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XDJuicebox
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States593 Posts
May 12 2013 04:21 GMT
#1
This is a bit of a rant, so bear with me, and don't be too hard on me ><

Anyway, so basically, in 3rd grade, I was practically the only person at my school who played Halo. As we approached 8th, that number began rising dramatically. Then, I met my best friend, whom we shall name Jake. Jake and I bonded through Halo.

I was really busy grinding mass amounts of games so I could have a large store of games to analyze, and improve, which wasn't very fun, but then I decided to take some time out to teach Jake the game, and it really was quite fun. Jake improved astoundingly fast. Then I decided to quit the game for a while due to girls, and when I came back, Jake was extremely good.

Jake learned the game through playing online though, so naturally playing selfish and statwhoring was a huge part of it. I didn't give a crap about stats, I just wanted to win. I think you can see where this is going.

Anyway, Jake and I got really close, and there was a point where I was looking for teammates to play Gamebattles with, but his individual, self-centered statwhoring style conflicted with the way my team ran, so I stopped playing competitively with him, and only played with him when I was dicking around.

I quit Halo shortly after to pursue Starcraft. During this time, Jake and I got pretty close with this guy that Jake knew through wrestling - call him Albert. I actually still played a bit of Halo at this time, since that was all Jake did, and Albert wanted to play too, so we took the time out to teach him the game.

I was VERY encouraging to Albert. I kindly pointed out his mistakes, how to improve and things like that, I taught him sick strats, thumbstick control, angles, weapon usage, etc, and every time he died, I'd tell him what he could do to avoid that happening again. It was a very "you-can-do-it" sort of thing.

Anyway, three years pass, and I have since given up competitive gaming. But I still do play for fun. Jake and Albert have moved on to League of Legends now.

I decided to join them. Naturally, as the newcomer, I'd be kind of bad. Combine that with a 20fps laptop at school and not a lot of knowledge about the game - you'd expect me to be bad.

What I don't like about Albert though is the way he treats me. It's always

"What the fuck are you doing?"
"Dude, Ray, you fucking suck"
"Why did you pick ADC? Why didn't you just give Jake ADC?"
[Naturally Jake is a boss at everything <3]
"Dude you're fucking terrible"

I realized that I don't have to keep people like this in my life, so I removed him from everything because he'd just annoy me later on.

But still, it's quite frustrating; someone I treated with such care and nurturing treats me like this when the roles are reversed?

People.

Luckily, TeamLiquid is awesome <3

***
And then you know what happened all of a sudden?
Aerisky
Profile Blog Joined May 2012
United States12129 Posts
May 12 2013 04:43 GMT
#2
D'awww screw him

Yeah people can suck, but you just gotta learn to live with them or just cut them out if possible. Get a better laptop though XD
Jim while Johnny had had had had had had had; had had had had the better effect on the teacher.
AnachronisticAnarchy
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States2957 Posts
May 12 2013 05:04 GMT
#3
I actually don't know how he could be mad at you, it doesn't make sense. I mean, he chose to play with you, knowing that you are a noob and probably also knowing you had a shitty laptop.
What right does he have to get angry?
"How are you?" "I am fine, because it is not normal to scream in pain."
hp.Shell
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States2527 Posts
May 12 2013 05:23 GMT
#4
Yeah. You don't necessarily have to burn bridges, just don't play with him...
People. Yeah. I know about that too.
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XDJuicebox
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States593 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-05-12 06:23:01
May 12 2013 05:57 GMT
#5
On May 12 2013 13:43 Aerisky wrote:
D'awww screw him

Yeah people can suck, but you just gotta learn to live with them or just cut them out if possible. Get a better laptop though XD


Yeah, I just removed him from everything. Now that I think about it, he'd always been like that to be from the beginning, but I never noticed x.x
Definitely need to get a new laptop though, I wasn't intending on gaming on it LOL

On May 12 2013 14:04 AnachronisticAnarchy wrote:
I actually don't know how he could be mad at you, it doesn't make sense. I mean, he chose to play with you, knowing that you are a noob and probably also knowing you had a shitty laptop.
What right does he have to get angry?


Well, Jake was the one that invited me, but yeah, I don't get it either
He was getting so mad though it was kind of funny


On May 12 2013 14:23 hp.Shell wrote:
Yeah. You don't necessarily have to burn bridges, just don't play with him...
People. Yeah. I know about that too.



Well it's just the way he thinks in general, it kind of bugs me, I guess this really brought things to the surface
And then you know what happened all of a sudden?
LML
Profile Blog Joined March 2007
Germany1758 Posts
Last Edited: 2013-05-12 12:28:51
May 12 2013 12:28 GMT
#6
that's how you teach League of Legends
he's just preparing you for the public flame:d
LML
Qwyn
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States2779 Posts
May 12 2013 19:09 GMT
#7
Good that you burned those bridges.

I actually like having a computer that is incapable of playing games - keeps me focused on my work. Also, I wouldn't be surprised if Albert ended up resenting you for the advice you gave him. Honestly, if there is one thing that I learned it is that most of the time people don't want advice in games. And a lot of the advice tends to be overloading - it's too much for a newb to take in at once. As a more accomplished player - we do not realize that the sum of the information we have learned over years of play has been compressed into extremely tight thought patterns that we take for granted.

It's very easy to overload someone and turn them off of the game - I know from experience. So now, when I have friends who want to play SCII? I offer them LIMITED advice only if they ask me. And never in the vein of being absolute.
"Think of the hysteria following the realization that they consciously consume babies and raise the dead people from their graves" - N0
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