[Girl Blog] Texting - Page 3

On March 28 2013 22:50 Kommatiazo wrote:
Sounds a whole lot like you should go be friends with Jane and Brendan man, and not this other dude who seems, to use your term, to be a "douchenozzle". And then see what happens from there. It's possible to have a good conversation with someone who isn't interested in you, although I think you're safe placing your bet on the fact that Jane does at least entertain the thought of liking you. If you're not going to ditch douchenozzle I'd be expecting a friendzone and/or get-the-fuck-away zone eventually.

My plan of attack:
6 Don't hang out with homophobic friends anymore

9 Scout. find out if Jane is into any movies you are also into and try to watch a few with her at your place/hers (not a movie at a movie theater, those make for terrible first/early dates), Obviously, replace "movie watching" with whatever activity fits your situation/preferences, that's just my go to as a movie lover and because it's a fantastic move-making atmosphere with proper micro

14 Fast Expand, lay the groundwork for the lategame. Suggest bringing over a frozen pizza, etc, or take her out to somewhere casual first. And also, be prepared and accepting if Brendan is present, he won't cock block you obviously, so no big deal. Also, when the best friend approves you're in man. Ease into getting her alone, but ask her in a way that suggests that's what you want without being ambiguous or confusing

15 Scouting push. When you hang out together (alone or not) play it cool, but be intentional with you intentions man. Sit next to her, don't shy away if you accidentally touch

23A Attempt to do damage. If you can make a move, even a tiny one, do it man. If she's open to snuggle, go for it, if she's willing to talk late, stay, etc. If a big one, go for it also, IMO you should always slow play it (makes it better/more real), but that's up to you

23B If unable to do damage: Maintain course, expand further. Pull back, but don't friendzone yourself. Just because you aren't feeling her up after hanging out once and she isn't spending every second with you every day doesn't mean your cause is lost. Keep up the pressure, never let her drone too hard. Otherwise the cause will be lost no matter what and you'll get friendzoned. D:

**Note: IMO, if you're feeling like she isn't picking up on your signals and/or you feel like you're just terrible at sending them or whatever and it's looking like your scouting pressure is going to backfire and lose you the game, just pull your workers and tell her in plain old English what you are interested in, make a smooth joke about it or something, you're the one talking to her, you'll know what to say if it comes to that.


12:00-14:00 If gg still isn't thrown out, then you should go for it, wherever the line has been drawn, cross it. I.e. if you have sat very next to each other watching a movie, but not "cuddled" per se, go for the arm-around, if you've done that but nothing else, try to kiss her (WITH TACT obviously, don't just dive bomb it), if you've gone out but not alone, ask her out again but specify it as a date-date this time, alone, just the two of you, etc.

If you succeed and she responds positively to whatever move you end up making I demand that you hear "EEE HAAANN TIMIIIIINNGGGG" in your head as it happens. Alternatively, go full man mode and stop mid-move and shout it yourself.

Hopefully I gauged your situation accurately and didn't just throw out a bunch of beginner's advice for someone who didn't need it. :/ But you are the one who made the girl blog man, so don't blame me! lol

gl hf bro.

"REMEMBER: EEEEE HHAAAAANNNN TIIIIIIMMMIIIIIINNNGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!"