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[Girl Blog] Am I a big retard or did I just fail?
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Watercrystal
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Kojak21
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mrhobbers
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Seeker
Where dat snitch at?37095 Posts
Ouch..... that sucks man..... I mean that REALLLLLLLLLY SUCKS!!!! :[ Hope you feel better..... No, I don't think you're being a retard. You will however be a retard if you continue to brood over this. What's done is done, and if she feels like you guys are better off as friends, then just let it be. Move on, and find someone else, because clearly she does not see what a catch you are. | ||
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ZaplinG
United States3818 Posts
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Shock710
Australia6097 Posts
T_T not your not being retarded, its how everyone would feel in that situtation I hope this year makes more sense and works out well for u goodluck | ||
BigFan
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Watercrystal
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On January 01 2012 08:20 Shock710 wrote: WOW........that sucks T_T did u ever find out if that jerk did what he said? (i hope it was a joke) T_T not your not being retarded, its how everyone would feel in that situtation I hope this year makes more sense and works out well for u goodluck No, I didn't, however I think he was just trying to annoy me. She asked me lateron why I never took him serious, and I said that I would trust her. In addition to that, I couln't find out the truth anyways. This guy is just a fucking retard and I know I can't talk seriously with him. And talking to her... well, I don't know if that would be something she'd like to talk with me about if it's true, so I highly doubt that she'd give me the correct answer if it's the case. | ||
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Dalguno
United States2446 Posts
Meh, probably not all that you thought she was. Good thing you found out early, many other girls out there, make a blog when you find a new one.  | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14081 Posts
-She appreciates you as a person and is too shy to speak out loud that it's over. For her, it's completely obvious simply from her behaviour. You're not being a retard. You're committing the same mistake basicly 95% of men do in their lives: They think of a girl they barely know that she's the only possible love of her live. Consider the chances of that. There are so many girls out there. She's not "the one". Everytime you will try to "start a relationship" by telling her that "she has to be the one" she will most likely not appreciate it. Escalate (touch, kiss, have sex) first. Let her start the relationship talk. PS: Happy new year. Now go out and catch the last parts of whatever party you can, get drunk and look at how darn pretty some of those gals are. ^.^ PPS: Since I just reread some of the answers in this thread... every single guy who is like "Lawl, get over her she was a slut anyway" did not get over their first breakups yet. The reason stories like this fail is because the men did not have the balls to do what thousands of generations of men before them did. Stop blaming women for your incompetence. | ||
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llKenZyll
United States853 Posts
Don't force things | ||
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SarR
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FireBlast!
United Kingdom5251 Posts
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TheLOLas
United States646 Posts
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ePLocust
United States587 Posts
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Seeker
Where dat snitch at?37095 Posts
[Girl Blog] yadda yadda That would make girl blogs like "OFFICIAL" on TL  | ||
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PH
United States6173 Posts
Cut it off. That's just dumb. | ||
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r.Evo
Germany14081 Posts
On January 01 2012 09:00 PH wrote: Wow. She sounds like a total bitch. Cut it off. That's just dumb. On January 01 2012 08:51 TheLOLas wrote: I suffered a very similar experience around your age. None of it is your fault. It is entirely her own problem. In time you will learn from this. Also you/re a teenager, go have some fun. Wat. I don't even... Guy and girl go along very well. Girl is attracted to guy, guy is attracted to girl. Girl tries to get closer to the guy, guy appreciates it. Girl stays over at his place, they watch a MOVIE TOGETHER. Girl tries to somehow get him to make that goddamn first move by sitting close, cuddling, hugging him. Guy shows her that he is not interested in her sexually since he does not make a move. Girl decides "okay, fuck you, ima move on. I don't need you. I can get other guys, too.", is pissed and stops communicating for a while. Also looks around for other subjects in the mean time. End of story. You did not "suffer a very similar experience", you made the same mistakes as he did. It is not "entirely her problem". She is not a "dumb bitch". Start taking some responsibility for your own actions before pitying someone who didn't do that instead of providing him with a solution as to how he can prevent that the next time a situation like this comes around. | ||
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Guam3521 Posts
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Dalguno
United States2446 Posts
On January 01 2012 08:45 r.Evo wrote: Escalate (touch, kiss, have sex) first. Let her start the relationship talk. In his defense, going from a "first kiss" to having sex is a bit of a jump. | ||
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