Two months of being ignored/leadon(girl blog) - Page 6

On October 06 2013 12:29 HappyCamper wrote:
Alright guys, you know that girl that is beautiful,sexy,smart and you think she is into you. Well I have a messed up tale.


A little background information. The chick in question I have known this chick for three years from high school. We were not super close in high school, but we weren't just acquaintances either. We hung out and had a few good discussions and laughs during high school. I message her on facebook to see what she has been doing for you know the past year since I last saw her. Mind you, she friended me on facebook and not the other way around so yeah. That is the background time for some messed up stuff guys.


Alright, so it started with a facebook chat message. We talk about what we were doing in college and things of that nature. During the conversation she brings up troubles with guys which happened to make her tell me she was single. I asked for her number so that I could get in contact with her and maybe hang out with her.

The next part is the most messed up part really. For two months of texting back and forth, now im not bragging but when it comes to women I am "smooth". I put it in quotation marks cause I am only sometimes smooth. So, I would compliment her on pictures things she liked ect ect ect. However, I have a huge weakness that most people have an advantage in. I am terrible when it comes to conversations over the internet/phone after a period of time. This means, I like meeting in real life so that I can hang out and get closer with people in general, not just get close with girls im interested in.



I waited a long time asking her if she was free week after week. She didn't even try to give me the time so I could set up something for us to meet(edit this is more accurate). Honestly there was two reasons why.
One, she wanted to stay single. Two, this only makes sense because of number one mind you, she was scared of not being single anymore or turning me down. These reasons are only because I have known her for three years. If it was someone else, there could be hundreds of reasons really. ( I came up with ideas where we could meet up.) I have to add this or it just makes it seem like I wasn't even trying which I was.


Now, during this two month period. I have girls being interested in me, but I am trying to stay single so I can meet up with her since she is a really cool chick. This was torture by the way during that period. However, I am now most likely not single anymore. I say most likely because the girl that gave me the time of day has not made it official and we have not figured certain things out.


I made this blog to say guys if a girl is interested in you, but you supposedly want to give a chance to someone else. Go for the chick that gives you the time of day. If it is the one you want, go for that one. If it is the girl you are just interested in, go for her. Being ignored and having a girl absolutely not want to hang out with you is just the worse. I know, it was two months of pain.



Now do not get me wrong. There are sometimes legitimate reasons for chicks to not be able to meet up with you. However, if a chick does not try at all to meet up with you. You should move on. If she was interested in you, but playing hard to get. That's her fucking fault and you are in no way responsible for that. Sucks for her but what can you do?



edit: I will have another blog as soon as the girl I am currently getting together with becomes official. It will be a blog about how day9 changed the way I approached women and why I am thankful for day9.

edit 2: Apparently she was busy. Fuck me right? Prefer if your gentle though.

On October 06 2013 12:57 HappyCamper wrote:

No, I am upset that someone who I have known for three years did not want to hang out with me at all after two months. She was a cool chick that I was interested in that I wanted to be single just in case something were to happen. If we ended up as friends, I would of been fine with that. However, two months of her not giving me any time to be able to hang out with her. It really eats away at you. It is like you just messaged a friend you were cool with in high school who you may not have been super close with, but you wanted to hang out with that friend since he was a cool dude. This is the same only that it is a girl instead.

That and the text messages were making her seem interested. Mind you two months of texting is quite a bit of texting.

Edit: Like for instance she texted Hey there with a smiley face. That automatically means she wants the D.

Well, alot of girls are interested in me. I wouldn't consider myself model quality but 7.8-8.2/10 on the looks scale. If my hair is short I drop down to a 7.4-7.6/10. I would consider myself a decent looking dude. As far as quality of who I am, I would meet all her standards except maybe in the money department but she is a cool chick so I didn't really care about that.

As far as being lead on it is more or less me feeling that way instead of how it actually went down. It was weird how it went down so I cannot really say which was leading on which you know. However, it was me more of being a hurry to meet with her that made me more annoyed than ever. I had other girls interested in me and there was no way in hell that i was going to stay single for very long(it just happens that you get a girl). That was the main issue that was with it. Also, it felt like she seemed to think that I would always be available to her looking back on it. At least it seemed that way. Which would explain why she wasn't so inclined to meet up with me. Despite that, I managed about two months of staying single which was incredible, at least it is to me.

Just the circumstances and the overall position I was in made it worse. Which is why I had to rant a bit at the end of my blog.

edit: I am actually model quality. Especially lego model quality. Have you seen how sexy some of those lego bionicles look? MMMMMMMM