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Dear Marilyn, again,
I remember breaking up with you on the eve of our first anniversary, and making it clear to you the following morning. I also remember you pestering me for the entire week after that, even having the nerve to knock on my door.
You have no idea how cathartic it was to look you in the eye and tell you it's over. I want no more. Finished. Done. No. More. But you sat down and sobbed with the gentleness only you could do. I was startled. This could not be happening. I have rehearsed this moment over and over. I'll have no more of your schemes. I am firm. I said I'd be firm. It's beyond over.
But there you are, all broken and helpless. When you turned to me with your cute puppy eyes, I practically crumbled. Maybe I was impulsive in my decision before. Maybe you were not so evil after all. Maybe it was the promise of immediate sex, after all, we wouldn't have lasted this far if you didn't look like a goddess and weren't near as glamorous in bed.
I'll think more about it later on my way to school. Meanwhile, you can sleep on my bed and see you later.
What the fuck am I doing!
  
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you accidentally hit the post-button after leaving a message for ur (ex-)girlfriend on ur laptop
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Dang man...I remember the last blog.
She sounds like a bad hand, and all you gotta do is fold bro.
But if you call that hand...will life really answer your bluff!?
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On April 26 2012 23:22 RolleMcKnolle wrote:
you accidentally hit the post-button after leaving a message for ur (ex-)girlfriend on ur laptop
That.
Also, it's like for beaten women. There is always a moment you can go away, you don't change people for your own needs, either they are willing to and do actually change or they are lying to you. Don't be that guy, the nice guy turned asshole because he was too naïve and let someone harm him.
PS : I hope you had a good night at least 
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I had a girl kinda like this. She didn't seem quite as manipulating as "Marilyn", but could definitely use her feelings to get what she wanted.
This girl is bad news. Even if what she is doing/saying is sincere, she is still manipulating your feelings to get what she wants from you. You need to gtfo, it is only going to get worse, trust me.
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5/5 again, I love girl blogs!
Yeah man WTF are you doing? Gotta stick to your words.
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"In poker there is a moment in time where you have to take both of your balls into your hands and then push the chips into the middle."
While I'm still not able to see a visual picture of how the author of that quote intended the whole thing to look like, I think the point is quite clear. You sound as if you're about to have your balls cut off. The very foundation of a relationship is that you have to be able to relate to each other. Think of it as a fire, if both sides put wood in there it's going to keep both of you nice and cozy. If one person stops throwing fire in there and tricks the other person into investing more the game is already over.
Please don't turn into that guy who says "yes, sure" to everything his darling girl says just to feel miserable about those decisions for the rest of his life.
If you are genuinely interested in finishing this chapter (and I'm not entirely sure yet if you are), feel free to PM if you want someone who has.. experiences and solutions with those types of cases.
<3
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You got out. Stay out. Come on dude, puppy eyes are not a good reason to get back together!
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If you say give in now she'll learn that if she cries like child she can get her way. Just don't give into her childlike behaviour.
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Ha a good Nietzsche quote for you "For every man there exists a bait which he cannot resist swallowing." I hope the bait works out lol.
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EPT
