaggerating which I think you were if you're getting this hung up over a rejection or lack of interest). look, i understand how you feel, but try to learn a lesson in this.
edit - I've learned in life when many people are telling me the same thing (as much as i don't want to hear it!), I should at LEAST be inclined swallow my insane amount of pride, tell myself that I probably don't know shit, and look into what is being said. You have two choices - suffer the same pain from being the same person, or allow the truth to set you free.
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On October 07 2013 13:07 beachbeachy wrote:
you were merely validation for her. sounds like she has low self-esteem and is not worth pursuing. you said it yourself in your blog - there are other girls interested in you (unless you were lying or exaggerating which I think you were if you're getting this hung up over a rejection or lack of interest). look, i understand how you feel, but try to learn a lesson in this.
I will try to take a lesson from this. However, due to the type of person I am. This can happen again. I give people I have known for awhile that I respect alot of leniency. She was one of those people. Now she isn't one of those people anymore.
I am hung up about it because I knew her for so long. That is the reason why.
edit: No, I have people in this blog telling me the exact opposite of what those people are saying. What you are saying, is the exact opposite of what they are saying. They are saying it is entirely my fault whereas you are saying it is both faults. It is more correct logically to assume that we both did something fucked up. Which we did.
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On October 06 2013 16:52 Rekrul wrote:
a pic of u and her would help TL.net analyze much more accurately
also screenshots of the conversations
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EPT
