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decafchicken
United States20159 Posts
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Lokgar
United States147 Posts
Acquire wealth. | ||
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Paraclete
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Game
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DrTJEckleburg
United States1080 Posts
Rough. | ||
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Kurr
Canada2338 Posts
Also, get better friends. On September 25 2011 10:59 bre1010 wrote: You sound like kind of an asshole, how can you get mad at other people if you're sleeping around? it seems hypocritical Granted, but everyone involved also seem like assholes in this story. Also, they all sound really horny. Maybe they should just all get together and have a giant orgy. Too many guys though, need her to bring some more chicks. Seriously, I know he isn't bringing in every day life details but his story sounds like these people are fucking 24/7. | ||
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bre1010
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decafchicken
United States20159 Posts
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
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Djzapz
Canada10681 Posts
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muse5187
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
Fuck all of them and run to another life is what I wish I could do if I was in your place. Twisted shit man, no joke | ||
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Gonff
United States686 Posts
On September 25 2011 10:59 bre1010 wrote: You sound like kind of an asshole, how can you get mad at other people if you're sleeping around? it seems hypocritical Logic doesn't really work when it comes to thoughts/emotions you might have about women. OP is very understandably upset. Just when he figures out he might have an interest in the girl and starts trying to fix things it blows up bigger than him/her and messes with his most important, concrete relationship (when you're in college, buds/roommates are absolutely the most important relationships I believe). Even the best friends are capable of making hurtful decisions, as everybody messes up sometimes right? The way that chick said "if you sleep with other girls again I'm done" made it sound to you like she wasn't doing the same, and that makes her a pretty big bitch imo, because she had the chance to come clean and she didn't, while you did (whether you had control over it or not, you still did). You learned a valuable lesson though: never hold a woman to a higher standard than you hold yourself to in any relationship. I think you just took her at her word and didn't follow that rule. I know the two of you weren't officially dating, but anything more than a one-night stand is a kind of relationship in my book. In every relationship, people cue off each other's behavior, and she cued off your indiscretions when she made hers. She had to rationalize her decision somehow, even though that doesn't excuse her actions at all, and she knows what she did was wrong. Step one is to 100% talk it out with your two best friends. Everything, all feelings, expectations, misunderstandings need to be discussed and worked out so you're all on the same page. You can't let this sit, and you can't let it get between the three of you. Step two is to wait. D-Chicken, the only thing that's going to fix this is time. That's it. Every day the sting of hearing that news and feeling like you messed up will slowly lessen, and the likelihood of changes of heart and reconciliations will slowly increase. Just keep your head down, work hard, and keep your friends close. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
Does the town bike metaphor work in this scenario? In my opinion, she's putting standards she herself can't respect and I see problems in the near future anyways. | ||
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Probe1
United States17920 Posts
On September 23 2011 16:40 Probe1 wrote: So she cheated on her boyfriend with you; hooked up with you and your roommates; acted clingy and then dismissive. Fuuuuuuuck her man. That's not a keeper. Edit: LOL at the catz reference How many times do I gotta say it. You know she's terrible. You're still trying to make that work. Stop it. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
Once she starts hurtin', you gotta cut her out. ezpz If she wants sex, grease the chain, oil your wheels and have a go. If she's looking for more, say that your insurance of giving a shit doesn't cover it. done. | ||
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HackBenjamin
Canada1094 Posts
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Disregard
China10252 Posts
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FullNatural
United States180 Posts
Also, get new friends. | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
On September 25 2011 13:57 FullNatural wrote: You guys were both fucking around with other people, so I dont really see what the problem is. You cant really put any blame on her. Also, get new friends. Except she's the one who's blaming him? | ||
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