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TZLRazer
United States40 Posts
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
You like to ramble too. Neurotic as well. Reminds me of myself at times except in word form and taken to a higher degree. I find it funny you say you're direct, yet you can't even express the desire you have for her. Oh and you need to develop boundaries for yourself. Though i'm sure you already know that, just haven't done anything about it. | ||
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Ahzz
Finland780 Posts
I realize you've had this sitting idle for a few months so you've thought about it a lot already, but a reality check is in order, similar to what fractals said. Also, I may have missed some details, but: -We want what we can't have. That is human nature. You had a chance to date her, at least according to your own words. You didn't care then. When you lost your chance, you realize you care? Reality check. Also, you have a relatively interesting writing style. | ||
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TZLRazer
United States40 Posts
I'm normally very concise, but due to emotions and idiotic tangents that develop, yes, I do tend to ramble. Worst freaking metaphors ever, in that third one. But what's done is done, and that last letter will be sent in a much more condensed form, now that I can actually think clearly. | ||
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Mothra
United States1448 Posts
 I wouldn't send another letter. You already look extremely pathetic and desperate. Write more letters if it helps but don't send them. Work out your own frustration and pain and then move on. | ||
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TZLRazer
United States40 Posts
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pevergreen
Australia252 Posts
I've gone through that, come out the other side and I can tell you. Don't send it. Do not talk to her again, don't message her, don't respond to messages. Remove her phone number, unfriend her, whatever. It may take some time (took me just under 2 years) but you'll be better off. A lot better off. | ||
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Ahzz
Finland780 Posts
On October 10 2012 15:30 TZLRazer wrote: the last one is an example of what you just said. perhaps, but he's saying 'don't send it' and you say that you will (even if compressed). It's your life, but essentially everyone in the thread is saying 'forget about her'. Maybe that means something. Also, be the more mature one. You don't need to get the last word. | ||
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TZLRazer
United States40 Posts
If she won't make an effort, as she hasn't been making an effort this whole time, then I have no reason to do so either. I played my part, I executed my role. And she played games. So GL;HF to the next guy she decides to screw over. | ||
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MountainDewJunkie
United States10341 Posts
Consider this your opportunity to identify similar situations in the future and nip them in the butt, be it an attitude adjustment or a different action altogether. That's all that these kinds of things are good for: lessons. | ||
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